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Is the sex that important?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1416 days ago

7 November 2014 (F age 41-50 - I am 44 years old and my boyfriend of 2 months is 59 and is divorced with 2 children of 27 and 25 and last week my sister turned up at my house saying that she has left her husband and told me that she has been put on anti depressents by her doctor and has nowhere to go so i ... (261 words

Boyfriend has cheated to be with me. How can I trust he is not cheating on me now or will cheat on me someday?

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7 November 2014 (F age 36-40 - I came out and asked my BF if I am his only girl... because of past trust issues. He cheated to be with me and we have been together for about 14 months. I have asked him this a few times before with no concrete evidence. Just fear maybe because he already cheated to be with me ... (621 words

I fancy this guy at the supermarket! How can I try to move things along without looking like an idiot?

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7 November 2014 (F age 26-29 - There is someone who works in the local supermarket who i quite fancy, but every time he serves me or is in the vicinity i get really nervous and can barely make eye contact and can't think of anything to say and automatically try and disguise the fact that I like him! I'd say ... (116 words

Boyfriend was holding ex and kissing her on the face. Did he cheat?

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7 November 2014 (F age 26-29 - I have been with my bf for about a month. He is my coworker and he left his live in gf of over a year to be with me. I found out that he talks with her either by text or call everyday still. And he still see's her once or twice a week. Works on her car a stuff. I found out that ... (150 words

My husband has cancer and he's given up hope

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7 November 2014 (F age 41-50 - Hi, here i am again. Asking your advice. Im 43 years old. My husband is 69. We are 10 years together and 7 years marriage. I love him and yes i know he love me too. The problem is 11 months ago, we found out that he has a stomach cancer, its a big shock for both of us. My ... (254 words

My husband has been meeting women for sex

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7 November 2014 (F age 30-35 - Well I have been so upset since 2am this morning. My husbands phone rang and I checked it because he was sleeping and it was an email from a girl at a sex hookup sight. I read it and looked at the pics she sent and started crying. I'm so broken. I continued looking through ... (191 words

Could she be just too introverted to show her interest?

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7 November 2014 (M age 22-25 - So I've known this girl at uni for about a month now. I really quite like her, however I'm not too sure if she likes me back. Sometimes we can talk for hours without stopping, sometimes she's super quiet and doesn't seem too interested in me and what I have to say. We sometimes ... (116 words

Am I on the right track? How else should / could it be done?

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7 November 2014 (M age 22-25 - Hi Dearcupid, I came across this website when google prompted me to a question regarding the use of prostitutes. And seeing how the person who asked the question got adequate help, I too am seeking advice. I am a 19 year old, tall, athletic, handsome male. And I've never ha... (675 words

My g/f was wearing a shirt from a guy she slept with. Should I be upset?

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7 November 2014 (M age 26-29 - My girlfriend was skyping me and I noticed her shirt. It was a verizon shirt, I work for verizon so I wondered where she got it from. I asked her and she replied from an old friend. After a little bit of digging turns out she slept with this person a few years ago. She's saying ... (91 words

We were friends then dating and then he broke it off and I can't get over it

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7 November 2014 (F age 22-25 - I started talking to a boy 6 months ago and we became, very quickly, best friends to the extent we ate every meal together and saw each other every minute of the day before chatting through other means when not together. He confessed to me after the third month when I already ... (293 words

His love for me is like a knife with a sharpened one side and double side like a sword--what does that mean?

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7 November 2014 (F age 26-29 - I'm female and 24years of age and my guy is 29years of age,he is the type that likes saying things indirectly so please readers what does my boyfriend mean when he says "His love for me is like a knife with a sharpened one side and double side like a sword"... (51 words

Is it common for men to promise marriage and not go through with it?

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7 November 2014 (F age 30-35 - Do you think it is common for men to promise marriage and then not follow through? I was with my ex for 8 years. After about three years he would say: we'll get married when we get home from travelling and settle in. Then it was: we'll get married when you finish college (I ... (334 words

Does my crossdresser boyfriend have multiple personalities?

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7 November 2014 (F age 36-40 - http://www.dearcupid.org/question/is-it-common-for-crossdressers-to-have-multiple.html Dear Cupid, I've been dating my boyfriend for almost 2 years within the first 3 or 4 months of our relationship I knew that he was hiding something so I preceded in Prying it out of him. ... (374 words

Could he be jealous and think I'm with someone else or did he find out that I have a crush on him but he actually doesn't have feelings for me so he's acting distant and cold?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 1405 days ago

7 November 2014 (F age 36-40 - This is my last post: http://www.dearcupid.org/question/ive-made-the-first-move-is-he-interested.html I bumped into him a few days ago while I was on my way to have some beer with a male co-worker and asked him if he wanted to go with us. He couldn't because he had ... (143 words

I still have all of these emotions for her, what do I do?

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7 November 2014 (M age 22-25 - Hi, I am a 19-year-old Briton in need of some advice. Recently I got back in contact with an old crush of mine after having not spoken to each other in just over three years. We didn't meet in person until a month or two of having messaged each other on Facebook. When we ... (422 words

Am I overreacting? Should I only expect him to share his plans with me after we move in?

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7 November 2014 (F age 30-35 - I have been going out with my boyfriend for 5.5 years, and he recently asked me to move in with him. The problem is, often I don't have a clue where he is and I don't know if that will continue if I live with him. For example, I might try to call him or text him mid afternoo... (282 words

We are getting married in a year and already I feel my sex life is terrible even though my B/f tells me once a month is the norm with couples!

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7 November 2014 (F age 22-25 - My fiancee and I are going through a rut. We are together 2 years and moved in 2 months ago. Before we moved in it was hard to have sex as we were either at my parents or at the appartment he shared with friends. The only time we could have sex is if the guy he lived with was ... (463 words

How can I show my partner he is the most special person I have ever been intimate with?

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7 November 2014 (F age 22-25 - I have been with my boyfriend and I am in love with him, I love the connection we share and the silly times we have. I have never felt the way I do about him about anyone else. The issue: in my past I have had intimate times with others. He has not. He doesn't quite un... (198 words

Why do I get nauseous when aroused?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1413 days ago

7 November 2014 (M age 30-35 - hi...! please i am 29 (male). never been in a relationship. my problem is, i get nauseous sometime when aroused. i.e (something like feeling sick) could that be normal?... (32 words

I gave up my unborn baby for him and he doesn't even appreciate it.

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7 November 2014 (F age 22-25 - Currently I've felt out of place ..before I ask I must explain my situation. I've been with my boyfriend for awhile now and we are oddly very happy.I do my best to be the best girlfriend and he makes small gesture that make me happy. We've talked about where we wanna end up in ... (373 words

I have fallen in love with my mistress but I still care for my wife. What do I do?

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 1409 days ago

7 November 2014 (M age - I have fallen in love with my mistress but I still care for my wife. I did not set out for this to happen. When I first met my mistress, I knew instantly I was head over heels for her. It started out as mostly physical as she is beautiful and much younger than I am. I nev... (550 words

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