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Archived questions from: 20 February, 2009 (see latest in Cheating category)

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Cheating: Help and advice

I was picking myself up but now its back to a broken heart

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5552 days ago

20 February 2009 (F) - He accused me Of cheating when I wasn’t.. he didn’t contact me till 2 months and I told him 2 call me back cos I was out.. he called me back and asked about my BF and said I don’t know and he said he's not trying to get into my knickers he was just ...

Lonely all the Time

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5552 days ago

20 February 2009 (F) - Hello Again, I am a 34 year old female who feels alone. As you all know I have a relationship with a married man and we have been going through some tough times. But I am so alone. I feel like there is no one in this world for me. I am a heavy set...

I've kept my cheating a secret, but it's killing me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5552 days ago

20 February 2009 (F) - Ive been with my boyfriend for 9 months and we are soo close. Ive never felt so strongly towards someone and i'm extremely glad i'm with him. And he tells me he feels the same. But ages ago, when me and him were together for about 4 months, I ...

It's our 30th anniversary and I hurt my wife by telling her about a brief dalliance years ago...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5552 days ago

20 February 2009 (M) - I am a 65 year old male and have been happily married for nearly 30years .We have always said we would renew our marriage vows at this anniversary.I suffer with depression and I am on medication.A few days ago we were discussing the renewing of our ...

How do I resit the temptation to cheat? The urge is strong

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5552 days ago

20 February 2009 (M) - I've been looking around on the web for advice to this question, but can't find a satisfactory answer. I have been dating the same girl for three years now, she's gorgeous and I love her, but she has some issues and we don't have sex very often. ...

How do you regain trust towards someone?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5552 days ago

20 February 2009 (F) - I want to know how you can regain trust for someone, and how do you know when you're ready to forgive someone. My boyfriend cheated on me emotionally a few of months back. He lied to me and had always liked an ex of his and had been seeing her ...

I'm wearing the ring, but do I say yes??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5552 days ago

20 February 2009 (F) - Comments please. I have been with my partner,living together for nearly 6 years.2 years ago i found him on an internet dating site,i spoke to a few of the ladies concerned he eventually gave up the ghost, as we say in the UK,apologised and we moved ...

I cheated and now she wont see me on spring break

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5552 days ago

20 February 2009 (?) - I cheated on my girlfriend (we're long distance) with her best friend by having sex with her. I cant believe I did something so stupid. Anyway I came clean with her (my gf). It was the worse hearing her cry. She even threw me of her house but the ...

I cheated but I want to make it work again

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5551 days ago

20 February 2009 (F) - My name is Jamie and i'm 18 years old. I know this is a little long, but please read what i have to say and help me. If you have been in my, Alex or Joe's situation before you're thoughts would be very welcome. I cheated on my boyfriend of 2 y...

Best wants to cheat on her b/f what do I say to her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5551 days ago

20 February 2009 (F) - ok so my friend told me the other day that she cheated on her bf about a year ago with some guy she met through another friend. so anyway she finished it with the "guy" and ended up getting pregnant. i believe the baby is her bf's. however now she ...

He swears he didn't cheat, but others say he did

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5552 days ago

20 February 2009 (F) - I have a partner who I have been with 4 years and have a baby with. In the first year he cheated on me and we split for six months but got back together. The first year after we got back together was really tough and we had several 'breaks' - where ...

Lost in a triangle

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5552 days ago

20 February 2009 (M) - Ok this is a very weird, confusing and difficult situation so bare with me. I've never been in love before. I(23) met a girl(24) this summer in July when she walked into my job. She came in with her "boyfriend"(20) and all three of us were talking. ...

How can I decide what the truth is here?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5550 days ago

20 February 2009 (F) - I recently heard rumours about my husband cheated on me, a year ago! The girl in the rumour would be one person that I would not doubt he slept with, because they worked together and she was bold enough to tell him she would sleep with him, married ...

I want to give all my love to my wife but she doesn't seem to want it!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5552 days ago

20 February 2009 (M) - I am a 57 year old husband, married for the last 32 years. For the last couple of years my wife has been totally unloving (could be the menopause?) and I am tempted to seek closeness elsewhere. I love my wife dearly and fancy her to bits, she's ...

I loved this married man, I don't understand why he replaced me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5552 days ago

20 February 2009 (F) - Hello Dear Friends, There is a situation that I have never understood in my life. Well, I have always found it very wrong that a girl goes out with a married man and I was convinced that I would never fall for a married man, but I did fall in love ...

I want to be with him

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5553 days ago

20 February 2009 (F) - I am a married women and i have been having a relationship with a married co worker.(he is 48)It started 4 months ago we hit it off and have many things in common.He knew that my own marriage was having problems and we were going to split up our ...

Does my ex really love me or is he using me??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5552 days ago

20 February 2009 (F) - I was planning to move away 150m to start a life with the man I have been in a relationship for 2 1/2yrs(we also have a son). My ex (we were together for 9yrs,started dating when I was 17) and I met to make arrangments with our 2 children. We ende...

My best guy friends suggested to break up with my b/f and move in with him, what do you think?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5549 days ago

20 February 2009 (F) - Ok so I am 17 and my boyfriend is 21 and he has started pulling away. I have been cheated on before, and i knew that it was going on but he didnt act any different, so now i have some serious trust issues with guys. My boyfriend now of just over 7 ...

He's so awesome, but isn't completely honest.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5553 days ago

20 February 2009 (F) - I am 35, divorced and a mother of a 9year old boy. My current boyfriend (aged 45) and I have been together 5years.He told me from word go that he was married, having problems with his wife and was in the process of trying to get a divorce.There was ...