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What is a good compromise age for us to have a baby?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1346 days ago

6 November 2014 (F age 26-29 - Hello! I need a little advice about when I should think about having children with my boyfriend. We've been together for over 3 years, lived together for over 2 and are planning to stay together for the long run. The only reason I'm thinking about kids now is that I'm 23, ... (155 words

Do co-workers pick up on flirtation or interest between 2 people?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 1347 days ago

6 November 2014 (F age 30-35 - I am a client who goes into a place of business on an occasional basis and I am usually greeted by one particular male employee who is always nice to me. When he told me he was being transferred to another franchise 20 minutes away, he told me this news 2 weeks before... (183 words

If domestic violence, in the past, has affected me, then where do I go for help in the UK to deal with it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1346 days ago

6 November 2014 (F age 18-21 - Okay, so I haven't been on here for a while and after having a lot of thinking time I think I have finally cracked the code of something which I have been trying to work out for a long time, and it is very sensitive to me so please don't be too harsh. For the last year I ... (1195 words

Am I being paranoid for being jealous during a party I attended with my Gf? Should I say somthing?

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6 November 2014 (M age 26-29 - I went to a party recently with my gf. This is the second time (or third) she really goes out with these people instead of just being at school with them. My gf is loyal, but since we are LDR(5 hours by bus, right now), she seems less loyal to me... I went to visit her duri... (658 words

Too nervous to start a conversation with my crush

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6 November 2014 (F age 16-17 - there's a boy I really like and I really want him to like me. hes really popular and im not. there might be a chance he likes me he sometimes looks at me and we hols eye contact for a couple of seconds but that's about it. im not very confident and I don't want to go up to him ... (83 words

Cheated on and now stalked

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 1333 days ago

6 November 2014 (F age 41-50 - I broke up with my on/off bf of 5 yrs in mid sept. He was acting weird so I let him go. I found out in Oct he cheated on my with at least 2 girls this summer. We still were hanging out and he wanted to get back together but after finding this out I broke off all contact. ... (259 words

I am dying for my boyfriends attention.

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6 November 2014 (F age 26-29 - I know this sounds self-centered, and maybe it is. But I am dying for my boyfriends attention. We do not have a bad relationship, never fight or anything. But he isn't very romantic at all.. I love to cuddle and give gifts and am very interested in his life. I compliment him... (184 words

Sexless, affectionless, respectless marriage.

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6 November 2014 (? age 36-40 - I never thought I would be on one of these sites asking people's opinions on personal matters.. but here it comes guys. I have been married for 7 years now. I am 35 year and he is 47. I was married before, to a complete and utter control freak, violent, cheating and unreliab... (1596 words

My boyfriend wants me to take a polygraph?!

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6 November 2014 (F age 22-25 - Okay so I've been seeing this guy for 10 months, before him I went through a really rough yime after I went through a bad break up with my long term bf, where he cheated. After I did not deal with it well I had dated people and had ended sleeping with a few people and did thin... (212 words

I want what's best for my daughter and myself

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6 November 2014 (F age 26-29 - I was a few months away from getting married when I found out my now ex had been cheating on me with a mutual friend. She was going out with a friend of mine, and my ex and this guy were like brothers. Basically it all came out when her boyfriend found some messages from my... (322 words

I thought uni would change my life, but I find I am still holding myself back!

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6 November 2014 (M age 22-25 - I thought Uni was going to be a change for me, a new beginning. It has to a certain point, but these same thought processes keep happening. I'm sick and tired of the same, old issues coming to the surface. It has time to hold myself accountable for these things: - What I ... (421 words

I am married, but want to confess my feelings of love to another woman.

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6 November 2014 (M age 41-50 - Hello, I am a 40 yr old married man from India. I had an arranged marriage which is a norm in India. Few years ago I was abroad for 3 years where I met this single Indian woman who was working in the same organization as me. We became good friends, interacted by emails, chatt... (293 words

The clock is ticking and I feel like I am running out of time!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 1342 days ago

6 November 2014 (F age 30-35 - I am in my last year of my 20s and I have not met "the one" yet also I am still in the process of finishing my masters degree. Sometimes I feel like I did not get all the stuff I wanted to get done by the time I turned 30. When I was a teenager I thought at 30 I would have a ... (121 words

I want love and affection but I also don't want to get hurt!

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6 November 2014 (F age 22-25 - Simple question how can i tell if a guy is interested and want to get to know me or just wants to hit and run i understand that i have a hard time letting other people in because of a previous relationship which has caused me to put up a wall but the does mean i dont want love ... (73 words

My high pitched voice is impacting dating and my job interviews

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1347 days ago

6 November 2014 (F age 26-29 - I've always had an extremely high pitched voice. I've gotten used to it, however I realized it's hindering my dating life and finding a job. It doesn't help that I'm very petite either. I graduated with a business major but it doesn't matter how great my interview is because ... (60 words

Boyfriend wants to set up a fake okcupid profile, what does this mean?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 1347 days ago

6 November 2014 (F age 30-35 - I've been writing to this guy on okcupid for the past 6 months, during which time I was living abroad, and we couldn't meet. When we finally did meet, we had a deep connection. He's introverted, and didn't make any moves on me. Finally, on the fourth date we kissed and became a ... (221 words

Is it normal to still miss your ex after 6 months?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1347 days ago

6 November 2014 (F age 26-29 - I was with my ex for nearly 2 1/2 years and we broke about up 6 months ago. I was feeling ok until a few weeks ago and now i think about him all the time and miss him so much. When breaking up with ex's before i had always jumped into another relationship and i knew this ... (278 words

Why and when do men not orgasm?

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6 November 2014 (F age 30-35 - I've been seeing someone over the course of five months. Well I never labaled it with seeing him, that's just how he puts it in his own words. Anyhow, things have been 'rocky' from the get go, from what's. been said, to my behavior towards him. It was a difficult time p... (156 words

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