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I'm only important to him at night

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 118 days ago

23 October 2016 (F age 30-35 - iam having a boyfriend and I love him ,but he only takes me important during the night for example he can spend the day not calling me or even not sending texts ,he only does during the night,he hides me from his elder family members,does this man love me?... (49 words

My ex broke things off is flaunting new woman. How do I get over him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 121 days ago

23 October 2016 (F age 30-35 - MOD NOTE: This has been submitted before several times but now has more details so I am letting it through. OP next time just add to this, do not keep resubmitting its too confusing for aunts/uncles. I was with my ex for 10 months, things have been rocky. When I first met... (600 words

Troubling situation with job but I need to stick it out at least a year

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 121 days ago

23 October 2016 (F age 36-40 - Hi erveyone Would love ways of coping or advice on how to get through my situation. I am a director at an ad agency in New York. I started two months ago on six month probation. It's a small company 22 people run by husband and wife and on leader team there is me, one guy... (499 words

My guy friend held my hand what does it mean?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 118 days ago

23 October 2016 (F age 18-21 - Dear Cupid, Me and and one of my guy friends were on a group trip last night and he started to hold my hand. What does this mean? What do I say? What do I do?... (38 words

My ex flaunts his new g/f in my face but behind her back he's still in contact with me

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 118 days ago

23 October 2016 (F age 30-35 - I split from my ex earlier this year and found out two weeks later that he was already with someone else (although chances are that she was already in the pipeline). My ex has rubbed his relationship with his new partner in my face- even turning up to events I was at and kis... (171 words

I'm married to a mama's boy and its affecting our marriage

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23 October 2016 (F age 26-29 - Just after opinions please... Ladies, would you settle down with a mumma's boy? .... Men, are you a mumma's boy and how does this affect your other half? The reason I ask this is because my husband is a mumma's boy through and through and it's driving a wedge between us.... (291 words

I cant seem to make my partner understand that sex is good for me and I'm worried he's stressing out over it!

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23 October 2016 (F age 26-29 - So ill make this as quick as possible (sorry if it's a bit crude) I have a really good relationship with my partner of 8 years one thing when we have sex he finishes after about 3-5 minutes unless he's had a drink. For me it's not a problem there's always a lot of foreplay ... (217 words

He has gone cold on me and appears to be upset with me. Any helpful advice?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 118 days ago

23 October 2016 (F age 30-35 - Dear Aunts There was a guy pursuing me and flirting with me for weeks. I did not notice the attraction initially. I then returned the flirting. We have exchanged numbers and we have spoken a little. He has now gone cold on me. He still looks at me when he sees me but i... (155 words

How do I stop thinking about all the upsetting episodes from the past when I'm upset with my boyfriend?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 122 days ago

23 October 2016 (F age 22-25 - Every time I'm angry or upset with my boyfriend I remember all the things about him that made me angry or upset in the past, and it makes me feel worse. E.g. I'm upset that he bailed the last minute when we had plans and I'm starting to think of the time when he didn't plan or ... (162 words

Known this guy for 6 days and I agreed to go travelling with him but I don't like him in that way. He's not my type. What I do now?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 118 days ago

23 October 2016 (F age 26-29 - So I know this guy for about 6 days now. We met when I stuck in my car on a road and he helped me to get back home. Then he asked me for my phone number and I gave him, because he was acting sweet and I thought we could make good friends. He started calling me and we talked ... (270 words

Crushing on my best friend for 11 years!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 118 days ago

23 October 2016 (F age 22-25 - So I've had a strong connection with a friend ever since we met in the first year of high school,(11 years old) let's call him Matt. Unfortunately my older brother died shortly after starting high school, and when I returned after a 3 week break I looked to Matt to cheer me ... (266 words

How do I deal with my partner spending time with his ex wife?

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23 October 2016 (F age 51-59 - I would like some advice on how to deal with a certain situation. My partner and I have been together for nearly 18 months, we are both in our 50s and divorced. He has two daughters in their late 20s, and I have no children. We live about 35 miles apart, and he stays wit... (581 words

I think my mom's cheating on my step dad

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23 October 2016 (F age 16-17 - I really need some advice right now. I think my mum is cheating, or about to cheat on my stepdad. It sickens me to even think about it. Long story short, last year there was an incident where my mum found out that my stepdad was messaging and meeting up with another woman. To ... (389 words

What are the signs that a partner has had or is having an online affair and or very inappropriate social media flirting?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 117 days ago

23 October 2016 (F age 41-50 - Has anyone had a partner whos had an online affair and or very inappropriate social media flirting that can give me advice on what the possible signs are please?... For a long time Ive been extremely worried about a lot of my boyfriends behaviour and was wondering if i was over... (128 words

What Is wrong with my friend of 30 years? How can I tell him to lose my number and block him from my internet page?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 122 days ago

23 October 2016 (F age 41-50 - Dear Cupid,I have come in contact with an ex-flame who makes me smile from ear to ear we have been knowing one other for 30 years. He is 47 and I just turned 45 we both have children and they are grown and on their own.So now he and I are single we want to have a friendsh... (137 words

What would be your summation of what makes a guy so sexy? Is that impossible to define? Or could you say it is just a feeling you get inside?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 119 days ago

23 October 2016 (M age 22-25 - Is there such a thing as a guy who you've just met or seen, who doesn't look like some kind of a model, and who makes you feel, "This guy is SEX! (gaaah, droool)...? What would be your description of what makes him so sexy, or is it impossible to say because it's just a feel... (65 words

Can you help? Seeking tips on how to move on when you finally realize that the love of your life is no longer available to you or no longer loves you?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 120 days ago

23 October 2016 (M age 22-25 - Hello everyone, So I’m the same guy who wrote these two posts. http://www.dearcupid.org/question/mixed-signals-from-my-crush.html http://www.dearcupid.org/question/my-fwb-has-friend-zoned-me-and-its.html This is gonna be the last time I write about this person. ... (609 words

I was the first Gf he ever had. Is he now over me? Or is he protecting his feelings?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 118 days ago

23 October 2016 (F age 22-25 - i was seeing this guy for a few months and it was going so well but we both knew that at the end of summer o had to go back to study abroad for 3 months. When I left I told him maybe we shouldn't try long distance because I really liked him and didn't feel like we had been goi... (439 words

Dating but can't hang out. We text and he gives me butterflies. Why is this happening?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 118 days ago

23 October 2016 (F age 13-15 - I have been dating this guy who ive know most of my life for about 3 months and were both 15.. The relationship is going good but we never can hang out because im busy and my parents wouldnt allow me. weve met a couple of times while at a mutuals friends house. whenever he got ... (109 words

I was completely averse to sex in my previous relationship and though I'm better now, I still have negative feelings attached to it. Any words of advice?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 118 days ago

23 October 2016 (F age 30-35 - I was with my ex for 5.5 years roughly. About 3 years in, I lost my sex drive. It had a lot to do with being on the pill but we also started having problems which didn't help. For the last year of our relationship, I hated sex, truly hated it, yet because I loved him I cont... (666 words

Are there any strategies to deal with my reactions to the behaviour of his ex?

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23 October 2016 (F age 30-35 - Ive been with my partner 3 and a half years. Whilst i met his family quite early on, other than a handful of occasions i havent socialised with his friends. When i questioned him about this he is told me that the partners of his friends still see his ex frequently and this mak... (295 words

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