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How do I raise this issue with my husband? So that my husband will raise the issue with the girl's mother?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 167 days ago

5 October 2016 (F age 26-29 - Hi, id just like some advice regarding children as no matter what choice i make i fear im going to upset someone. my husband and i have a son. My husband also still sees his step daughter from his relationship before me. He sees her two Saturdays a month as she believes... (492 words

Fear of commitment is holding me back

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 168 days ago

5 October 2016 (F age 30-35 - So I have a problem. I have a significant fear of commitment. I suppose that's the only way to describe it. And I don't know how to change it. I'm in my early 30's and I've been this way for as long as I can remember. I'm gay, for the record. Not that that changes anything... (557 words

I've lost the spark for dating

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 168 days ago

5 October 2016 (M age 26-29 - I seem to have lost the spark or the energy with dating. Is this what happens with adult life ? I have been single now for about 6 years and have pretty much missed out on all the 'fun' years of relationships. Now I have been out on a date here and there and spoke to a f... (179 words

I was offended by the comment my personal trainer made in assuming I wanted to have an affair

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 168 days ago

5 October 2016 (F age 51-59 - Some of you may recognise my story. I met a Personal Trainer who works at my gym. Was not attracted to him at first then gradually got to know a little about him and started growing an attraction. I feel the attraction was mutual as I could read his body language. Cutt... (518 words

I'm hurt that my friend lied and deceived me over a man

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 168 days ago

5 October 2016 (F age 22-25 - I still can't get over my anger and hatred for this ''friend'' who lied and deceived me over a man I was very close too. This girl pretended she was my friend. She said she had a boyfriend, but was hanging round this man (I was close too) all the time. When I question... (236 words

We've been living together for 18 months and my b/f still doesn't have a permanent job

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 169 days ago

5 October 2016 (F age 22-25 - I don't know how to start this off but a bit of background... I've been with my partner for two years, lived with each other for 18months. We met when he was at university and moved in with each other after he finished. I didn't go to university, I went straight to work... (237 words

The comments and attitudes of friends about us dating is really causing a strain on our relationship

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 169 days ago

5 October 2016 (F age 51-59 - My life is hell. I am an older woman in a mixed culture relationship of contrasting complexions and when I first met my current partner he made it clear that he was broke depressed and lonely. We were so happy to have found each other at first but you would not believe the prob... (263 words

I want to have my first kiss with my boyfriend

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5 October 2016 (F age 13-15 - Ok so me and my boyfriend have been going out for almost 2 weeks and it feels like its been years cuz i know him so well. I'm 14 and I really want to have my first kiss with my boyfriend, but I don't know where to do it! And some tips on kissing please ..also where do u put th... (89 words

Do you think he is selfish? Why does he have double standards over intimacy? Or am I overthinking?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 169 days ago

5 October 2016 (F age 26-29 - Sorry English is not my first language. I am dating my boyfriend from last 1 year. My problem is related to our intimacy. When the first time we got intimate he asked me will you please give me a blow job i want to go down on you but you are having your periods right now so... (348 words

Ideas please on how to make this the best birthday he has ever had?

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5 October 2016 (F age 22-25 - Hello all, My husband is turning 27 on the 18th of this month and we have just celebrated our 1st Wedding Anniversary. I'd like to get him something for his birthday that would mean a lot and also do something for him where we can 'have time together' we have a nearly ... (126 words

How can I reach a state of acceptance that the one I love does not love me?

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5 October 2016 (F age 18-21 - Hi there, confused to say the least. i am 19 and love a man who is older (about 15 years older) and this male constantly treats me wrong. Doesn't show any respect, love or loyalty. I believe i am very possessive with people and things and it's not that i want him and only him i ... (1157 words

My boyfriend said I was violent today while having sex. I hope that's good?

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5 October 2016 (F age 36-40 - My boyfriend said I was "violent" while having sex with him today. I was just really into it. And he likes when I am aggressive and take charge. This is a good thing?... (39 words

My partner is away alot and I've become too friendly with our neighbor

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 169 days ago

5 October 2016 (F age 22-25 - Okay so, please don't knock me down for this, I just seriously need to ask for help! Me and my partner have been together for 6 years, 3 young children, 2, 3+4 and I have a 10 year old from a previous relationship, my family are my life you know, my whole life. My partner ... (527 words

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