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Advice to give to someone who is being cheated on?

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Question - (17 August 2014) 1 Answers - (Newest, 17 August 2014)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

My friends bf is cheating on her, she knows the name of the girl hes doing it with well my problem is shes got an old phone and a new sim card so a different number and shes going to text him from it telling him not to trust this girl hes cheating with ive told her its not a gd idea but she loves this guy so much she speaks to him all the time evem thought she nows what hes doing

What advice can I give im running out

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A female reader, like I see it United States +, writes (17 August 2014):

like I see it agony auntI agree with you, she's unwise to stay with a cheater in the first place and playing games with him makes very little sense.

That said, as her friend all you can do is point this out to her, which you have already done. In the end it's her life and her choices, as an adult woman, are her own - even if they're completely irrational. Hard though it may be, this is a lesson she apparently needs to learn for herself.

The best way you can support her is to be there for her as a friend when this plan of hers backfires (which it almost inevitably will) and scares off the cheating boyfriend, to whom she's likely to appear desperate if not crazy for posing as someone else.

Good luck and best wishes.

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