A
female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:My boyfriend of a year has recently been coming up with new ideas to spice it up in the bedroom. We've been both having fun with it and enjoying ourselves and our relationship to the fullest.Recently, his best friend has been having relationship problems and questioning if the girl he is with is the one for him.My boyfriend started talking to a girl his friend might be interested in. He began asking her about her sexual preferences so he could get another girl's perspective to cheer his friend up and to help him come up with new ideas for our relationship. I feel uncomfortable with this, almost like he's cheating by talking dirty with this other girl. The girl knows he has a girlfriend and is very open about talking about her sex life to satisfy my boyfriend's curiosity. Is this right? what can I say to him to be fair but also express my viewpoint?
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 September 2012): Personally I'd say ooe yuk ... Why is he questioning any female about their sexual activities in the bedroom. That's so disrespectful of you both as a couple.
Ask him would he like if you asked a male the same, and what idea would the other male get if you we're doing this.. To me this is a lame, excuse to talk dirty to some other girl.. I would honestly have to sit down and get to the bottom of it and if my gut told he was making lame excuses, I would tell him I didn't believe him and since I didn't believe him then there was no point in continuing..
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