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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Do I preserve my family or go with the love of my life?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3716 days ago

21 February 2014 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi all, im after some advice please , around 12 years ago i met the love of my life, we saw each other for a year and went our seperate ways due to seveveral miss understandings, weve always kept in contact losely but over the past year we got onto the subject of us ag... (269 words)

We are both single. He visits me, offers cuddles only. Does he want a relationship or not? Your thoughts?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3716 days ago

21 February 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi im in a very confusing situation. I have known this man since last September i really like him but i cant tell if he wants to be with me or not. Every time i see him which is maybe once a month he comes to my place we watch a dvd he kisses and cuddles me no sex involved. He... (86 words)

Missing absent Bf. Have feelings for unavailable new guy who I work with. What to do?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3701 days ago

21 February 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello Aunts, I am so sad tonight. My boyfriend and I were together for two years. There were some problems with our relationship but overall it was a good one, a beautiful one. I never once doubted his love for me, and even our "fights" were actually disagreements. T... (1022 words)

She's confusing me... where do I stand?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3716 days ago

21 February 2014 (M)

age 36-40 - I am really feeling confused with this girl. I sometimes have the impression she likes me, but I also have the impression my mind is playing tricks on me. I will begin with a small summary about me: I am a 29 yo guy who has little experience in love. I used to be in a 3-ye... (1055 words)

Have I said too much too soon? Or should I be more frank with him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3716 days ago

21 February 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - I am 24 years old and I struggle to act interested in guys. I have friends who are so full on with guys and scare them away that i try my best not to be like this and act uninterested usually. I work with a guy I really like who is professional but shown some kind of inte... (761 words)

Should I interfere?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3699 days ago

21 February 2014 (F)

age 51-59 - I have two older sisters and, unfortunately there is a fall out with the eldest one and she has been off the scene for a year and a half. I learned she was dating someone older and she visited our mother at Christmas with him. Right enough, he is nine years older than her at 5... (328 words)

Dad cheated on mom 4 years ago, still together today, everyone has put the incident behind them but I just can't?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3716 days ago

21 February 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - This is very hard for me to type because I've never spoken about this to anyone. I came here because I feel like I need some advice on this. It's been some time and I still can't move on from this. Sorry for the long post but I could really use some advice. About 4 years ... (804 words)

I don't think my boyfriend finds me attractive - help?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3716 days ago

21 February 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - We have been dating for about 5 months but we were good friends first. I really do believe he loves me and he tells me I'm pretty all the time but I just don't believe him when he say that. I feel like he says it just to make me happy, but he doesn't believe it. He told me he ... (389 words)

How to clarify where I stand with my ex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3717 days ago

21 February 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - After almost 2 and a half years my partner decided to end things out of the blue about 6 weeks ago. I am heartbroken and shocked. It's now been a week since I moved out of our joint apartment and he texts me constantly. He hasn't deleted our relationship status on Facebook... (203 words)

How do I break off this affair with an engaged colleague?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3702 days ago

21 February 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello, 6 months ago I fell deeply for a man who is 16 years older than me who works in the same building and department as me. He began speaking to me online while I was on holiday from work and we got close chatting and joking and staying up all night talking. Everyda... (728 words)

My crush has an incurable illness. What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3717 days ago

21 February 2014 (F)

age 22-25 - So, the guy who I'm interested in announced to the class that he had an incurable illness. He told us in november, and it's now February. I'm still not over it, and every day, I just become more and more in love with him. The day he told us, I spent the whole day being ... (237 words)

Advice for a broken heart.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3717 days ago

21 February 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - My ex boyfriend and I reunited after our breakup back in November. We were hanging out enjoying each others company, almost like it was new and exciting again. He started to become distant and having less contact with me in the past few weeks. I asked him what was going on and ... (173 words)

My ex who tried to ruin my relationship has contacted me. I don't want to hurt her, but I don't want to hurt my partner. What should I do?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 3616 days ago

21 February 2014 (M)

age 30-35 - Me and my ex broke up back in June after being together for a year and a half. We tried being friends but this proved impossible after I started seeing someone four months later. This lead to something of a bitter parting for us. She and her family said some awful things about ... (395 words)

Should I bake and take him a cake?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3716 days ago

21 February 2014 (F)

age 51-59 - I am overcoming a long, co-dependent relationship. I have looked into my childhood with help of a counsellor and I understand why I was co-dependent. In order to change and move on I've had to not only look at co-dependency in my past relationships with partners, but with ... (984 words)

Should I have moved in on her that night?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3717 days ago

21 February 2014 (M)

age 30-35 - So I started talking to this girl like a month ago. We only started hanging out because there was a party and she wanted to go, ever since then she barely texts me or wants to hang out, we both just text each other when we know there's a party. This one night we both we... (298 words)

How do I get an aggresive suitor to back off a little without chasing him completely away

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 3714 days ago

21 February 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - This year, I told myself and God that I am going to get married. I don't have a boyfriend yet but just dating. I went to Dublin to see my ex December and even though the long distance is still an issue we are still very hopeful. Then when I came back I started receivin... (415 words)

My friend seems to need to compete with me.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3717 days ago

21 February 2014 (F)

age - I have a very good female friend who I am very fond of but she does seem to need to compete with me. I don;t know if this is a sign of jealousy, but she was at my house as I had invited her for tea and she suddenly said she needed to leave. I thought she must have somewhere ... (242 words)

I'm scared he will get drunk and cheat on me.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3708 days ago

21 February 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been in a relationship with my boyfriend for 10 months. We moved in with each other after 2 months. I'm really worried about the relationship. He's a good lovely person but my gut feelings lead my to think otherwise and horrible things. Before I met my boyfriend he ... (656 words)