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Why would he lie about being single when I'm married?

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Question - (11 October 2009) 3 Answers - (Newest, 13 October 2009)
A female United States age 41-50, anonymous writes:

I am a married women and have been cheating. The man I am cheating with has two children and is seperated from the mother. However, I have reason to believe that he is married to her. He claims they dont have any contact with each other unless it relates to the kids, but she wants to get back with him. I want to know why would he lie about being single when Im married?

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (13 October 2009):

a case of pot calling the kettle black.

you are also cheating and lying. so what difference does it make whether your married lover is lying to you. you should be more concerned about your marriage than wondering about your lover and his wife and his kids.

priorities my darling, priorities!

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A male reader, CaringGuy United Kingdom +, writes (11 October 2009):

Before anything else, ask yourself why you're cheating. This guy is using your for sex and nothing more. He offeres you no future at all. Try looking at your own marriage before that he compltely dead, and if it is already dead, leave your husband and spend time just on yourself. Don't be used, but don't wreck your marriage if it can be saved. Lots of luck.

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A female reader, wiccanslove United States +, writes (11 October 2009):

He probably thinks that you want to see other people and he does want to be with other women. And he is also confused about the situation. the lying is probably his saying hr wants to be exploring the world and trying new things. Maybe you should too.

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