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Is it bro 'code?

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13 October 2016 (F age 22-25 - I recently moved to a new area, and I've met a lot of people in the time I've been here. At the very beginning I was swept off my feet by a guy, but ultimately it was just a fling. While that "relationship" was fading, I met a man who happens to also know the guy I had been ... (273 words

He's not in the least interested so why does he want me in his life?

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13 October 2016 (F age 36-40 - Hey everyone. a few month ago i went on a date with a guy we then decided to be in a relationship . long story short he wasted my time made excuses not to see me and wasted my time i said its over and dumped him . he wanted to be friends so i kept him at a distance as an o... (236 words

Am I wrong for feeling that I'm not getting enough sex? I am frequently jealous of people who have sex

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13 October 2016 (F age 26-29 - I lost my virginity at 22 and have been a late bloomer but enjoy sex a lot. I am very selective too. But I feel like I am not getting enough sex? I am picky and have had few relationships, just a few lovers but that fizzled out because we werent sexually compatible but i... (339 words

Is this relationship worth holding onto?

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13 October 2016 (M age 30-35 - my girl and I were separated but still living together with a baby. I found out she was talking to someone else, she said she never slept with him but did make out with him and came home with a hickey one day. everything is in the open now and she says she still loves me. is ... (62 words

My boyfriend has a very inappropriate colleague who I'm extremely uncomfortable with; he says he'll avoid her but doesn't match his words

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13 October 2016 (F age 30-35 - My fiancé works with this girl who I accepted as a friend of ours and as part of our group. He had told me that she had displayed scandalous behaviours in the past (had tried to sleep with him while he had a girlfriend and told him she would never find out) etc, he rejected her ... (736 words

Should I pursue my options or wait it out until I wouldn't feel guilty?

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13 October 2016 (F age 18-21 - I just broke up with my long distance boyfriend of 3 years. We are seniors in college and heading in different directions. I still love him but I just think if we continue to ignore issues and try to force it to work, we will get even more hurt in the end and compromise great ... (338 words

I didn't trust him and it has affected our relationship

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13 October 2016 (F age 41-50 - I need some advice.... I have been with my partner for just over 1 year but we have known each other for about 3. Generally we get on really well. We both work shifts and sometimes don't see each other for a week at a time. He is 10 years older then me and has been married ... (296 words

I'm having second thought about marriage

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13 October 2016 (F age 26-29 - My boyfriend has proposed to me, and even though I said yes, I'm now not sure whether I did the right thing. Last year my boyfriend admitted to sleeping with 3 other girls in the first year of our relationship. He told me that he wanted me to know because it was eating a... (246 words

How do I make the first time a good time?

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13 October 2016 (M age 18-21 - Me and my girlfriend are planning on doing it and i want to make it as good for her as it would be for me. I heard that it hurts like realllly bad so i just want to know if there's anything that would help it feel better if not almost completely take away the pain of her first ... (60 words

I'm worried he'll disappear when he finds out I'm a virgin!

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13 October 2016 (F age 22-25 - I've met the guy and things are going well. We've been on dates and get on really well and I feel comfortable with him. However, recently he's asked me to stay over at his and I'm sorta afraid too :/ This is because I feel he will want to have sex With me. Which is not s... (147 words

Should I not bother meeting him?

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13 October 2016 (F age 26-29 - I met a man on Facebook and we're meeting up this week.The problem is he is French and lives in Quebec. He speaks broken English from what I've gathered through text messages. English and French isn't my first launguage either but I live in Canada ,but I speak enough English ... (204 words

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