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Archived questions from: 9 February, 2014 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I need help with my in-laws! I need a break!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3726 days ago

9 February 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm feeling really mixed up right now. Please help. I've recently bought a house with my partner of 12 years. We're very happy together. I try to tell myself that his parents are good people. They've financially helped us buy the house and they're always bringing us fres... (336 words)

So what is wrong with me and is there any way I can change this or at least become happier?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3727 days ago

9 February 2014 (F)

age 26-29 - Dear anonymous, I am writing to you because I can't deal with the pain and constant change of emotions I am currently going through. I cannot fully remember the last time I was truly happy. I am however taking my a levels which I realise is adding to stress but the fact that ... (210 words)

I promised my Mom I would get her a new house someday but now I don't want to!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3727 days ago

9 February 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - I promised my mom I would get her a house someday and now, she wants one. She just got re-married and he was bankrupt. She needs me for the credit etc. But I don't want to. I only meant that I'd save up to get her a house when I was able but now, I feel stuck. She also expects ... (217 words)

How do I come out as bisexual to my parents?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3727 days ago

9 February 2014 (F)

age 22-25 - I am bisexual. Ive known this fact since like age six. It is NOT a phase . I really like girls and I really like guys. I don't like keeping this from my parents, it just feels awkward. They are straight lgtb allies, so its nnot like they will be angry or judging, but I just ... (65 words)

I'm not sur why she may be attracted to me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3727 days ago

9 February 2014 (M)

age 51-59 - I always wanted to be wanted by some women now it may have come true but I don't know what to do I don't know why she what she see in me she works in a different dept. in my hotel she always fusses when I order my lunch and tells me I look better when I shave my mustache I am ... (110 words)

We are talking about patching things up, but I have concerns about her lying!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3727 days ago

9 February 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - I was in a relationship with another woman for about one year. we just recently broke up but are talking about patching things up. We dated casually for a few months, then decided to make it official. During the dating, we never talked about being exclusive. It didnt seem li... (480 words)

Crush on a guy at work, but he says he isn't gay

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3697 days ago

9 February 2014 (M)

age 30-35 - I've been single for the past 4 years and I've been very happy single. However, I've been having these feelings for another guy at work. I came out as gay just before we started working together so he knows I'm gay. I think about him all day, every day since I met him. He's the ... (386 words)

We moved too fast -- is this saveable?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 3680 days ago

9 February 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - Rewind to a year and a half ago. I met a really great man when I went out with a friend who was in town. I am a teacher and am in the process of adopting my foster daughter who I have had since birth. Before I met him, we were happy and I felt really great about myself. (She ... (824 words)

My friend is in a relationship after just three dates with this guy! Is that too quick?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3727 days ago

9 February 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - My friend has been on three dates with this guy and already they are in a relationship! Am I the only one who thinks that is very quick? She said that they didn't see any need dragging it out when they know they'd want to be together and like each other so much. I can tell by ... (110 words)

I have a crush on my personal trainer but am wondering if he's out of my league!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3727 days ago

9 February 2014 (F)

age 26-29 - ok this is such a obvious crush, its embarrassing... but i really like one of the personal trainer at my gym. i know, how predictable! and i was just thinking how do i get to know him in causal way. it also got me thinking about people's opinions of body size. as this guy obvi... (160 words)

Things are finally working out in our relationship, but now that marriage is on the table I'm not sure about it!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3728 days ago

9 February 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - I've been with my boyfriend for 5 years. We have had to face a lot of difficulties but now finally things are working out and he has said we must get married. We lived together in our second year, then he had to transfer back up country, where he was originally from for work... (384 words)

My boyfriend has bipolar disorder and said he will leave for a while. What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3728 days ago

9 February 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - [Mod note: the title of this question is in the poster's own words, although the remainder of the post does not reference bipolar disorder.] My boyfriend and I have had some ups and downs lately. He has been drinking lot lately, and I don't like to see him when he drinks, ... (228 words)

Could my ex have undetected HIV if he received a blood transfusion years ago, before blood testing was standard procedure?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3728 days ago

9 February 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - I have a concern, not mentioned on the site before to my knowledge. It involves HIV from blood transfusions. I've noticed that in the years where a potential partner would be born was when they didn't test for HIV in the blood. So basically is it inevitable that they would be ... (94 words)

Cheating and lying partners...

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 3726 days ago

9 February 2014 (M)

age 51-59 - Ive had a girlfriend for 4 and a half years. I met her on an online chatroom , which i was initially dubious about. We started dating and i feel deeply in love with her. After around 3 months i started to have a gut feeling that she was not being honest with me when i wasn't ... (422 words)

I suspect that my sister's problems are due to alcohol but don't know how to confirm this

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3726 days ago

9 February 2014 (F)

age - How do you tell if someone is an alcoholic? I've looked up a few websites, but they all have questions to diagnose yourself as having a problem with alcohol, not another person. This may seem like a silly question, but my sister lives on the other side of the country and ... (270 words)

I have feelings for a very close friend who sends me mixed signals, but I'm afraid of ruining our friendship if I tell him!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3728 days ago

9 February 2014 (F)

age 26-29 - Okay. Huge problem/dilemma/ I don't know what to do situation. I believe I may well and truly be in love, and this, this is really really really rare for me. I have had two relationships in the past which were abusive and... (1248 words)

Is the "hidden menu" on his phone a sign that he's hiding porn use?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3728 days ago

9 February 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - I have noticed my mans phone has this sprint hidden menue. what exactly is that? is it a way to hide things from me like porn? we have had serious issues in the past. he is trying to over come an addiction.... (42 words)

Was I wrong to give him an ultimatum during a fight over our one-year anniversary?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3727 days ago

9 February 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - I've been dating my boyfriend one year and five months - exclusive for a year. At about 9 months, I asked him about the "next step" and he said he cannot even talk about it until its a year and not to "pressure him". So i let it go - until now. Last weekend was our one year... (305 words)

Finally stood up to my mother after years of her belittling, but am worried I went too far!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3728 days ago

9 February 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - My mom is very controlling..and today, I finally stood up for myself. But i don't know if i took things too far. Over the years, she has constantly harassed me about my weight (always calling me fat, despite me being 5'9 and 160 lbs, and work out regularly), She yells at me ... (587 words)

How to stop comparing myself to others and see some good in myself?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 3727 days ago

9 February 2014 (?) age 51-59 - As far as Im concerned im a loser compared to other people, Im a gay female and other gay females completely reject me, I have no gay friends(have 2 aquaintances that are very busy) Im not going to go to an event alone and be stared at for being alone. women judge and are ... (540 words)