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Alone and lonely on Halloween. I missed my chance of marriage and kids and now feel that I don't fit!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 206 days ago

31 October 2016 (F age 36-40 - This isn't about romance, but it does pertain to relationships. Maybe no one has the answers, but I feel so sad. Today is Halloween and I used to love Halloween, but I'm depressed. I feel left out. If you're an adult who is single, no kids, does that mean missing out on... (250 words

Like the attention but hate the thought

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31 October 2016 (F age 18-21 - So im 18 years old ive been working in a restaurant for the last 2 years. Recently we got a new chef a married man with 3 kids , he's lovely and very easy to get on with ?however he is very flirtacious and tends to make a lot of sexual comments for eg saying he is lucky to work ... (126 words

Can't decide over career or homemaker

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31 October 2016 (F age 30-35 - So my boyfriend, successful with his own business thinks being a career oriented woman with goals is good, (adulting) and I think being a stay at home dog mom is good, where is the happy middle? :/ we are so different in this respect but we love each other Background, I hate m... (73 words

It's a rocky relationship and I just learned he's been sexting other women! I need advice!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 194 days ago

31 October 2016 (F age 26-29 - Please I need y'all advice. So my bf and have both live here in the U.K. I came here when I was a teenager and he's only been here for 3yrs now. His mum said I'm a good girl so she set us up. He was not my type so I didn't agree. He pursued me for 2yrs I just wasn't ... (486 words

Why the personal questions about my body? Does he have feelings for me?

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31 October 2016 (F age 22-25 - I have this best guy friend, I have feelings for him, everyone swears he has feelings for me. Last night when we were talking (which we do almost every day) he started asking extremely personal questions about my body. I asked him if he had been thinking about this for long, ... (119 words

Husband took advantage of my drunken state

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31 October 2016 (F age 26-29 - I'm not really sure what to do. Two nights ago, my husband and I went to a party. I drank, he did not. I drank a little too much and was barely functioning. We came home and had sex. He went soft so I rolled over and passed out. Next thing I know, he rolls me back over, gets ... (118 words

I may have lost the love of my life and perfect girl to commitment phobia! Now that I want her back, she's completely blanked me out!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 206 days ago

31 October 2016 (M age 22-25 - I think Ive ruined things with the love of my life Ive been with my girl 8 years since school she's absolutely stunning that's why I fancied her initially I just wanted to have sex with her but we were 16 she ended up making me wait 8 months and that's when I got to know her... (576 words

I've never had feelings like this before, but I'm getting whiplash!

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31 October 2016 (F age 22-25 - Ok, so here it is: A couple months ago i met this guy, and it was instant attraction from both sides. Physical attraction that i have NEVER felt before, but what was strange is that there was the emotional attraction as well. We are very good together, the playfulness, ... (509 words

I think he's selfish for taking viagra!

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31 October 2016 (F age 51-59 - I just found out my husband has been taking Viagra. He's 63 I'm 57. What makes me upset is that he should have talked to me about it, and I have not wanted sex for years. Been together 32 years and we've been having sex twice a week for last few years. He Says he's going to ... (82 words

High heels during sex...yay or nay?

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31 October 2016 (M age 41-50 - This question is for you women out there. I really want to know if high heels are a sexual turn on for you girls or not? I love them and I want my wife to wear them every time during sex. But she doesn't!! It's the single most sexual turn on for me. I feel frustrated at times! ... (76 words

Why is he paying child support to his ex if their laszy 17 year old daughter is living with us?

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31 October 2016 (F age 36-40 - I'm back again for more advice. A little update on my last situation because this kind of involved it. I am still with my fiance, although the wedding date is no longer may 2017. I felt like we have issues that need worked out before that happens. A lot of things we have worked ... (533 words

I've always felt like my B/f fancied me but now I feel from his choice in porn that he fancied his ex more!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 183 days ago

31 October 2016 (F age 26-29 - My boyfriend has unknowingly dented my self esteem recently, although he's hurt my feelings he hasn't done it on purpose. I'm not sure telling him would be a good idea. I can't stand arguing! I've started watching porn with him, I've never had an issue with a boyfriend watchi... (338 words

Boyfriend's parents disapprove but mine don't!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 206 days ago

31 October 2016 (F age 18-21 - I just moved to America a few months ago and soon after met a boy I really really like. We started dating and just recently hit the 6 month mark. The problem is his parents. His parents a originally from Korea and are very traditional. Since he's the only son they disappro... (150 words

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