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Archived questions from: 23 February, 2014 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

How can I tell if he is addicted to porn?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3710 days ago

23 February 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - Ok aunts ... Please help... Is there any way for a woman to know before she gets too deeply involved with a guy whether he has a porn addiction? It is clear that he uses porn regularly but I have come out of a marriage where my husband was very very into porn and constant... (161 words)

Hurtful comments from stranger .........

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 3708 days ago

23 February 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - Today I went to a coffee shop and ordered myself something to drink. While I was about to leave the shop, I walked by a group of guys and they were looking at me and laughing at me. I heard one of the guys said, "did you see that girl?" "Did you get it?" Then they continued to ... (200 words)

I've come out as gay, but don't know where to go to meet girls!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3710 days ago

23 February 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - I’m twenty year-old college student whom ‘came out’ as gay last October. Initially, I felt great about this as I could finally talk honestly with my friends and be myself. However, as the months drag on and I still haven’t met any girl I like and I’m starting to feel a bit ... (516 words)

We've both confessed that we like each other, but he seems to be talking less?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3709 days ago

23 February 2014 (?) age 30-35 - We've known eachother for a few months now, met up a couple of times, and as the weeks went by I started to like him. We would talk to each other almost everyday, and feelings got stronger on my part. The other day, we were both flirting like crazy, and both arranged a day out ... (215 words)

I thought the date went well but I've been getting mixed signals since

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3710 days ago

23 February 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi I've been talking to this guy for over a month now, we have skyped a lot, I feel like we know each other very well, we have met up once it was very good, everything went so well, we tried to meet up again and he pulled out at the last minute, we have carried on talking ... (145 words)

Broken up for 1.5 years yet still cry almost every day

This question has 25 answers - newest was posted 3710 days ago

23 February 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - Has anyone else ever thought about something an ex did even though you've been broken up for a year and a half? The thing he did was two years ago. I don't want to say what it was. I cry nearly every day. My parents think I'm mentally ill as I still talk about it. Has anyone ... (62 words)

Is it natural to have doubts after breaking up with someone?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3710 days ago

23 February 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my boyfriend of 2years have just broken up and I am obviously feeling very mixed and heartbraking emotions right now. I just feel better explaining on here and if anyone can give me any reassurance or advice it would be greatly appreciated. I loved my boyfriend uncond... (935 words)

What is left to do safely without getting HPV?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3708 days ago

23 February 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - I am a a 31 year old female recently divorced and now dating again. Recently I got out of an almost year long relationship with a man, and I now test positive for HPV after my Pap Smear. Here is the situation: We did everything right, we both showed each other our STD ... (260 words)

3 month anniversary post on girlfriend's wall. What do I say?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3710 days ago

23 February 2014 (M)

age 30-35 - My three month anniversary with my girlfriend is today. She has asked me to post a long post on her wall. We have been through alot together and really are thinking about the future together. What do I say. Please help.. I need help fast I am running out of time..... (51 words)

Do I get in touch with my crush from a distance?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3702 days ago

23 February 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - I have a crush on a chap who has a travel agency, who my friend introduced to me at one party, but I left shortly after and even travelled somewhere else...now I am back and live in that new place...would it be OK to send his a business e-mail about upcoming trips as I am ... (212 words)

LDR boyfriend talked terribly to me and now I think he's broken up with me

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3710 days ago

23 February 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello I am a 36 year old female in a long distance relationship with a 48 year olf man. I love him very much but, in the pass he has been very verbally abusive, calling me bitches and saying fuck you! I forgave him when he asked for forgiveness and we went on from there. But ... (362 words)

Boyfriend not responding..does he just not want to see me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3710 days ago

23 February 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi everyone, I'm hoping you can help me decide what to do here because I'm really worried but not sure if I should be more mad than upset. My boyfriend of 4.5 years was playing a gig with his band. He is the drummer and has to drive, so he told me he'd be going straight h... (292 words)

My husband went out with another girl while we were engaged and now I'm wondering if it happened more than once!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3708 days ago

23 February 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - I am in despair, and don't know what to make of it. I am married for 2 years, and have a 3 months old child. A week ago i found out from a so called "friend", that during the time when we were still engaged my husband went out with a friend of hers. The minute she t... (377 words)

Not sure if I'm bisexual or just bi-curious!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3710 days ago

23 February 2014 (F)

age 26-29 - I am really confused about my sexual orientation. I have liked guys for all my life. I feel attracted to men and sometimes in a sexual attraction,but I was always uncomfortable with the idea of sex whenever it got to where me and a guy were alone. I'd get so uncomfortable I ... (331 words)

Husband says he can't make love, but I caught him pleasuring himself! What should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3710 days ago

23 February 2014 (F)

age - My husband I have been married for 28 years. Second marriage for us both. He is 71 now and I an 10 years younger. The problem is that I still have a healthy sex drive and since my husband turned 65 he has claimed he doesn't get excited anymore. We have tried Cialis and Via... (191 words)

Does he want me or not? Why stalk me but not speak to me?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3710 days ago

23 February 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - i had a relationship with a man that was at the point of engagement. while there were some communication issues to be worked out, he left the relationship before sorting anything. now that we are apart, he does not want to be together and won't talk to me, but stalks me ... (84 words)

Boyfriend cannot express his emotional needs and its driving me away!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3710 days ago

23 February 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been with my boyfriend for a few years but have only recently lived together. Up until lately we have been doing very well 99% of the time. We have strong feelings for each other and are an ideal couple. I am 28 and he is a few years younger than me but the gap make... (298 words)

Wrong name caused husband's family to miss flight to see ill family member. How do I help husband get over the guilt?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3711 days ago

23 February 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - The other night my husband's close friend's sister who lives in the south (we live in the north east) hung herself (very sad as there was no indication just 1 day before in social network posts). She was actually found and revived, then sent to a local hospital for a while. All ... (168 words)

Even if I started something with this co-worker it couldn't last. What do I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3710 days ago

23 February 2014 (F)

age - Hi, i am so disturbed because I like this guy very much.we started out as friends but he took it to another level by really engaging with me, getting at a very personal level.I have a partner but my relationship with him is not strong.This guy on the other hand, has deep, ... (134 words)

He keeps cancelling on me at the last minute

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3711 days ago

23 February 2014 (F)

age 26-29 - I have been talking to a guy for a few weeks now. I really like him and he says he likes me, too. We have similar interests and career goals (music and art) and we are both kind of socially awkward and creative people; I think we click well (but he may or may not think the ... (509 words)

He is eight years older, I like him and I think he likes me!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3711 days ago

23 February 2014 (F)

age 26-29 - Ok so I'm at my moms friends house all the time ...I sleep here almost every night. She is like another mother to me and I've known her my whole life. She lives with her husband, her kids, and her brother in law. They are all like a family to me and treat me like I was one of ... (295 words)

She says she wishes she met me earlier.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3709 days ago

23 February 2014 (M)

age 30-35 - I have a female friend, She herself greets me and talks to me. She is in a relationship with a guy. But at times she says she wishes she should have met me earlier and that I'm very sweet. She really does try to make an interesting conversation with me, I'm confused does she ... (64 words)

We have rekindled our childhood romance.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3710 days ago

23 February 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - Hell!!! I've been dating a guy for three months and we both still have feelings for each other from when we were kids. We dated when we were 16 years old and I still feel like a nervous teen since we rekindled the flame. At least twice a week, he would ask about the type... (153 words)

Should I tell my boyfriend that I'm a lesbian and get this over with?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3709 days ago

23 February 2014 (F)

age 22-25 - Here goes. I've been abnormal from the get-go, okay? All of my friends would blabber on and on about the floppy-haired fellow down the hall while my thoughts gravitated towards the lunch menu. I never seek out any boys myself, but I'll be damned if they don't try and make me ... (466 words)

Please help me compose an anniversary post!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3711 days ago

23 February 2014 (M)

age 30-35 - My three month anniversary with my girlfriend is tomorrow. She has asked me to post a long post on her wall. We have been through alot together and really are thinking about the future together. What do I say. Please help... (41 words)

I'm pregnant, but who's the daddy!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3711 days ago

23 February 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - heya, iv just found out im pregant and im not sure who the father is. i found out 4 days ago that i am pregrant and still am not sure if i should keep it or not. there are two possible fathers but there is only 3 days between them, so could never say who for denfiant who the... (202 words)