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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Confused, but better than most!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 3434 days ago

23 November 2014 (M)

age 51-59 - I have been married for 8 year and have known my wife for 10. I have a near photographic memory and remember many things that people tell me. 10 years ago I contracted an STD from my wife. She found out she had it from a medical checkup. No big deal, I was not mad at the time ... (600 words)

My mum is ruining my life!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3434 days ago

23 November 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - First of all, I’d like to say that I am not a native English speaker so please, forgive my spelling mistakes! Sooo, here is the story. I am 24 and I live at my mother’s place with my younger sister (16 years old) – and no father - after spending 6 years abroad by myself... (500 words)

The first 5 minutes of sex are enjoyable but then the experience goes downhill!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3434 days ago

23 November 2014 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi guys. Please can I have some advice. I recently lost my virginity, not in a relationship, and have had sex a couple of times since then. I enjoy the first 5 minutes but after that I just feel frustration that I can't orgasm and also a feeling of inadequacy, like i'm j... (125 words)

Could his girlfriend have deleted my message?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3434 days ago

23 November 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - ok so i sent my ex boyfriend a text message on a! iphone 5 asking if our little girl has been ok because she wasnt feeling the best! he also has a iphone and told me he never received the text and showed me a screenshot to prove it! cant remember if it said delievered or not ... (82 words)

How can I manage being the good stepmother despite the poison his ex pours into their childrens' heads!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3434 days ago

23 November 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi everyone Hope you can give me some advice on my situation..bear with me though as it's quite a long one! I am due to be married next year, my fiancé is a good man, we have been together 3 years etc. he has 2 kids from a previous relationship in which Just recen... (473 words)

I'm a straight guy who's been told his approach to sex is 'feminine'

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3432 days ago

23 November 2014 (M)

age 30-35 - So I've been tossing with this for a while and I really just want some other people's perspective. So the best way I can describe how they feel is; I feel sexually like a woman. I know its not a perfect description but I'll try to elaborate Basically I'm 21 straight but ... (408 words)

I Like A Hipster Guy But He's Often Negative - Is He Not Worth It?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3434 days ago

23 November 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - I like a hipster guy I know right now, but, though he's cute, I'm not sure if I should ask him out or not. We share many interests, which is good, and he's really keen about some of them too, but sometimes he sees so ironic and cynical I can't stand him even as a friend. He ... (249 words)

He always wants sex and has to push the boundaries every time

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3429 days ago

23 November 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - PLEASE someone help me.. My husband is sex OBSESSED! We have been together 10 years and don't have any children. We have always had a very adventurous sex life and there isn't much we haven't tried. The problem I have is for the last 5 or 6 years, every time we have sex, it ... (285 words)

I don't want him to feel he can disrespect me

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3434 days ago

23 November 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and the guy I'm seeing were having a phone conversation. I'd be feeling a little down because he's not very affectionate and generally i feel like he takes me for granted. While I was speaking on this I could hear him watching a girl's snapchat video which he replayed twic... (223 words)

Still trying at 38! Never been in a relationship

This question has 32 answers - newest was posted 3430 days ago

23 November 2014 (M)

age 41-50 - I am a 38 year old British male, I was wondering if anybody has any advice that works, I have never been in a relationship with a woman in my entire life. I have tried 12 different dating sites wasting thousands of pounds, I have been to speed dating sessions, I have tried ... (156 words)

My wife won't have sex with me anymore and won't tell me why not

This question has 21 answers - newest was posted 3431 days ago

23 November 2014 (M)

age 41-50 - I think the title says it all. We have been married for 7 years, together for 10 years, and the sex went from twice a night (which is normal in a honeymoon phase) to never over the course of 2 years. Over the last 5 years we have not had sex even once. This is very u... (472 words)

What word choice can I use while talking to my son about his father without really saying what my heart should say?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3435 days ago

23 November 2014 (F)

age 51-59 - Dear Cupid, I need some advice on my son's relationship with his father this man has never ever been in his life now that he is grown he still dont have much of a relationship with his son.How do I bring up the conversation with my son about his father he knows he is alive ... (176 words)

How do I help my sister with our overprotective mother?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3434 days ago

23 November 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi there, please advise? My mother is very overprotective of my sister, who is 18. Really, she has not allowed the girl to learn to do tasks on her own (such as grocery shopping, checking the mail, hanging out with friends, simple cooking, etc.) and has not allowed her to b... (343 words)

Were they accusing my mother?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3435 days ago

23 November 2014 (F)

age 26-29 - So basically, we went to my aunt's house up in Dallas for a holiday get together. We were all having fun, but during the process, my aunt lost the diamond on her wedding ring. A few days later, when we came back to Houston, and after they searched everywhere and couldn't fin... (176 words)

Even my friends and parents think his friendship with this girl is dodgy

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3435 days ago

23 November 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - My bf and I have been seeing each other for 1.5 years. But lately things haven't been going well for us because of his friendship with a particular girl. They have known each other for a few years and she is residing overseas. Yet he is dodgy about their friendship. I know sh... (180 words)