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Am I breaking up someone's relationship?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1418 days ago

5 November 2014 (F age 22-25 - I have been good friends with this guy for just over a year, we met through mutual friends. we started messaging each other a couple of months ago just friendly conversation. However he started to tell me that he liked me and wanted to be with me even though he is still with ... (177 words

Why won't he pull out during sex?

This question has 22 answers - newest was posted 1417 days ago

5 November 2014 (F age 26-29 - So I have a boyfriend who's a pretty good guy. The only thing is, he doesn't want to pull out during sex. Or wear a condom. Says he hates them. We're both pretty stable so that's not a problem. My only question is, why does he do this? We both have a child from a previous ... (237 words

I can't stay in this limbo, I love him and want him.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1419 days ago

5 November 2014 (F age 26-29 - My boyfriend of almost 3 years broke up with me 10months ago. However we stayed in touch daily and about 5 months ago we started seeing each other again - sex, holding hands in public, attending family things together, kissing etc. About 2 months ago he started saying he loved ... (174 words

What kind of person makes this sort of random offer?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 1417 days ago

5 November 2014 (F age 30-35 - I met a man on a train on the way into New York City. He was very helpful as I was asking for directions and he travels often, so we spent about an hour chatting. He gave me his number so he could send me some links and when I texted him to thank him, he nonchalantly wrote, y... (446 words

Why can't my boyfriend reach orgasm once in awhile? I feel like it is my fault.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 1415 days ago

5 November 2014 (F age 41-50 - My boyfriend is 60 and I am 45. He sexually satisfies me and performs very well in the bedroom. We have great chemistry and an incredible sex life. That is why I am baffled when once in awhile he cannot reach orgasm, despite my doing everything I can think of to bri... (165 words

Should I settle down or take the "you only live once" attitude?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 1419 days ago

5 November 2014 (F age 30-35 - I know this will sound selfish so I'm asking if you're going to reply having a go then please don't! I'm in a 4 month long relationship with a man who is everything I could possibly want but we want different things. He is ready to get a place together, has talked about get... (208 words

What does it mean when he says I am his "guilty pleasure"?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 1418 days ago

5 November 2014 (F age 30-35 - What does it mean if a man tells you your his guilty pleasure? What would it mean to you if you were to say this to someone or someone was to say this to you? How would you translate this in your inner world? Personally, humorous, passing comment, serious. ... (58 words

Is my brain fixated on porn? Is that why I can't keep an erection during sex?

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5 November 2014 (M age 26-29 - My girlfriend and I are trying to have sex. It his her first time so it takes tries to finally do it. But there is a problem. I lose my erection when its not stimulated with friction. She gives oral to make me have a full erection. After that when I try to put it in I start to... (212 words

Actions Are Louder Than Words?

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5 November 2014 (F age - My latest "best friend in life" and I have been in a committed relationship going on 19 months. We addressed the "wondering eye" syndrome and his "friends on facebook", and I finally had told him that since he said, "I will never hurt you", I told him that I would start ... (492 words

Boyfriend bought presents for everyone except me and I'm the one who helped him!

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5 November 2014 (F age - BF of 9yrs has just recovered from a broken leg and has bought thank you gifts for those who helped him-apart from ME!!!! God I helped him the most and no gift required but in view of the others receiving something I just feel bloody hurt!! Would you? ... (48 words

He used to do his own laundry! Is he cheating on me?

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5 November 2014 (F age 26-29 - Is he cheating? My boyfriend of 4yrs and 11 mnths . nowadays constantly takes his clothes to the dry cleaners where his ex works.but before he used to do his own laundry. Is he cheating?... (36 words

I think I'm being manipulated!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 1410 days ago

5 November 2014 (F age 41-50 - I think I'm being manipulated. My husband's best friend is getting a divorce after 20 years of marriage. His wife was always cold with us. Their visits got rarer and rarer to the point that she stopped coming all together and he visited us alone. Their invitations beca... (310 words

My parents treat me and brother like we are babies! Advice in how to deal with them?

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5 November 2014 (? age 18-21 - Hi everyone :) I am almost 16 years old and recently I admitted to my parents that I liked a guy.. well they flipped out... And I thought it was the right thing to do as I did not want to sneak around them. However, since they flipped I told them it was nothing serious ... (427 words

What would you ladies do or think if your straight boyfriend just announced he had once kissed and touched another guy like he was telling you about his day?

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5 November 2014 (F age 22-25 - I have been with my boyfriend for almost 5 months. Things are really great between us and we are thinking about taking the next step and getting a house together. It wouldn't be until the new year anyway but things are getting serious and I couldn't be happier. I know it's ... (359 words

It's become repulsive how much he thinks about sex. Is it different for men and women?

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5 November 2014 (F age 36-40 - So fed up and needing some advice, not criticism but some solid advice. I have been with my boyfriend for 6 years, we got engaged 2 years ago now, I'm settled lovely in life, got a great job, 2 great kids, and a lovely semi detached. My children are not his, they are from a ... (259 words

It looked promising then he dropped out of the text convo

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1418 days ago

5 November 2014 (F age 30-35 - Met a nice boy at concert over weekend. We didn't get a lot of time to talk because shows were loud but he gave me his cell and took a pic of us at the stage. I did feel like he wanted to get closer fast. Tried to kiss me and that wasn't something I was comfortable with since ... (115 words

Am I asking too much from my husband?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1419 days ago

5 November 2014 (F age 41-50 - I feel that I give more than I get. I feel that my husband hasn't got a clue what love really is... We've been together for almost 15 years. We met when I was 25 and he 27. In a way we grew up together. All the major life decisions (and efforts) we made together (finish ... (699 words

Is it out of line for me to try and initiate spontaneous sex ? I keep getting rejected by my wife

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 1417 days ago

5 November 2014 (M age 36-40 - hey there, I have been in a relationship for seven years now and my wife continues to reject my spontaneous advances. I understand things could be approached the wrong way, but I try and be fun or cute and at times alpha to initiate something spontaneous. I am talk... (165 words

Advice on what a break means.

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 1418 days ago

5 November 2014 (M age 26-29 - So my girlfriend and I have been dating for two years. However, out of the blue, she sent a text message asking for a break. She said she didn't want things to end, just a short break. It was not stemmed from a fight and she made it clear she still loved me. I told her that I ... (167 words

How do I know if she is ready for sex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1419 days ago

5 November 2014 (M age 30-35 - hello dear reader my name is zion. am 27yrs of age.have been with her "lilly" close to 2yrs i love her very much even angels in heaven know i realy do,up till date she never visited me at home for once not even visit to any man's house except in public places (not to loose ... (206 words

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