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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I don't know what more to give from myself

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3722 days ago

13 February 2014 (M)

age 36-40 - I've have been living together with this girl and her 5yr old son for a little over a year now. She's 23 and I'm 29. I'm pay all the bills, am the only one with a job, i help her raise her kid, spend time with them as much as I can, and have had to take on a second job working ... (350 words)

I can't get my boyfriend's ex off my mind..

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3721 days ago

13 February 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - So this is my last resort.. Me and my boyfriend have been together for a while with a little break in between (my choice). And in that break, he got in contact with his ex. He told me he only did it to make me jealous. And it worked.. I started talking to my ex when I found ... (276 words)

Does this mean that he likes me?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3721 days ago

13 February 2014 (F)

age 22-25 - Okay... I sit next to this guy in my history class and he is really nice, we always talk to each other and he hasn't ever snapped at me or anything. Yesterday we were sitting and doing some research on the laptops about different wars when I asked him if he knew who I lik... (228 words)

Will I have to be involved in my child's life in the future?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3721 days ago

13 February 2014 (M)

age 30-35 - I had a night out 2 weeks ago and slept with this girl who was on holiday in the city where I live. We exchanged email addresses and now I'm told she is pregnant. I honestly don't know how that happened because we used a condom, and sure I understand that they are not always ... (232 words)

Is this normal for FWB?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 3722 days ago

13 February 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - I got chatting to a guy online nearly 4 months now , at first he told me he was single but eventually he told me he wasn't and he has a daughter . I'm ok with this it's his life , he lives miles away from me but we decided to meet up . He drive over 2 and half hours to meet me ... (343 words)

He keeps promising to spend more time with me but never does!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3723 days ago

13 February 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - This is kind of hard to explain. For the last month or so my boyfriend has been distant and doing his own thing. He's been hanging out more with friends and just spending more time by himself or doing other things. That's great and all except for the fact that he's been s... (251 words)

I'm a very sensitive person and I always get drawn to troubled souls. Should I follow my head or my heart on this one?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3722 days ago

13 February 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - I have just seen a guy again who I met a year ago. We get on very well and have a connection. I have one dilemma .I am 39 a mother of an amazinh boy. This man is 35 with no permenant job and my gut feeling is that he may be a little troubled. Im a very sensitive person and i ... (133 words)

Should I tell him this hot sexy guy wants to take me out for Valentine's Day to make him stop being so cold?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3723 days ago

13 February 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - What should I do, boyfriend is breaking my heart.? My boyfriend and I usually argue about little things but this time I was really hurt and when we argued I was really angry and said he doesn't deserve me. I felt really bad and apologised to him. He keeps ignoring m... (201 words)

I don't want to be in a committed relationship right now but am feeling badly that I hurt him!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3723 days ago

13 February 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - I was officially with my now ex-boyfriend for about a year and a half, though had known him (and occasionally been "seeing" him) for a couple of years before that, when I broke it off because I feel like I don't want to be in a relationship at the moment. I'm 24, and have a l... (221 words)

Why do I keep getting crushes on my teachers?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3722 days ago

13 February 2014 (F)

age 26-29 - I've had crushes on about 6 different male teachers but I'm not sure why, my parents are a lot older than most and I have never had a boyfriend or male friend, I don't have any brothers either. I've got really bad anxiety and I worry about things all the time recently my ... (202 words)

Is it strange when a man doesn't have a picture of you in his office at work?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3722 days ago

13 February 2014 (F)

age 51-59 - I've been engaged for a couple of years. My fiance is a department head and he works with all women and very few men. The girl he dated before, he had a picture of them together on his office desk and word love was on the picture frame. I remember this, because he showe... (344 words)

Should I make the move and give him my number or just ignore him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3706 days ago

13 February 2014 (?) age 30-35 - We've been in touch on Facebook for nearly 3 months. We've had loads of different conversations, some serious, emotional and fun. After so much talking we finally met up for the evening. And he was a lovely guy, although he is 34 and I am 25, he was very shy, and a little tense ... (312 words)

I'm affectionate when drunk but not so much when sober. Is this guy just confused by my behavior?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3723 days ago

13 February 2014 (F)

age 26-29 - Hey guys this guy I've been dating told me he is completely besotted by me. What does this mean? I feel like the next day he was distant and cold, he kept saying I clearly didn't want him there which I did. My friends think this all could be because when I'm drunk I'm highly ... (112 words)

My sister is using funerals as a way to pick up guys??

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3723 days ago

13 February 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm concerned about my older sister, recently we've attended two funerals (neither individual knew the other, one was a business colleague of my Dad's, one was a neighbor killed in a car crash). I'm 19, my sister's 24, and single. It's her attitude to being single that's c... (201 words)

What is the problem with me and dating?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3723 days ago

13 February 2014 (?) age 30-35 - Hello cupids. I ended my last relationship on the 30th of december 2012 and have been single for over a year. It hurts me that non of my relationships always see new year and am also always single on vals day so is going to be this vals day. The thing right now is my ex boy f... (297 words)

Will I get used to study life or are some people just not made for it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3723 days ago

13 February 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - This is not a relationship question but if anyone may have some input to help me? Iv just started my first year of uni. One week in and i am SO overwhelmed. I haven't had to study since school (where i had a don't care attitude back then) I feel like i cant possibly remembe... (269 words)

I can't leave my brother but I can't pursue my dreams if I stay with him

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3723 days ago

13 February 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi there. I don't know if it's a relationship question or not, but i am really freaking out in this situation and want to seek immediate help. A little brief about my past. I lost my mother when i was small and recently last year my dad expired too. I have been living with my ... (643 words)

My ex is pregnant, she told me just after we broke up. I offered my support and she rejected that. Anyone else been in this situation? Help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3724 days ago

13 February 2014 (M)

age 36-40 - Well here it goes, recently I got back with an Ex girlfriend who I had dated a few years ago, and I can genuinely say that I loved her then, and that things appeared to be going well second time round. Then it all went downhill. One weekend and I said I don't think it's going t... (444 words)

How can I stop my ex from harassing me? He wants me back, yet his actions are distressing me

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3722 days ago

13 February 2014 (F)

age 26-29 - my ex boyfriend wont leave me alone. ever since he broke up with me, he has been getting into trouble, showing up in all of my classes, and he even asked my best friend out. we only dated for about a month, and even though i told him that i don't want to have anything to... (152 words)

For My Boyfriend: I need just a few words, but what would be the right words?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3723 days ago

13 February 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey everyone, My boyfriend of 10 months is going to start post graduation soon,he is going to be a surgeon so I thought of gifting him a pen which he could write prescriptions in, but I'm not finding the right words to write,just few lines motivating him as he beging this new... (57 words)

How can I stop missing someone? How did you stop missing someone?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3723 days ago

13 February 2014 (F)

age 26-29 - How do I stop missing someone? I havent talked to this guy for almost a month... we were pretty much dating and had a thing for over a month... and he told me I was annoying him because I misunderstood something that he said to me... i just don' get how you go from talking ... (154 words)

I'm a 27 year old virgin, should I go hire an escort to experience sex?

This question has 94 answers - newest was posted 3569 days ago

13 February 2014 (M)

age 36-40 - I’m 27 years old and will be 28 years old this summer and not being able to me intimate with anyone in my life is just making me feel frustrated. I have tired date few Chinese women but all they do is want to be friends or we never talk again. Sometime I have thought maybe ... (436 words)