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What should I do next? Go back to the shop and hope to interest her again ?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 99 days ago

9 October 2016 (M age 22-25 - So I met this girl who works in a cosmetic shop in my local town and after admiring her and getting served by her and making a bit of idle small talk about bath bombs I found my self going back in an hour later claiming I needed more bath bombs. Sho when she served me this time... (168 words

How do you end a FWB relationship with someone that you don't want to hurt?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 99 days ago

9 October 2016 (F age 26-29 - I need help telling my long friend with benefits that I don't want the benefits. Backstory, we've been friends for 10 years, we dated for 3, I broke up with them last year but we remained roommates and it transformed into FWB. I have had my bouts of anxiety and depression a... (350 words

Does this guy just want to hook up?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 84 days ago

9 October 2016 (F age 18-21 - I like this guy (A) but I'm a little confused about his feelings for me and whether or not I've blown it with him. Throughout the last year we'd shared a bed many times but never slept together just spooned. A couple months ago we went on holiday with our friends and whil... (433 words

Help me move on from my ex! Or does he still love me? HELP

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9 October 2016 (F age 26-29 - I have dated a lot in my lifetime, but I was in love only once...and I blew it. I'm writing today to get help, perspective, and advice on how to move on. What you need to know is that my parents divorced after 20 years, I have been so scared of committing to someone for fear... (1726 words

Why do people think that if you are alone that something is wrong with you?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 100 days ago

9 October 2016 (F age 18-21 - I know that I am attractive with skills and a sense of humour that inspires people but most of the time I would like to keep a few people close to me. I think it is safe to say that I am an introvert. My boyfriend of 6 months yesterday asked me a question that left me feeling ... (333 words

Problems at work and not quite sure how to handle them

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9 October 2016 (F age 30-35 - 2 months ago I began working at a Sports and Learning Complex. I love my job and it has given me great opportunities to advance my career almost immediately. However things have been rocky with my boss (36,F) from the start. To begin with, I was supposed to start working ... (881 words

Did I scare him off ? ?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 88 days ago

9 October 2016 (F age 26-29 - Dear Aunts please advise me. I met a guy at a cafe. Everytime I go in he stared at me. I started to fancy him too and we would stare and smile at each other. I broke the ice and we exchanged numbers. I hinted going out on a light date but he backed off as he thought ... (220 words

Should I keep making an effort with my little brother? He's cut me out of his life for no reason.

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9 October 2016 (F age 22-25 - I'm 24 and my little brother is 19. We were quite close and brought up by a single mother. I bought a house 2 years ago but still made an effort with my family, and I regularly call my mum. Well my brother has recently moved into a flat with his girlfriend and it's abo... (286 words

Should I tolerate this drunk behaviour from my partner, is it ok because it's a 'one off?'

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9 October 2016 (F age 26-29 - Hi there, thanks for looking :) So I've been with my boyfriend for 6 years now and we live together. We rarely drink together, he drinks roughly about 3 times a week though it's usually in the house - he usually only goes to the pub/bar on his lunch break from work once a week ... (444 words

Why does my ex keep coming in and out of my life?

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9 October 2016 (F age 26-29 - I posted a thread about an ex who lives 4 hours away and we were on and off for few years...then broke it off for good because he met someone closer.I was devastated and told him we should go seperate ways. He recently came back in my life only to go cold and leave again. wel... (388 words

I broke up with my boyfriend because of the distance but I really miss him

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9 October 2016 (F age 18-21 - I started dating my boyfriend (newly ex) when I was 17 and senior in high school when he was a freshman in college. We have been dating for over three years, long distance but can occasionally visit each other on the weekends and breaks for holidays. We are now both seniors in ... (491 words

My girlfriend feels smothered by my attention

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9 October 2016 (M age 26-29 - Hi ladies and gents, My girlfriend has recently said that she felt smothered by my attentiveness...she isn't used to how much I pay attention to what she says and how she feels, I'm not doing anything wrong because I'm lovely and adorable according to her. I ask her how w... (286 words

I can't pronounce my boyfriends name right

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9 October 2016 (F age 13-15 - My boyfriend is Mexican but speaks English very well and he has a name that rolls an 'r' and I am absolutely shocking at Spanish and rolling 'r's. I can't pronounce his name right!! So I say it the way every other person says it, without an accent, but I feel as if I'm not even ... (92 words

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