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Archived questions from: 11 February, 2014 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Does this mean he's losing interest?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3725 days ago

11 February 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - hello im a 36 year old female in a long distance relationship. i really love him and he says he loves me too but, lately i have had some strange feelings. we use to talk every day now we really dont. he use to call me two and three times a day now, im lucky if i get a text. he ... (210 words)

I'm not sure if I'm freaking out over nothing or if I'm just freaking out over sex.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3724 days ago

11 February 2014 (F)

age 26-29 - Ok, umm, I really need some help with this issue. So me and my boyfriend have been together for awhile now and were really happy together but I feel like he's pressuring me to have sex with him or to do anything sexual. Now before you start thinking bad things about my ... (162 words)

Should I keep flirting or tell him I like him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3726 days ago

11 February 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - I currently got to beauty school for nail tech. There I met a guy from the barber class. We talk on a daily basis, but the last couple of times we seen each other his been extra friendly, like last night he gave me a hug and a kiss on the cheek. every time I see him I feel ... (104 words)

I thought I was doing the right thing by being honest but he turned it against me

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 3725 days ago

11 February 2014 (F) age 41-50 - I recently met someone and felt it right to be upfront about the fact I had ( several years ago now) been involved in an abusive relationship. I left that relationship with nothing, emotionally,financially and tbh was completely broken and had to rebuild myself and my life. I ... (148 words)

My ex can't cope with me seeing another guy I dated before him

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3726 days ago

11 February 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - I dated a guy last year for two months who wasnt over his ex and we broke up. We had a great time but I could see he was still hurting over her and bowed out gracefully. Soon after I met a separated guy who was close to divorce after a 4 year separation no children involve... (345 words)

Is it normal for female friends to tease their male friends with their breasts?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3716 days ago

11 February 2014 (M)

age 30-35 - Is it normal for female friends to tease their male friends with their breasts? Since I met them in college, my two female friends tend to mess with me. They know I can be a bit, what's the word...embarrassed when I see their cleavage or something. I know it's weird, but I feel ... (202 words)

How to make sex feel good?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3725 days ago

11 February 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have had sex a handful of times and we just can't seem to figure it out (until recently we were both virgins). We are attracted to each other and we have no trouble with the mechanics of sex, but it feels kind of meh for both of us (and we've tried manual and ... (163 words)

How do I end this obsession that's threatening to ruin my life?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3726 days ago

11 February 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - Please believe me when I tell you that I have a very loving and beautiful relationship with my boyfriend. We might get married later this year. I had a crush on a colleague and it spiraled out of control and became an obsession. I avoid him like the devil and we rarely talk, ... (170 words)

Do you think that it's best not to say about my true feelings at him because other way there is the possibility to lose him at all?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3726 days ago

11 February 2014 (F)

age 51-59 - Hello. It's been a lot of time that i haven't written in this column. In the meantime i have got over my ex-boyfriend for ever i think. I don't have feelings for him any more. However, i would like to be friends with him now and have only fun together going out. But it's really ... (414 words)

Why am I so weak and vulnerable?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3726 days ago

11 February 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - I am a woman going through a separation from my alcoholic husband who put me last for years... I moved out and met someone who was married.. I knew it was wrong.. I knew.. You always know when something isn't right but he wanted children with me. He didn't have any..it was the ... (183 words)

Help for giving a second chance?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3726 days ago

11 February 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - So, my ex and I have decided to give things a second chance after being apart for about 7 months. We both recognise we made mistakes and both still feel strong for each other, even if it's not quite how it was when we first got together. We both believe we can feel the same way ... (140 words)

I don't think she's given me the full story about this man!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3726 days ago

11 February 2014 (M)

age - I have been married for 7 years. Everything was great for the first 5 1/2 years then in the fall of our sixth year things changed she became distant and sex which up till then was great it suddenly stopped everytime I approached her about it she said she just doesn't feel like ... (229 words)

Is it unusual for a man of his age to take lots of photographs of himself?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3725 days ago

11 February 2014 (F)

age 51-59 - This might seem like an odd question, but it's in the context of a lot of other behaviour that I won't go into. Is it unusual for a man in his 30's or 40's to take lots of photographs of himself - I mean lots of him doing activities but also lots of him that he's taken of hi... (271 words)

Very curious about my LDR girlfriend's handsome friend. How do I handle myself?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3726 days ago

11 February 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - My girlfriend and I have been good friends for years. We began hanging out and eventually dating this summer before I moved to the east coast for grad school. We see one another on breaks. I love her and we have great communication. She joined a co-ed fraternity this year and ... (221 words)

My friend is making my anxiety flare daily!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3726 days ago

11 February 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - Help! Backstory, I have social anxiety disorder and recovering from a 2 year depression. I am making progress with my therapist but it hasn't been easy. I wear my heart on my sleeve and friends in the past have taken advantage of this, which has lead to my social withdrawal, ... (690 words)

I'm panicked about our age difference!

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 3719 days ago

11 February 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - Just need your opinions and advice. I met an older man online 2yrs ago and we've hit it off. I was not ready for a relationship at the time due to fear of being hurt again mainly but I'm over that now. I felt like I'd led him on but was honest about how I was feeling and even ... (262 words)

My ex-boyfriend is telling people I cheated on him! Help!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3726 days ago

11 February 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - My ex-boyfriend is telling people I cheated on him. I never cheated on him. When we broke up, I dated a couple people but we were broken up for about 4 months. It is so devastating because my ex best friend hangs with him and his friends and they all obviously believe it. He ... (100 words)

Why is my ex adding me on social media sites?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3726 days ago

11 February 2014 (F)

age 26-29 - Ok, so a couple months ago my boyfriend and I broke up. We only went out for about three months. He was nice and sweet I guess and I liked him a lot, but I didn't really ever get close to him. After three months I was still very shy around him. Anyways, he broke up with me ... (199 words)

She should have been there for me too, not just him!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3726 days ago

11 February 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - I broke up with my on again off again boyfriend about a month ago. It's done this time for sure. When we had our first big break up about a year and a half ago, my best friend continued to hang out with him and going to his events (he used to be an event planner and do club ... (411 words)

Does he like me or are we nothing to each other?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3726 days ago

11 February 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey guys so there is this guy and he's 9 years older than me anyway he's is constantly hot and cold like it's okay for him to say he likes me a lot and misses me but if I say it back he's like stop rushing into things like we've known each other a F***ing week. Basically we ... (235 words)

Has he maybe just plain lost interest?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3725 days ago

11 February 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been dating this guy for a few months now. Anyway we both got pretty busy during the holidays and I was busy with school so we didn't go out for a while. Eventually, we started talking again and went out about two weeks ago. He iniated. So after that night, i invited him ... (280 words)