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Archived questions from: 23 February, 2009 (see latest in Cheating category)

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Cheating: Help and advice

My man has a history of cheating on me and dating teenage girls. Now another one says he's with her, but he denies it. Am I wasting my time on a man that'll never change?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5549 days ago

23 February 2009 (F) - Hi everyone, I would like to make it clear that i love my man 101% before i go any further! I'm not sure how to put this but I've been with my man about a year and a half and all is good but in the early day's he did cheat on me with someone but...

I sincerely regret I cheated on my wife, what do I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5549 days ago

23 February 2009 (M) - I have messed up. I cheated on my wife. I tried to come on to her best friend and I feel awful. I was going to tell her about it tonight when I got home but her friend already has. She says she is done with me. How can I get her to stay with me. I ...

I need objective advice... She wants to be friends... is there any serenity in this?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5548 days ago

23 February 2009 (M) - I began a relationship with a woman who was younger than me a little over five years ago. Initially I didn't imagine the relationship would last given numerous variables beyond our age difference, but as time went on I quickly learned that I had ...

Do I have any legal rights after living with him for 7 years?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5549 days ago

23 February 2009 (F) - I had posted yesterday, I am the woman who is involved with the married but separated man. I appreciate your responses. I have this question and it is really urkin me for some reason. Even though I have invested almost 8 yrs with this man and lived ...

Did he only come back to me because the other woman didn't want him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5547 days ago

23 February 2009 (F) - I got married in 1981, 7 years later I had an affair, cause my husband was always leaving me in the house with 2 kids and I thought he was, he found out then 6 months later he left me for another women he worked with. She ran a pub he moved in with ...

Is this a no win situation?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5549 days ago

23 February 2009 (F) - Hi yet again! If you've been following my story you might remember my husband who was for several months flirty texting a work colleague 20 years younger and saying they loved each other etc. although a text I luckily saw from her confirms it was n...

How to handle my husband's trust issues?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5548 days ago

23 February 2009 (F) - I am 27 years old, with three kids and a husband of 6 years. We have been together fo 10 years this April. Well, about 4 yeas ago i left my husband for several reasons the main was i was tired of being taken for granted. I stayed gone for about 3 ...

Should I leave my married lover after 8 years?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5548 days ago

23 February 2009 (F) - Ok, here goes! I met a man 8+ years ago (when I was ending a bad marriage of 8 years) who told me his wife was "sick" and not able to be with him. After a while I gave in and we started a relationship, working together at a few places over the ...

I'm seeing someone new. She is great but I still love my ex (who cheated)!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5549 days ago

23 February 2009 (M) - Hey guys, I've been reading some very good advice on this forum. The posters here are very cool and helpful. If I can ever help I promise to, but right now, I'm afraid it is me who is going nuts. Let me start by saying, I think I'm crazy...

I tried to save my marriage after my wife cheated but now I think it is time to move on

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5549 days ago

23 February 2009 (M) - Today is Monday .. saturday we got a big fight with my wife and she took my two children ( 5 and 11 yrs ) to a friend's house, now I dont know what to do, mainly the fight is for always the same,for money, I work she does not, she and my kids just ...

Getting married with my b/f soon but falling in love with a female friend! I'm so confused!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4584 days ago

23 February 2009 (F) - i am a straight woman (have dated 8 men in my life) and currently in a happy relationship with my boyfriend of 18 months...we're getting married in oct! a month ago, i went to a pub with some friends and one of my girl friend's friend (call her...

I can't stop thinking about how my dad cheated on my mom.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5547 days ago

23 February 2009 (F) - OK so here is what happened: Last weekend I went on a family weekend getaway with my parents and some other extended family. The cabin we were staying in had no insulation and anything said downstairs was heard upstairs. I was upstairs in bed,...

We're both married, having a purely sexual affair - why lately has he gotten so clingy?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5544 days ago

23 February 2009 (?) - I am having a sexual affair with this man. We are both married. The affair is nothing but sexual. We meet about once a month for no more than 2 hours. There is no calling in between meetings or any other form of communication. No lunches or ...