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Why and when do men not orgasm?

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Question - (6 November 2014) 5 Answers - (Newest, 7 November 2014)
A female United Kingdom age 36-40, anonymous writes:

I've been seeing someone over the course of five months. Well I never labaled it with seeing him, that's just how he puts it in his own words.

Anyhow, things have been 'rocky' from the get go, from what's. been said, to my behavior towards him.

It was a difficult time period of my life and walked into. Things. have been really messy.

However, I chose not to sleep with him in the 6 months of knowing him. However, we did other stuff and I gave him a oral sex, out of the blue, twice, on different occasions but he didn't orgasum.

What gives?

For fair few reasons, I've cut that man out of my life, but never. had that happened before with my ex.

Any advice? Why and When does this happen?

View related questions: my ex, oral sex, orgasm, period

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A male reader, Jay R United Kingdom +, writes (7 November 2014):

Some men cannot orgasm during oral sex myself included. I prefer inserting my friend into the woman's temple of pleasure as it is nice and warm. So not all men are the same we like different things du ring sex.

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A male reader, olderthandirt  +, writes (6 November 2014):

olderthandirt agony auntLots of reasons; prostate problems(aged)full bladder,too dunk, guilt, just not all at satisfied, muscle cramps, disracted, too soon after previous orgasm, etc. etc.No worries...probably not your fault. If at frst you don't succeed ..try,try again.

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A male reader, Sageoldguy1465 United States +, writes (6 November 2014):

Sageoldguy1465 agony auntI don't have orgasms when I think of my Mother-in-law.....

It happens if I fail to turn flat the photograph of her, which my wife keeps on her bedside table....

P.S. Don't remind me that I could turn off the lights... because, I swear, the image illuminates itself!!!!

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A female reader, So_Very_Confused United States +, writes (6 November 2014):

So_Very_Confused agony auntSome men do not orgasm from oral sex.

My ex husband has told me recently that I was to this day the only woman that could bring him to orgasm from oral.

It is not a reflection on you or your skills.

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A male reader, TrancedRhythmEar Saudi Arabia +, writes (6 November 2014):

TrancedRhythmEar agony auntEither he needed more stimulation and you were doing well or you simply were not. Dont worry about it.

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