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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

'Tears' in my foreskin?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3441 days ago

21 November 2014 (M)

age 30-35 - hi, quite recently i have noticed 3-4 vertical 'tears' on the topside of my penis right on the tip of my foreskin, it is now painful to retract my foreskin obviously i cant have sex or masturbate... i am very hygienic and shower every day and i am appying sudocrem to it daily. ... (84 words)

How do you tactfully raise the question of STD testing?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3442 days ago

21 November 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - I have only had sex with one person in my life, we were both virgins and never slept with anyone else. We broke up a few months ago. I was not very concerned with getting any kind of disease from him because we were our 1sts and only partners, but now I am wondering what s... (159 words)

Decode this Text PLEASE!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3440 days ago

21 November 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - What does this mean Help! I text him after a couple of days of no communication. I asked him how he was and he wrote back "Super Busy" I text back "ok and he responded back fast by saying "Please don't read into this I am super busy" seeing him for a couple of months very ... (107 words)

I hesitate to get involved with him when his ex is still in the picture

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3441 days ago

21 November 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, quick question. I've been talking to a guy I met for quite a while he's so nice we haven't been out on a date yet he keeps saying we will. The thing is he's still so involved with his ex, I'm not sure if I want to get involved in a mess like that. A while ago he put... (195 words)

Stupid for wanting him back

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3442 days ago

21 November 2014 (F)

age - I am stupid for wanting my husband back after 23 years of marriage? He left 7 months ago and said it was over, moved to another state, had a fling, that didn't work out. What ever happened really messed with him He thought about trying to work it out and then decide no, but ... (92 words)

My best friend freaked out over the 'maid of honor' title

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3297 days ago

21 November 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - My Best friend just completely freaked out on me because she isn't going to be my Maid of Honor. Best friend and I have been best friends for over 20 years. We have both been there for each other in good times and bad. I was the maid of honor at her wedding. She ... (506 words)

I found out my wife worked as a prostitute

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 3440 days ago

21 November 2014 (M)

age 36-40 - I got married 6 months ago. After marriage i found out my wife i Was a prostitute im just shell shocked. I dont know how to cope with it? Im just gone mental. I told her how treeible im feeling roght now and i told her to end this marriage just asked her for marriage... (144 words)

My 36 year old boyfriend is extremely damaged. I'm ready to give up.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3441 days ago

21 November 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - I've been with my boyfriend for almost 5 years but he's so damaged I'm ready to throw in the towel. His entire life has been a fucked up mess and he refuses to do anything about it. I'm going to tell you about his childhood/past relationships first and then I'll share our ... (1070 words)

He wants to take care of me and finance my education, but ...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3442 days ago

21 November 2014 (F)

age 26-29 - i seriously need help. im a 16 year old and a married man of over 40 years has been chasing me for sometime now, ar first i turned hi down but later on we became friends and got talking. he promises to take care of me and finance my studies, he is a,lso very rich, considering ... (105 words)

We have a great sexual relationship but she will not touch me below the belt!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3441 days ago

21 November 2014 (M)

age 41-50 - My girlfriend and I have been together for over a year we have a great relationship we started out as best friends grew into a sexual relationship, talking about marriage kids I will 9 yards. Let me start by saying I'm 34 years old she's 10 years my junior...she is most ... (289 words)

I don't know how to bring it up calmly and not make it sound like I'm attacking my boyfriend's erectile issues

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3442 days ago

21 November 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been with my boyfriend for several months now, and he's very sweet and caring and loving. But we have not had sex yet, like the real deal start to finish. He has a problem getting and keeping it up, a problem that he's already seeking professional medical treatmen... (267 words)

I'm shattered, horrified,torn apart because my daughter just told me she's a bisexual

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3442 days ago

21 November 2014 (F)

age - Hi, I'm shattered, torn apart. I can't seem to function. Just caught my daughter kissing a girl. Horrified, livid. I can't seem to accept my 16 yr old daughter telling me she is bisexual. I'm still 2 days later so angry wth her, calling her so many ugly names.i am disgusted ... (69 words)

Why do women cheat?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3440 days ago

21 November 2014 (F)

age 26-29 - I don't mean to sound sexist or come off as judgemental I'm just really curious as to why married women cheat? I mean I can understand why men cheat, they produce sperm like every freakin day of their life so of course they're gonna wanna let off some steam in that aspect b... (98 words)

Is it something I did or is he no longer interested?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3442 days ago

21 November 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - I have recently started something with a guy I have known for many years now. I'm 21 and he is 23. Although we have always been on friendly terms and I frequently run into him at social functions, I've rarely spent time with him one on one. This summer, however, we sort of got ... (787 words)

I take my job seriously; my supervisor doesn't.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3441 days ago

21 November 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey, Just looking for some advice on relationships in the workplace please :-).... basically, i work for a small family owned company which consists of a couple of stores in our local area. The owners are often in and work very hard..... I'v worked there for 2 years, and hav... (387 words)

Is it normal to feel disappointed in your relationship?Should a partner make you feel special somehow? And what if they don't?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3442 days ago

21 November 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - Is it normal to feel disappointed in your relationship? I've been with my bf for 4 years. He asked me to marry him 2 1/2 years ago and I felt shocked as marriage was never something I wanted with anyone at all, which he knew. I didn't want to upset him so said yes to his prop... (434 words)