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My girlfriend is in debt due to paying some of her adult son's expenses. Should I help her financially? She hasn't asked me to

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 293 days ago

2 October 2016 (M age 51-59 - My gf works in a low paid job.I also work, and earn more than her, but not a fortune.Which is why I pay for all our holidays, going out to restaurants, and most of her new clothes (which she spends quite a lot on). On the other side, I live in her house, and don't pay toward ... (269 words

I can't date my co-worker but I think he likes me too. What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 292 days ago

2 October 2016 (F age 18-21 - I've been working at my retail job for almost 2 years, I am extremely close with everyone who works there and love going to work. Over the summer me and a group of people hung out a lot and this one guy in particular (lets name him T) started flirting with me, he'd text me ... (149 words

I miss my ex sometimes but am afraid to tell my girlfriend

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 292 days ago

2 October 2016 (M age 26-29 - I miss my ex from time to time. We were together for 4 years. I have a gf and we are honest about everything. I feel bad for not telling her. We have been dating for 5 years. I never use to understand why people kept secrets between someone they love and trust, I feel like... (70 words

My ex broke up with me so why is she acting so weird about avoiding me?

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2 October 2016 (M age 26-29 - My ex was picking fights so we broke up and it ended messy. I tried everything to keep it going. At the time I thought it was completely my fault and I was doing something wrong but looking back now I know it was both of us but largely because of her of own faults. She has many ... (213 words

Is it possible for your BF to have a tryst in an hour?

This question has 32 answers - newest was posted 290 days ago

2 October 2016 (F age 41-50 - Likely or unlikely? Possible or not possible? Your boyfriend goes to the Home Depot and is gone for exactly one hour. Is it possible for him to leave his car in the Home Depot parking lot, have another woman pick him up, take him somewhere to have sex, and then drive him ... (159 words

I'm not ready to see someone all the time but I think he is!

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2 October 2016 (F age 30-35 - I got out of on again, off again 1.5 year relationship about 5 months ago. I recently started to date someone and while I feel its going well and there is defiantly potential, I know I am not at the same pace as him. I want to go much slower, and be more casual, and I can tell ... (365 words

My ex moved on so quickly after our breakup and I am not coping with it very well

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2 October 2016 (F age 22-25 - I was with my ex partner for 5 years from the age of 16, he was my first love and we did everything together. Unfortunately in the last two years his mum left home so I seemed to take over the job, I cooked every weekend for him his dad and brother, cleaned and just did ... (398 words

What's going on? He asked for my number. Yet he still hasn't asked me out for a date?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 289 days ago

2 October 2016 (F age 30-35 - I'm a member of a local swimming pool and a few months ago I got talking to a guy who had just joined. Since then we have become really friendly seeing each other there a couple of evenings a week. A few weeks ago the guy asked for my phone number and to connect on Faceb... (190 words

My mother was ok with my brother's Gf visiting but she is not as welcoming towards my Bf. Why would my mother react this way?

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2 October 2016 (F age 13-15 - I'm 13 with a 14 year old boyfriend who's parents are super chill and unrestrictive of most things, but mine are sometimes restrictive sometimes not which can be a real pain in the rear. My older brother, who is 16, had a girlfriend when he was 14-15 who used to come over all ... (329 words

How do I respond to my wife now I know about the affair she had with my (then) best friend behind my back?

This question has 21 answers - newest was posted 153 days ago

2 October 2016 (M age 51-59 - I just found out that my wife had a sexual relationship with my best friend and the best man at my wedding. This happened 26 years ago! We had been dating exclusively for 4 months at the time. Even though it was so long ago, I feel like it could've happened at yesterday. I f... (1071 words

How can I establish a good relationship with my sister in law if she wants nothing to do with me?

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2 October 2016 (F age 26-29 - I've been married to my husband for two years. We're not a perfect couple, nobody is, but in general we are very happy. On certain issues we are not the most compatible, but again, we are happy and we make it work. He is a middle child. He has an older sister and a younger br... (319 words

Is it worth calling her up after 3 years? Or should I just let it go?

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2 October 2016 (M age 30-35 - 3 years ago I met a beautiful and smart girl at comic con and we hit it off right away. She was 19 and even though we lived 80 miles from each other, we made it work and saw each other every weekend. We got into a relationship and everything seemed to be going fine. She even... (563 words

He was my FWB. Should I just leave him alone, for now?

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2 October 2016 (F age 18-21 - About a year ago I had a one night stand with a guy i met on a night out, we got on really well and started texting and having casual sex regularly. Both of us didnt want a relationship so we decided to be friends with benefits. After a few months he suddenly stopped texting me ... (419 words

My husband lost his job but he wants to stay here and tough it out in the midwest. How can we resolve this?

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2 October 2016 (F age 36-40 - Me and my husband moved from one state to another state for my husband's new job three months ago. As of last Thursday, he's lost his job and I am beginning to question if this was even a good idea!! I'm a mom to a 6 year old daughter, and work in management level for a f... (177 words

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