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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

How do I put this guy in his place? I need a good ultimatum line

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 3446 days ago

15 November 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey Aunts So I have a crush on this guy for a while , back then he was mostly talking about his ex gf but the day his present gf came down (before that he referred her to me as an ex), he told me that they were just going to meet up and catch up. Then he told my they had... (146 words)

My boyfriend never wants to go anywhere with me just always wants to be at home. Is this normal?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3450 days ago

15 November 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey everyone so I've been having the longest problem with my boyfriend. Here lately my boyfriend won't go with me any where he says its not true but every time I've asked him to go anywhere with me he says no. Now my mom is in the hospital and has been for about a week and i ... (142 words)

Does my boyfriend think he's too old for me and is using my health issue as an excuse to end things?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3449 days ago

15 November 2014 (F)

age 51-59 - My boyfriend of 3 months is a director of a company where he entertains potential customers at his house and as I am his partner he says that he expects me to come and help him, 3 weeks ago I had a IBS episode during one of these evenings and I said to him that I was sorry that ... (166 words)

I cant get my crush out of my head and don't know where its going

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3450 days ago

15 November 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear Cupid. I really hope you can help me. Im in a long term relationship but lately ive been having doubts about where it is going. Ive also just started a new job in the past few months and met a guy who ive developed a massive crush on. I have told the guy at work that i ... (132 words)

How to stop loving my teacher?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3450 days ago

15 November 2014 (F)

age 26-29 - So I've had this teacher since my freshman year, we hit it off almost instantly and became pretty close. (not in a weird or inappropriate way, just a teacher-student friendliness) We talk every school day, and we get on so well. We have a similar sense of humor and we're both ... (219 words)

Is there any way to track texts, numbers and messages on an iPhone that is not yours?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3450 days ago

15 November 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - Is there any way to put a tracking device on an iPhone? How can I do this? I need to monitor my husband's phone for evidence of cheating. How about a GPS tracking device for the car? Can anyone help me? How can I do all this and where can I get the tools? Hoping all is rel... (212 words)

Can a relationship work when it starts with sex on the first date?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3448 days ago

15 November 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - Does sex on first date ever lead to a relationship? I met "Al" two weeks ago and the connection was amazing. We didn't want the date to end so we hung out on his roof and then, his place. One thing led to another and we slept together. I have NEVER done this and tried to play ... (140 words)

Is there something wrong with how this teacher treats me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3450 days ago

15 November 2014 (F)

age 22-25 - Im a 14 yo girl in highschool. I have a male geometry teacher that stares at me every time i walk near or when im in his class. Plenty of my friends and students in the classroom have noticed that he always stares at me.For example, as i walk towards the classroom he'll stare ... (102 words)

He's seemed passive-aggressive since we got back together

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3450 days ago

15 November 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay.. So me and my boyfriend are getting back from break up and now he's passive aggressive towards me. I know he still loves me. We've been in serious relationship and he's ready for commitment before but now things changed. He loss his patience, passion, and doesn't try to ... (581 words)

My fiance and father of our child has revealed that he has fantasies about having sex with other women. How am I supposed to cope with this?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3448 days ago

15 November 2014 (F)

age 26-29 - What would you do/think if your fiance who you just had a baby with says he fantasises/wants to have sex with other women! One of the woman he sees around work and talks to. Hes never cheated as far as i know and says he only would sleep with others if im ok with it. This i... (98 words)

I have resentment toward my husband who won't talk about his business and never gives me support!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3450 days ago

15 November 2014 (F)

age 51-59 - I am building resentment toward my husband. My husband though is a nice man has no ambitions whatsoever. He has his small business, which basically pays for itself. I don't even know what he does with his money. He pays for his clothes, outings with boys and when we go o... (610 words)

My girlfriend complains that I don't see her but I have to work!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3449 days ago

15 November 2014 (M)

age 30-35 - Me and my gf been going out for 2 years. We have struggled with money but now have finally found jobs. I am not happy with my job however I want to make the most of it. I work Monday to Friday 7.30-5.30 am And second job is Monday to Sunday 6pm-11pm Yet I still take... (229 words)

How do I continue with this relationship with my married boyfriend when I have periods of doubt creeping in around his ability to be faithful to me?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 3450 days ago

15 November 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello DC Friends. I could use your advice. Not judgement or answers which predict future behaviour and outcome. None of us knows what will happen with certainty. And let us remember that not every man is the same nor is what they do nor is every situation. I am looking fo... (452 words)

My guy even takes his phone into the shower! Whats going on?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3450 days ago

15 November 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - Ok so almost every morning before my guy goes to work I'll catch him looking on his phone and then get out of bed. Either going to the bathroom or in the kitchen. After awhile he'll either shower or stay gone for some while. I know he's masterbating while he thinks I'm asleep ... (127 words)

It's our baby's first Christmas so what's the harm in spending it in our home instead of their daddy's ex's?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3448 days ago

15 November 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello! My boyfriend and I normally spend every Christmas at his ex girlfriends house so that he can spend the day with his son. It's incredibly nice of her to let us spend it there and even more so that her boyfriend is ok with it too. We have been together for four year... (379 words)

Can a man be happy with a slim girl when he really prefers BBW?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3448 days ago

15 November 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend is into pretty much only BBW / chubby porn, but won't just admit he fancies big girls. he says it gets him off but I just have a gut feeling he prefers big girls. None of his exes have been too chubby though and I am slim. Hi calls me sexy all the time but I feel ... (121 words)

I'm afraid if I tell my crush I like her she won't talk to me anymore

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3450 days ago

15 November 2014 (M)

age 22-25 - I have had a crush on a girl in my college for about 3 and a half years now.(we both are 16) we talk a bit like casual hi-hello( though I am always the one to approach her) . I never told her I liked her but I think she figured it out by the way I act.I have been thinking of ... (135 words)

I have the hots for the amazingly hot baby sitter

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3448 days ago

15 November 2014 (M)

age 41-50 - I have an amazingly hot baby sitter, she is new to my family, just me and my daughter, but I have known her sister for while now. How do I find out if she has any interest? I wont lie I would love to see her in more ways than just my baby sitter. I know she is probably much ... (70 words)

Sad and confused. Wish I'd never met him. He was my first boyfriend, so why did he fail to give me support after he promised to help me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3450 days ago

15 November 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey aunts I'm really sad and just confused. I'm a 23 year old college student who works part time. I've never had a boyfriend before, I just always thought if I waited than the right guy will come alone and I than too will experience my first boyfriend ever. All my friends... (762 words)

Do I believe him or not? My older married lover says he'll leave his wife when I finish college.

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 3432 days ago

15 November 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - My older, married lover tells me he will eventually leave his wife once I finish college. He has brought up the idea of having a baby together recently. Does this mean he is serious about our relationship and would having his baby be a good choice? ... (49 words)