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Is there a way I can make him see me for my other qualities and not as a nagging crying type?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 92 days ago

16 October 2016 (F age 22-25 - It will soon have been a year since I met my boyfriend and almost a year since we started dating. We have our differences of course, like any other people, and it can lead to arguments at times. But generally I'm very happy with him. We're having a great time together... (601 words

STIs. what is the best way to raise a discussion with my BF about a recent result given to me by my Doctor ?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 92 days ago

16 October 2016 (F age 18-21 - I've been in a relationship with my boyfriend now for 3/4 months. We are currently long distance but it is working fine. A month before we started dating I got an STI test and it came back negative, I also didn't have sex in between that test and having sex with my boyfriend. ... (186 words

How can I end an affair with a married woman who is having an affair with another?

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16 October 2016 (M age 41-50 - What steps can I take to end a affair with a married woman that is having another affair. Yes, call me stupid. I deserve it. She is a long term friend and we have known each other for years. We are very comfortable with each other. The other affair is a long distance... (402 words

My boyfriend always invites his friend to tag along

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16 October 2016 (F age 30-35 - hiya ive been with my boyfriend now for 4 years we have a 2 year old daughter. the problem is whenever we are supposed to spend any time together he always invites his mate along. we were supposed to be spending bonfire night together just me him and our daughter now he has a... (131 words

How long can a relationship survive without sex?

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16 October 2016 (M age 22-25 - My Fiance and I have ended up at each others throats recently and it's getting too much for us both. We're both in our Mid twenties, and have been together now for almost 6 years, but to simply put it, she no longer wants sex. She doesn't get aroused by the thought of anyt... (253 words

Is lingerie an appropriate birthday gift for my girlfriend?

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16 October 2016 (M age 22-25 - we've been dating for 6 months. we're really close and intimate. Were both 23. We had sex for the first time a few nights ago. She having a birthday party coming up im thinking about giving lingerie for her birthday. I'm wanting something on the classy side - not so much tra... (80 words

I haven't attended church because I have a crush on our pastor

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16 October 2016 (F age 18-21 - I'm in trouble. I stopped going to a certain christian church three months ago because the pastor would compliment me all the time. He never stopped mentioning how beautiful I am in front of everyone in church. Always after the service he would give me a hug goodbye. I bega... (213 words

How can I make the best of myself to be more attractive?

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16 October 2016 (F age 22-25 - I am wondering if there is anything that an average looking girl could do to grab a guy's attention? Is there a way she could dress? A specific perfume? Any behaviour? Something she could say? Have you ever developed an attraction for a girl after hanging out with her? (l... (92 words

Should I give up on my ex/ maybe boyfriend and go on the date? Does that make me a cheater?Or should I work things out with him?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 92 days ago

16 October 2016 (F age 26-29 - I am unsure of how to proceed. My ex (I guess) broke up with me back in September because I waned him to spend more time doing things with me because all he did was play video games. I wanted to go out and do things. After a lot of fighting he said we could work in things.... (502 words

How could he have issues with my weight and yet have such mind blowing sex with me?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 85 days ago

16 October 2016 (F age 30-35 - I'm looking for some perspective on a recent situation I experienced that has left me a bit confused. I dated a guy for about 5-6 months. During the entire relationship, we got alone EXCEEDINGLY well. I have never dated anyone as attentive or tender as this individual. Nor ... (711 words

My friend is accusing me of being a shitty friend because I like the guy she was cheating on her boyfriend with!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 94 days ago

16 October 2016 (F age 22-25 - This is a very complex situation, so please bare with me as this story might be a little long-winded. In August, my friend Leslie started hanging out with this guy, Ian, she met through Tinder. They were talking to each other off-and-on for nearly a year prior, but never... (583 words

Is it OK to have feelings for a second cousin?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 94 days ago

16 October 2016 (M age 18-21 - Okay, so I'm at the age of 19 and I have found myself falling for my family member named Rachel. She is not far behind me in age, in fact, less than a year younger. We both attend the same church, a Pentecostal church and she happens to be my second cousin which would mean we ... (350 words

Demands sex but computer gets first call

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16 October 2016 (F age 26-29 - Hello! My husband and I have been in a disagreement lately. he plays games on his computer all evening and then waits until after 10pm when I want to go to sleep to come to bed and ask for sex. I have told him multiple times that if he would come to bed earlier then he would ... (241 words

Gossipy workmates driving me mad

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16 October 2016 (F age 30-35 - How can I avoid my gossip-fueled coworkers. every day at work feels like a drama and it feels like high school. I work with three women and one guy who I have to exchange information in a daily basis and have lunch with. In the begining I started being friendly with them and ... (248 words

Swears she isn't cheating but...

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16 October 2016 (M age 22-25 - So I have been with this girl for a year and a half, and I actually moved into her house with her parents. We met through online gaming actually and lived close enough to where we decided to get together and inevitably move in. So the first few months of our relationship were ... (867 words

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