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Archived questions from: 12 February, 2014 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Why is it okay to criticize big boobs?

This question has 39 answers - newest was posted 3640 days ago

12 February 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - Every time there is a question about small breasts, I've noticed a lot of people take it upon themselves to criticise big breasts and call them 'ugly' and 'saggy' it's really insensitive, and quite offensive. The latest question I'm referring to is ... (143 words)

How can I approach this sensitive subject?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3726 days ago

12 February 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - So this is not a dating question, but it is a very sensitive subject that I'm not sure how to approach. I go out of town for business quite a bit, and I have a friend, a former coworker, stay with my dog when I go. He works in the area, but his home is about an hour away, so it ... (362 words)

Is it weird?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3718 days ago

12 February 2014 (F)

age 26-29 - Is it weird for me to really like someone I don't know? Okay I've seen this guy a few times in public we have never spoke before but I like him.We know of each other over social networks and stuff but I don't want to approach him because he might think im weird or something.... (56 words)

He keeps invading my personal space.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3726 days ago

12 February 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - I work on campus in a computer lab, and really enjoy working with the students. But there is this one man (at least twice my age, maybe more) who comes into the lab occasionally, and he is overly-friendly with me, and it makes me uncomfortable. He tries to sit close to me, and ... (137 words)

My girlfriend wont help clean house!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3725 days ago

12 February 2014 (M)

age 30-35 - I need some tips on encouraging my girlfriend be a little more helpful around the house. We have been together 3 years and have lived together in an apartment for the past year. I will be the first to admit that I am not crazy about cleaning, but I try not no make a mess around ... (198 words)

College peer said something which hit a nerve. How should I react to this considering the issues I have?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3725 days ago

12 February 2014 (F)

age 26-29 - Slight problem, but this ones getting to me. I am at college at the moment, and i'm doing some GCSE retakes because I decided it would be better than going straight on to A-levels. My GCSE class is okay, I seem to get on... (424 words)

Is sex always going to be this uncomfortable?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3726 days ago

12 February 2014 (F)

age 26-29 - So I lost my virginity to this guy I'm sort of seeing it was a mistake and although I wanted it I felt pressured at the same time. Anyway we had sex and it was slightly painful, not all it's cracked up to be and I didn't finish no matter what he tried. After having sex 3 times ... (123 words)

He chats with a lot of women, I can't help but feel he has an interest in them or is keeping his options open!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3725 days ago

12 February 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - So I've been with my boyfriend for about a year.We have an amazing relationship he loves me I know he does BUT I've recently looked threw his phone and realized he communicates with a lot of women Text,Call, Facebook...its a lot of Mundane daily chatting but a few raised my ... (144 words)

My girlfriend has a male roommate but the issue was that she lied about it!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3726 days ago

12 February 2014 (M)

age 30-35 - When girlfriend was moving to college, she had to pick a place/apartment in consensus with her parents. I always got a bit nauseus before that, when thinking about possibility that she might get a male roommate. Somehow, instinctively, I had a feeling it will be the case. ... (406 words)

I'm wondering if the relationship has lost its magic

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3726 days ago

12 February 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been in this relationship for four years now and we have been like a married couple for years now. I am wondering if it has lost its magic now. He's extremely busy at work because he thinks he needs to work hard. He complains that he's poor every day. We don't get to ... (464 words)

How do I find a woman who is serious?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 3725 days ago

12 February 2014 (M)

age 41-50 - Why do women flirt pointlessly? I have had many situations where I meet a woman at her work and she is friendly and flirty. She will tell me things about her son/school/friends/whatever and after awhile I give her my number so we can talk some more and get to know one another. ... (1056 words)

If he doesn't love me now, will he ever?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3725 days ago

12 February 2014 (F)

age - i have been seeing this guy for over a year now and have fallen for him i love him but he says he doesnt love me, he cares for me, he texts daily, visits on tuesdays and we spend every weekend together, should i finish things between us, if he doesnt love me now will he ever, i ... (100 words)

He has made me feel so undervalued in my role as a wife!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3726 days ago

12 February 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello, I have a question that I have been having a hard time with. My husband and I have been married for 13 years together for 17. His mother recently passed away he was in Florida to be at her side for 1 week I took care of our kids. He returned here with needing no comfo... (290 words)

My husband's secret porn addiction is driving us apart!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3726 days ago

12 February 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been with my husband for twelve years I have recently checked out the history on our co on our computer and noticed a lot of porn sites which he has been on for about a year. I have also looked at his phone which is hardly ever out of his hand and the search history is ... (136 words)

Have I just not met the right friends?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3716 days ago

12 February 2014 (M)

age 30-35 - Over the years, I have found it difficult to see the good things about myself. This needs to change. So, firstly, would like to lay these out on the table: I am determined (when I want to be), I am friendly, I have a good sense of humour, I can get along with a wide range of ... (295 words)

If my boyfriend is the love of my life then why can't I stop thinking of the man I dated while we were broken up?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3726 days ago

12 February 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - I really need help and if anyone could help me that would be much appreciated. My story is long and complex but I will try to shorten it and summarize it. Basically, I have been with my boyfriend for 5 years now on and off. And when I mean off, we broke up for a short peri... (403 words)

I feel like I'm being rushed into marriage by my boyfriend, my parents and even my friends

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3726 days ago

12 February 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - I feel like I'm being rushed into marriage by my boyfriend, my parents and even my friends to a point. Last week, during a family meal my boyfriend proposed to me in front of his family(Mum,dad and two brothers and their partners and kids.) I was so shocked I said yes without ... (350 words)

I get jealous of the girlfriend my boyfriend had before me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3726 days ago

12 February 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear Cupid, I'm in a relationship with the most perfect guy in the world. We knew each other for years and been close friends before we started dating a year ago. I know lots about him and he is beautiful person inside out and the way he treats me is fabulous. He is the firs... (339 words)

What do you do when its always you doing the contacting? if stop I may lose what friends I have.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3725 days ago

12 February 2014 (?) age 51-59 - We all get busy in life, work, family, hobbies, etc and at times it's not easy to see friends/acquaintances on a regular basis, some people we see regularly, some not often at all. Sometimes I feel like I am always the one doing the texting or contacting, even just to say ... (392 words)

Ladies: have you ever treated a good guy badly because of a past relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3726 days ago

12 February 2014 (M)

age - MOD NOTE: Words changed a little to make the post easy to understand... Girls, have you because of a past relationship that the guy treated you really bad and was abusive, in all ways he could, hurt a good guy by dumping him? All because you were waiting for the other sh... (106 words)

We haven't dated long what should I get him for Valentine's Day?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3726 days ago

12 February 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi everybody, This might strike some as being a daft question, but I'll ask away! I've recently started seeing this guy (ie. 3 dates) and I know he wants to take me out on Valentines Day. However, I don't know what to get him if anything - it's not like I've been with him... (124 words)

Are there guys out there that will look past my body and like me for who I am?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 3726 days ago

12 February 2014 (F)

age 26-29 - This is a really hard question to ask because I'm fairly certain of the answer, but I was wondering if I will ever find some one because of my size. I'm very small for my age (18), I look much younger I'm very thin. Are there guys out there that will look past my body and like ... (69 words)