A
female
age
41-50,
*HATandSWEET
writes:Hello Again,I am a 34 year old female who feels alone. As you all know I have a relationship with a married man and we have been going through some tough times. But I am so alone. I feel like there is no one in this world for me. I am a heavy set brown female that is very sexy. I am going back to school to get my diploma and I have a eight year old daughter that I take care of. But nothing I mean nothing seems to make me happy. I have been asking myself what did I do to anyone that is so bad that I can't find happiness. I can't even being to tell you what happy is. I know that when I see my friend and we go out and we spend time together I seem to be happy but I don't know if I really am. Because I know at some point he has to leave and I am all alone again. My daughter and I do things together but I still would like to have that adult attention. The few females that I do talk to always have negative things to say so I try and not be around that. I am getting to the point that all I do is cry and stay in the house and I stay angry all the time. I am asking for some help. I need to know how can I begin to make myself happy and how can I regain my confidence. The been alone part is getting so bad that everyday I ask my friend can we hook up so that I can see him and have the adult attention. But all he can say is no it's not my time and move on to the next topic. I need to know what to do. I drink on occasions and that has taken a drastic turn now every time I am sad or alone I go to the store and get something to drink. I can't afford to pick a habit up so please please help. Why is it that when you try to do well and make things right it never works out for you?
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 February 2009): I believe when you leave another woman's husband alone you will start feeling better about life and about yourself.
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