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Should I try online dating again ?

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10 October 2016 (F age 30-35 - I have been single for a while - I am a young professional 31 years old that has tried to find a man for a long time - I've had two relationships one very long term and the other short term- both men were not good guys at all- I've tried the online stuff and I've tried partying ... (180 words

I'm married no sex with wife but am meeting men behind her back

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10 October 2016 (M age 41-50 - I am a married man, 2 kids and have over the last year not had sex with my wife. Instead I have joined a dating agency, gay sex site really and had numerous encounters, which I have fully enjoyed, Truth be told I feel more comfortable with male encounters than female I... (98 words

I love him but I hate him. Where do I go from here? Its officially over but I still have feelings

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10 October 2016 (F age 36-40 - I don't know where to start but Ive lost so much over the past year and the losses still keep coming. I'm 38, two sons (18 and 15) and divorced for a little over a year. My sons are great...my oldest is a freshman in college out of state and my youngest plays several ... (1610 words

I haven't spoken to my boyfriend in 2 months! Is he trying to end things?

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10 October 2016 (F age 26-29 - I've been with my boyfriend for just under a year. In the last two months he has said to me he's been really busy and needs some time and space. He hasn't contacted me for 2 months everytime I message him on what's app he says well chat next week which never happens. He hasn't ... (139 words

Live In Landlord is being a PAIN. Should I have a word?

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10 October 2016 (F age 22-25 - I'm applying for my Masters after working a temp job to save for one year, although I don't know where I will be next September yet I'm staying a bit longer in my current city. As my old landlord had family members moving into my place, I found a short term room for a few ... (630 words

How can I save myself? This man is like a bad drug

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10 October 2016 (F age 36-40 - Hi All, I was with a man who thinks sex can be separated from love. After several months of dramas, i knew he's not someone i can have a future together with. He often messaged me after i left and i ignored him. One day he texted if i wouldn't talk with him again. I ... (300 words

How can keep him interested in me and not compare me to the others he was with ?

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10 October 2016 (F age 16-17 - I've been dating my bf for 5 months. He is 19 and I'm 16. I'm still a button and he has been really patient with me. He isn't a virgin, he's the total opposite. He has had sex with 11 different girls, 3 of those girls would hook ups at parties. He says he is fine with me being ... (285 words

I'm dating a girl but slept with another girl. Should I feel guilty?

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10 October 2016 (M age 22-25 - I've recently been dating this girl and things have gone well we've gone out about four times and we kissed for the first time yesterday. After she went I was going on a night out with my friends and friends of theirs. long story short I slept with this girl and she kept say... (179 words

How can I gather the pieces from an abusive past?

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10 October 2016 (F age 30-35 - How can I grow to love myself? I'm a 31 year old woman that on the outiside seems to have the artificial stuff- good jobs- looks - family- love but inside I'm hurting. I would say sadly the only thing I am missing is the guy. I've been with one guy 5 years who was my first... (298 words

I keep thinking about the past. How can I change my responses so that I can live in the present?

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10 October 2016 (F age 30-35 - How can I stop living the past? I feel like I am never present I'm always thinking ahead or thinking backwards . When I'm in a relationship I'm always thinking of the next things ahead and always worrying to the point where I never enjoy the present- any tips ... (53 words

How can I stop people from taking advantage of me?

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10 October 2016 (F age 30-35 - How can I deal with manipulative, negative people that like to pull me into their drama and take advantage of me. I have finally started to open my eyes to what is around me. For a long time I was in an abusive relationship (verbal) and I left after six years only to run towa... (171 words

Is he into the occult? Are black rings significant?

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10 October 2016 (F age 26-29 - Dear Aunts I made friends with a guy through facebook. We started chatting , all friendly tho , then I was going through his Facebook likes and things. I saw he liked a lot of Facebook pages such as Free masonry , Mystic Order, Wiccan rites etc.. I know everyone has ... (91 words

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