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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Would it bother you if your partner was a nude model for Art Classes?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3735 days ago

1 February 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi Everyone, I'm 23 years-old, and I'll be graduating with my Masters degree in May. I've generally kept to the "straight and narrow," so to speak--I almost always follow the rules, I've only had sex with one person (an ex bf), I do don't drugs, etc, etc. However, recentl... (293 words)

Stepmother issue: I want to reconnect with my Dad, just my Dad and I. Am I being unreasonable? Honest opinions please

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3735 days ago

1 February 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - I spoke to my dad the other day on the phone for the first time in a while. I've never lived with him and he has recently married his long-term girlfriend, who I have never got on with. When I was younger and obligated to stay with him occasionally, I felt enormously intimida... (386 words)

I keep on falling in love easily. Is it love? Is this common in divorcees?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3729 days ago

1 February 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - Is it common to be constantly "falling in love" after divorce? I fell I in love earlier this week and would totally trust the genuine-ness of the feeling if I weren't planning to have another man's babies two weeks before... I have decided to just enjoy these little infat... (95 words)

He wants me to text dirty ...

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3734 days ago

1 February 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - my boyfriend wants me to send him dirty/horny texts and i don't know what to write.i need some ideas please help.... (21 words)

Why did she leave?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3736 days ago

1 February 2014 (M)

age 36-40 - My girlfriend and I have been together for over two years. Over the past few months, she has been through some stressful events - changing careers twice, finally finishing school, and dealing with the pressures of being an adult (bills, work, etc). Last night, she was c... (238 words)

Crushing on a coworker but afraid to lose my boyfriend of three years!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3736 days ago

1 February 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, Since starting work 5 months ago I have developed a crush on this guy. He likes me too apparently but it'S only ever been implied or said to other people. He's really nice and sweet and when something happens, he's the first person I want to tell. This seems great but... (188 words)

Is there a correlation between a woman's breast size and her partner's use of porn?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 3728 days ago

1 February 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - I've noticed that there seems to be a link between women with small chests and them saying their boyfriends watch porn and they don't like it. I want to know is there anyone who is big chested and has a boyfriend who uses porn? ... (45 words)

I feel embarrassed that I couldn't reach climax with my new partner

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3736 days ago

1 February 2014 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey dear cupiders, I'm not sure if this is an appropriate place to ask but not sure where else to ask and since this site has helped me before I thought it may help again. I've been seeing this guy for a few weeks now and he really turns me on, last night we decided to do so... (214 words)

I have been seeing a guy, we've become friends and he's fallen for me but I don't find him attractive. Yet I miss him when he doesn't talk to me. What should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3736 days ago

1 February 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi aunts, I'm confused about my feelings. I met a guy at a charity event and was instantly attracted to him for some reason. I really wanted him to take me out and focused all my attention on him. The charity events lasted one week and at the end of the week he asked me on a... (412 words)

Mixed messages from my boyfriend. What should I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3735 days ago

1 February 2014 (F)

age 26-29 - Hello guys, I have a problem here, well, this guy and I have been dating for 2 months now, everything's was fine, he's so nice and sweet and he understands me very well. He's Turkish and I'm from morocco but he lives here in Morocco we're both in university, he's 20 I'm 18 yrs ... (566 words)

What does it mean when your boyfriend flirts with other women?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3736 days ago

1 February 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - What does it mean when your boyfriend flirts with other women? I love my boyfriend a lot and he's a great guy. The thing is, I don't really like the way he talks with other women and the way he is with other women. He's very flirty with them. I got very upset when I f... (130 words)

I'm uncomfortable with what my girlfriend's male friend messages her on Facebook. How do I approach this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3736 days ago

1 February 2014 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi, I've been in a relationship for 10 months now with somebody I really feel has real long term potential, and could very well be a life partner. Throughout our time together we have ironed out creases and overcome challenges, including us both coming to terms with the fact ... (387 words)

My girfriend's drinking habits worry me.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3736 days ago

1 February 2014 (M)

age 41-50 - I am worried about my girlfriend's drinking to the point that I started recording mentally how much she drinks. I think she drinks more than all the women I ever knew. Here is the example: Monday, 2 drinks at home; Tuesday none; Wednesday 3 drinks with girls when she went out... (233 words)

Ex wants to be friends but with benefits. But I just want friendship. How do I handle this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3736 days ago

1 February 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - My ex broke up with me since he had come out of a long term relationship not too long ago, and he wasn't ready to go into a new one. I was sad because during the time we were together he acted like a good bf, bt i still wanting him in my life so i agreed to be just friends. I ... (240 words)

What can I do to make my coach pay attention to me when I'm working out?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3736 days ago

1 February 2014 (F)

age 26-29 - If this doesn't make a lot of sense, I'm sorry I'm on my phone in my lunch break. Okay, i do judo and basically, me and a coach have been really good friends and have know each other for a while now. We flirt quite a lot and we get along well. However recently he's been dis... (121 words)

Long distance boyfriend has moved to be with me and now I'm having second thoughts.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3736 days ago

1 February 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been going out with my boyfriend for nearly 3 years and he lived in Ireland but recently moved into my family home in England so we could save up for a mortgage. He has started working in a job that pays minimum wage and can't find anything else. I find myself comp... (171 words)

My boyfriend wants to be with me forever, but doesn't want to marry me? Do I leave?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3735 days ago

1 February 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, I'm in desperate need of advice. Anything is greatly appreciated! Here's what happened... I'm 25 and my boyfriend is 27. We've been together for almost 3 years. We both still live at home with our parents. He is my first boyfriend and I lost my virginity to him; he has had ... (765 words)

How can I regain my self confidence and believe in love again?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3736 days ago

1 February 2014 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi guys, I have just started a new relationship with an amazing guy, but I am afraid we are not going anywhere. I keep on thinking that I don't deserve being in love, and I tend to get too cynical. I wonder, "if my past relationship failed - even though I was so in love -... (133 words)

This guy has put his career first for years and wants to find someone, will he take the risk?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3736 days ago

1 February 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi Eveyone, Been on numerous dates via online but last week I had a good first date with this guy. Not usually my type but quirky and attractive, he was open, lovely, clearly attracted to me. When it was time to say goodbye, I could see he wanted to kiss me but there were s... (196 words)

He pulled away after sex? Why?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3736 days ago

1 February 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - I got chatting to this guy online but during that I was also dating another man, so the other man was still the focus of my attention, I ended up ignoring the online guy and he left me alone. Weeks later I regretted ignoring him and thought about him often, mainly because t... (317 words)

My ex is being awkward about my boyfriend spending time with our children, yet thinks it's fine for him to take them on holiday with his girlfriend!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3712 days ago

1 February 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been trying really hard to have a good strong friendship with my ex, but he is making it impossible and his girlfriend is trying her best to ruin whatever we do have left! I'm losing my patience with her, almost as much as him! Ok, so basically we have two children... (558 words)

How can I start being nicer to people?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3736 days ago

1 February 2014 (F)

age 26-29 - I have a lot of issues with self-esteem and self-confidence because I'm not even averagely pretty or fit and I am just above averagely intelligent. Unfortunately this ends with me being overly sarcastic and loud and rather opinionated around people. It's not that I'm rude, b... (102 words)

I love being girlfriend-like and am interested in more than one person, though I am in a relationship. Is this Normal?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3736 days ago

1 February 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - I've dated a few guys seriously. Each relationship getting better and better. But it seems the past 2 breakups have been from my own issues (either I grew out of the relationship or we didn't feel like it was the right time for us, blah blah). My current boyfriend and I are ... (966 words)

Now that our relationship is no longer long-distance, I find myself feeling insecure

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3736 days ago

1 February 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have been together for a year now. I am 25 and he is 24. We are very much in love, and we have talked about our future together many, many times. We talk about getting married, having kids, etc. For the most part, our relationship is great, and I wouldn't ... (994 words)

Uncomfortable going on vacation with my husband's family after he told them lies about me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3737 days ago

1 February 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi all, I got married six months ago and my husband and I were doing very well in the beginning ...but lately we have been arguing about many things . Currently we are living with my parents because he lost his job and had missed court dates in his country . So I suggested ... (336 words)

She hung my bookmark by her bed. Does this mean she loves me back?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3735 days ago

1 February 2014 (F) age 22-25 - There is this girl that I have a crush on. We are best friends now and we danced one time it was the best moment of my life. I always wondered if she loves me back.I made a bookmark with her name as a Christmas present cause she loves to read. Well unfortunately she wasn't able ... (78 words)