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If he doesn't initiate contact as often does it mean he isn't as invested in me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 304 days ago

21 October 2016 (F age 22-25 - I experienced my 1st real BU a year ago. I loved the guy and I put my all in the relationship, he ended up taking me for granted. I am starting to date another guy and I keep having doubts, just afraid that he isn't into me as much as I am into him. I would rather be single, ... (235 words

My girlfriend hooked up with my cousin years ago

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21 October 2016 (M age 30-35 - My girlfriend and I've been dating for a few months, I'm bothered that I have sex with the same girl my cousin had. I know everyone has a past but he's my family member, it's weird! She told me she had sex with him years ago in college. My cousin lied to me because when I m... (110 words

My friend found my girlfriend on a dating site

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 305 days ago

21 October 2016 (M age 30-35 - I have been in an 18 month relationship with an extremely insecure girl who has been controlling, needy, and jealous of my past. I have often been aggressively accused of things that just dont exist. In spite of this difficulty, I have rode the storm because I love her. I... (124 words

Amazing connection vs. mind blowing sex

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21 October 2016 (M age 30-35 - So, does one choose an amazing emotional connection with good sex and potential for a long term relationship? Or does one choose the best sex he's ever had in his entire life with no emotional connection? But absolutely mind blowing sex! I've found myself in this predicament... (228 words

I can't get my unemployed ex boyfriend out of my house

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21 October 2016 (F age 30-35 - I've been in a relationship for 6 months, been thru a lot but really don't want a relationship anymore period. The issue is I haven't been able to get him out. What do I have to do? He has no job now after I threw him out and stuck in my area for legal reasons. It seems li... (89 words

LDR is not for me, but I don't know how he'll take the rejection

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21 October 2016 (F age 22-25 - I am a 23 year old Indian girl working in a very niche field. I met this 24 year old European guy when he came to work in India for 2 months from the European office of our company. Previously, I had short duration frequent relationships and had never been in love. While he had ... (402 words

My friend shares too much detail about her dates and sex life, then gets annoyed when I flirt with other girls in her presence. Why would she act this way?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 303 days ago

21 October 2016 (M age 26-29 - A friend of mine, not the closest of my friends, but a friend nonetheless, is bothered when these girls I know flirt with me and when I flirt back. I don't do it in front of her or anything, and I don't go looking to do it either. This girl is constantly going on dates w... (139 words

How can I start a conversation with someone who hasn't directly interacted with me?

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21 October 2016 (M age 26-29 - I was at the pub last week and I saw this bar made who was gorgeous but I had no direct contact with her so it didnt seem natural to talk to her. She was collecting plates and empty beer mugs. What would be a good way to talk or strike up a conversation with her if I saw her ... (61 words

How do I rebuild trust with my wife when she's still going to see the man she crossed a line with?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 299 days ago

21 October 2016 (M age 51-59 - I have been married to my wife for 10 years and thought things were going ok. We did go through a rocky patch in June this year but thought we had got through that. I started to get a bit suspicious of a guy that she coaches who had left his wife a year ago and when I went to ... (297 words

How can I escape this loneliness?

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21 October 2016 (F age 30-35 - How can I get out of my depression. For the last 7 months Ive been hit with several bad episodes (it's been a rough year) - my relationship ended (it was a short one but still affected the way he acted towards me) he was not a caring man. My work life is just nothing exciting- ... (239 words

How do you turn foreplay into sex?

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21 October 2016 (F age 18-21 - My bf and I are going to have sex and wanna make sure it goes smoothly .what all happens in foreplay? How long does it last how do you turn foreplay into sex??... (33 words

Why does my husband use a sex toy rather than be with me and then lie about having a toy?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 301 days ago

21 October 2016 (F age 30-35 - My husband has always claimed that he doesn't/can't masturbate because he knows it's his own hand. (No, I don't seriously believe this) A couple of years ago, I found a pocket pussy hidden in his sock drawer. I asked him about it and he said he bought it and never used it ... (233 words

How do I get to know my crush?

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21 October 2016 (F age 26-29 - I have a crush on a parking patrol officer who works at a plaza behind my school. He gave me a ticket about a month ago and since then I've been wanting to find a way to talk to him. I went up to his car yesterday to ask him a question about getting a ticket if I walk off the ... (168 words

Gift interpretation help

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21 October 2016 (F age 51-59 - I need help interpreting a birthday gift I received from my new boyfriend. We met online about 2 months ago, live 4-5 hours apart, hit it off right away and have met in person 3 times, talking on phone twice/week for a long talk, with him saying he wants to be ... (101 words

My boyfriend is in jail and I'm lonely

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21 October 2016 (F age 30-35 - Has anyone ever had a boyfriend in jail before? My boyfriend has been in jail since Sept. 30th,and it has been hard. He is in jail for a parole violation. His lawyer thinks that he will get out on the 25th of this month,but there is a possibility that he could go to prison for ... (78 words

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