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22-25,
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writes:So, the guy who I'm interested in announced to the class that he had an incurable illness. He told us in november, and it's now February. I'm still not over it, and every day, I just become more and more in love with him. The day he told us, I spent the whole day being like, well, not me. I didn't eat anything, drink anything, I hardly slept. I did for about 1 hour but I had a bad dream that he was dead in front of me. I woke up and didn't sleep for the rest of the night. I don't sleep properly anymore, and when i'm tired I just drink coffee. I know I shouldn't because i'm too young (13), but I don't know what to do. I tried to talk to the teachers but all they have to say was, "oh, a lot of girls your age get crushes." and thats not what I want. They're not understanding the problem. My friends don't know I like him, and are unsympathetic about his illness, because they hate him. So I don't want to talk to them, and my mother doesn't agree with me having crushes on people which is sooo hard, because I can't help the way i feel! I just can't get over it. Any advice on what to do? Any help is appreciated.
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 February 2014): good luck with it all, yeah? thanks for the kisses!
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 February 2014): at TaylorSwift1Fan. thanks, and yeah, i'll try to talk to him, x!
and at iAmHereToHelpYou. thanks! but as i've mentioned, my friends don't know i like him, and they don't really talk to me about him, they just give him dirty looks or sneer at him. my friends are a bit stuck up and they never take anything serious. i'll try to talk to a school cancelor too. thank you girls. may god less you. xxxxxxxxxx. five kisses each!
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 February 2014): Well, you've tried to talk to people, but there is one person left you could try to talk to. Your crush. Are you in any way friends? You could try and have a chat with him in private. Tell him, that you're very worried about him, and if there's anything you can do to help that he tells you. That way he'll know you care. Be friendly, but don't act totally different, because he may be having a hard time, and he needs to feel completely normal. Good luck, xx!
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