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Archived questions from: 16 February, 2009 (see latest in Family category)

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Family: Help and advice

My younger sister has been looking at lesbian porn on MY PC!!!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5550 days ago

16 February 2009 (M) - Dear cupid, I really need some help. I really don't get along with my 10 year old sister.. she gets on my nerves, you dont even know. Well the problem is.. I got on the computer around 12 today and was checking the history and I saw that someone ...

Does it hurt the children more to grow up in a divorced home or an unhappy one with the parents together?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5549 days ago

16 February 2009 (F) - I was engaged to my ex for 5 years. We ended up breaking up for a stupid reason and I didn't contact him for months. He ended up sleeping with a girl and getting her pregnant after the break up. I found out later. We spoke and texted everyday and ...

Her parents are making her break up with me, help!!!!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5551 days ago

16 February 2009 (M) - Hi, I'm 15 and my gf is 14, we've been going out for 4 and a half months now, I really love her and she really really really really loves me, her parents just found out about us, and they're making her break up with me in front of them!!!!! What do ...

I was RAPED 4 years ago, how do I tell my boyfriend our son ISN'T his???

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5551 days ago

16 February 2009 (F) - I was raped four years ago, and my in these past few weeks thing are being revealed to me. I have seen this man again after all these years and my 4 year old son is his spitting image. I never told anyone I was raped except my sister. How do I tell ...

Breastfeeding a 10-year-old? I'm shocked, what do you think?

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 4355 days ago

16 February 2009 (F) - I was shocked! I recently discovered that my aunt sister in-law is still breastfeeding her 10 year old daughter. I came about this information from my own daughter around the same age. Being the concerned parent that I am casually engaged the topic ...

Should I tell my mother that I've been using her vibrator?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 5531 days ago

16 February 2009 (?) - Okay so I have a major problem. It's the second time that I've had the guilty feeling this bad. But it's for really stupid things. I've done really really worse things and I've never given it a second thought and it just bugs me that I'm bothered by ...

Shall I sleep with him - will this makes things better?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5551 days ago

16 February 2009 (F) - I have not been too happy with my b/f. We have a 6 year old. We do not live together. I have two older teenage boys. My older son has been causing a lot of grief and I had social services involves as I hit him in a way to cause harm as he brusied ...

Should I tell my mom my brother's taking drugs???

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5199 days ago

16 February 2009 (F) - I NEED HELP!!! This has really nothing to do with relationships, but my mom asked me to find out whether or not my older brother is doing drugs(he is). She is worried about him and wants to know what's going on. Now I told her that's unfair to ask m...

I fell in love with my soulmate but it's a friend of my wife...

This question has 22 answers - newest was posted 2695 days ago

16 February 2009 (M) - Hello, Let me just come right out and say it, I fell in love with one of my wife's friends. Yes, I'm sure I will get bashed here but it wasn't something I planned on doing. I have known this person for 7 YEARS and always found myself with her even ...

Mother in law is slowly dying and do not know how to cope with her...

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16 February 2009 (F) - My mother in law has a dehabilitating illness that will eventually kill her, there is no known cure and her condition has gotton extremely bad. It is now to the stage that she falls over about 4 times a day in her house. She would then either call ...

I am not happy with her double standards!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5551 days ago

16 February 2009 (M) - I have a girlfriend of over 4 years. She has 2 kids (18 and 20) due to her request of no sex or sleeping over while the kids were in the house, until they were 18 years old. This request was made years ago. Now that they are both of age I told her ...

Was I in some way wrong? Follw up to my question

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5552 days ago

16 February 2009 (M) - My mother is diagnosed of a fatal disease and lives in a different part of the country. I usually fly out to meet her. I have one good friend in my city. since my mother has been sick, i have not felt like being very social. this friend has been ...

My girlfriend wants her space to think after I cheated on her.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5550 days ago

16 February 2009 (M) - I cheated on my girlfriend we have been together for two about half years it was hard for me to tell her but I did she was so angry with me, I felt like the scum of the earth knowing what I had did to her it was so hard to hear her cry that much I ...

Would you forgive?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5552 days ago

16 February 2009 (M) - My mother is diagnosed of a disease and lives in a different part of the country. I usually fly out to meet her. I have one good friend in my city. since my mother has been sick, i have not felt like being very social. this friend has been getting ...

I wanna have sex, but I'm just too scared. Is that normal?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5552 days ago

16 February 2009 (F) - Eventually I wanna try to have sex but I'm still so young. I would have sex now, but I'm terrified of the condom breaking and I'm too scared to ask my mom for birth control so some of the stress of sex can rub off. I don't know how to handle th...

Dating cousins.

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 5540 days ago

16 February 2009 (F) - My sister confided in me last night that her and our cousin have been dating. His great, great, grandfather married my great, great, grandmother and they had kids and those kids had his mom. Therefore, he is blood. As my sister told me about them ...