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Wishing to start a new life, but how exactly?

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11 October 2016 (M age 30-35 - Hi..I got to know this guy 1 month ago on a dating site. He lives in a large European country, while me in a small one (in Europe too). We met twice in person and hit it off right away. We text each other loads missing each other a lot. So, due to the distance, we hav... (221 words

He's gone and I don't know how to forget him

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11 October 2016 (F age 22-25 - It's been almost a year since I have met him. First we started off with a lot of fights and stopped talking for a while but he seemed interesting to me and I made a contact with him again. The second time we got closer, we texted each day and he asked me to call him. I wasn't ... (270 words

My girlfriend thinks we should find other people because I last way too long in bed and she takes a minute to orgasm and then gets bored

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11 October 2016 (M age 26-29 - My girlfriend says she thinks we should find other people because I last way too long in bed and she takes a minute to "O" and then gets bored and wants me to just get it over with. We do foreplay and I am trying to teach her how to satisfy my with her hands. I am not watchin... (130 words

My strict Chinese parents don't know about my boyfriend and it's difficult to keep hiding from them

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11 October 2016 (F age 18-21 - Hi everyone, a little about me before i write about my issue. I'm 3 months away from turning 18, I have a boyfriend which have to be kept secret. (I know what you're thinking, im a liar and yes i admit I am but heres why) So my boyfriend and I have been together for alm... (664 words

Am I out of line for asking my b/f to change around his child support situation with his ex?

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11 October 2016 (F age 41-50 - hello ive been dating my bf for a year now. He is 51 I am 47. He has an ex and three children. I have two children . We live seperatly. He and his ex do not follow the child support schedule its been now 6 years that they have not been together and she has not remarried or ... (122 words

She broke off her engagement for me and its freaking me out

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11 October 2016 (M age 30-35 - So I need opinions. I was seeing this girl for a while last year. She seemed super into me and I liked her a lot but I just wasn't ready or looking for a relationahip at the time. I'd just gotten out of a three year relationship and just wasn't looking for more than casual ... (594 words

Why get married? How do I tell my family that they're waiting for something that will not happen?

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11 October 2016 (F age 22-25 - Why is getting married so important!! I'm 25 I have been with my partner 10 years my relationship is fantastic I trust him we get on like best mates there's no drama it is as close to perfect as I could have ever imagined! We own a home 50/50 nothing in the house is worth a... (357 words

Can I ask my fast food fancy out?

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11 October 2016 (M age 26-29 - Is it unorthodox to ask cashier out? I frequent my favorite fast food restaurant once a week which I know isn't a healthy lifestyle. About the past few months or so, a new miss around my age has been working the drive-thru. Granted, it's usually hit or miss if she's working ... (219 words

Is it wrong to use a prostitute to gain experience?

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 395 days ago

11 October 2016 (M age 26-29 - I am a male virgin who has never kissed a girl or been on a date. I've made up my mind recently on how I will be losing my virginity. I am currently saving up money to visit one of the legal brothels in Nevada. I feel like at my age, being a kissless, dateless virgin,... (203 words

How do I know if she wants me to touch her?

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11 October 2016 (M age 18-21 - while i was sitting on her bed. I could feel her breast on my leg while she laying down, she didn't even move. She is like 36a for her breast size. Next she putted her breast on my shoulder, when she hugged me from behind. I must admit it felt really good. Then i noticed her ... (137 words

Husband wants to explore sex with my sister

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11 October 2016 (F age 36-40 - Me and my husband have been having sex issues. He has become a dirty pervert wanting me to act like a dirty slut, and has been fantasizing about having sex with friends of ours - my sister in particular. I am not sure I how feel about this. I know it's purely sexual because he ... (99 words

Am I being mistreated? Is this emotional abuse?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 396 days ago

11 October 2016 (F age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have been seeing each other for 2 years. I don’t know if this is emotional abuse or if there is something I can do to fix the problem. This morning I had gone to make a shake for him and when I poured the material inside the blender the shake spilled on... (746 words

Should I send my ex boyfriend a Christmas card with a small gift?

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11 October 2016 (F age 36-40 - I have been single for about 4 months now after coming out of a 3 year relationship, I have recently been thinking of him again the relationship ended on bad terms. Its coming up to christmas and it will be weird without him should i send him a christmas card and a small ... (87 words

Getting back together after a break up?

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11 October 2016 (M age 30-35 - We broke up last week and a few days later she suddenly came to my place crying, we barely talked because she was crying a lot and we didn't make any decision that day. Two days after I told her we should talk and it was better to talk in a restaurant, we went there and talked ... (219 words

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