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Archived questions from: 17 October, 2012 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I am distancing myself from him because I like him and don't think he likes me as more than a friend

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4208 days ago

17 October 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - Dear cupid. So, I deleted my friend's number off of my phome. He is a boy that I like A lot. I deleted his number off of my phone because...I like him so much, I (well I used to) text him everyday, and he'd never push me away or say I'm being annoying or anything and we ... (914 words)

If a man likes you, he would surely talk?or am I eye candy.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4208 days ago

17 October 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey all, I basically would love some opinion's. Very short and sweet, I am 22, gentlemen in question i assume early-mid 30's. The situation: I drop my brother to school and theres a dad who has two young boys, he's very cute as he holds both boys hands and their bags. Any... (191 words)

How do I turn out a guy who's not asking me out directly?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4208 days ago

17 October 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi everyone, How do I turn down a guy who's not asking me out directly to a date? We used to be colleagues, and now I'm going to school again. The guy friended me on Facebook, we exchanged a couple of messages, and now he says that he wants to come to a class that I attend(it... (138 words)

Mixed signals and I'm scared of rejection

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4209 days ago

17 October 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - Hey guys... So I have a crush on this guy who is in most of my classes, sometimes he will just look at me and when I look at him he will look away... I have told him I like him and he was just like 'Its natural' and 'no biggie' so I am really confused. I haven't asked him out ... (97 words)

He's in touch all the time when he's travelling, but not when he's home?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4207 days ago

17 October 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I've been with my Boyfriend now for a little over 10 months, I really love him and I actually feel like he really loves me, however I have an issue which is only getting bigger and bigger. With his job he goes away for weeks at a time (since we got together he's gone away 5 ... (564 words)

My girlfriend broke up with me because I'd confided in a friend. Was I wrong?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4208 days ago

17 October 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - i'm in serious need of some help and advice. please. so i've been with my girlfriend for about four months now and love her to death. well it's a known fact that she hates one of my other friends. there's absolutely nothing going on between us, but she is really insecure ... (854 words)

Should I force myself to move out while healing from an abusive relationship or wait?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4208 days ago

17 October 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Should I force myself to move out on my own in midst of healing from a horrible, abusive relationship I had been in for years, or wait a bit longer? I need your advice! I am 24 years old and currently healing from an extremely abusive relationship I had been in for 3 years. ... (248 words)

I want to save my marriage.My husband has PTSI and TBI and is so angry and mean. He's kicked me out. How can I get him back?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4208 days ago

17 October 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - my husband moved out of where we were staying while we were seperated, because he kicked me out. Then he left some of my stuff there and had to go get it.. He wrote me in a text that its over and he filed for divorce.. Now he changed his email and cut off his phone.. He h... (110 words)

I have a feeling that she may be bi or gay but I have a massive crush on her. What are the chances that she might consider me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4209 days ago

17 October 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - Well, this is a new one. I've currently got a crush on a friend of a friend I've seen around a lot, and I won't even sell this as MASSIVELY important to me, but it is on my mind a lot whenever I encounter her. The thing is, she's active on a bunch of sites online and they ... (264 words)

How can I get my family and friends to accept my 25 year old pregnant Gf / future wife and all understand all that she means to me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4208 days ago

17 October 2012 (M)

age - my family and friends will not accept that my 25 year old girlfriend soon to be wife is in love with me and wants to be with me. they call her horrible insulting names. yea i cheated on my wife of many many years, and left her for this girl. i loved my wife but she could no... (182 words)

Do I stay, for the Money? Or go? If I go it means some time out for me and knowing I'm inconveniencing them!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4206 days ago

17 October 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi there, I have a difficult decision to make and would value anyone's advice. I seem to sway about what to do! I have worked for chartered accountants for the past year, filled with pr_cks - particularly the firm's partners, who make all the ruthless decisions, like ... (695 words)

Feels like he's cheating, looks like he's cheating. But why would he get someone else to send me a romantic message when in six years he's never done that ever?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4208 days ago

17 October 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi all. I just want know if its okay of me to think like this. I've never cheated in my whole life whereas my boyfriend has done it a numerous times at once he had a baby with someone else because of that. He can't type and send a romantic sms ever since I've dated him. ... (182 words)

She tells me she's happy so why is she on dating sites?

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 4191 days ago

17 October 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - I have been dating for just over 3 years. For the past 9 months I have been finding bits about her being on dating sites again. I caught her out on one last year and her aggression after being unable to carry on denying it when I asked her, caused a break up for 2 months. ... (177 words)

Is this what married life is like?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4208 days ago

17 October 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - I can't meet my wife's expectations. She has the money for a house deposit. She is Chinese and her parents are very poor and asked her to provide the house for them. She has the money to do that but wants to spend it on house for us instead and wants me to get really good work ... (1566 words)

What is the best way to approach my crush?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4209 days ago

17 October 2012 (M)

age 26-29 - Hi everyone, I'm gonna tell you the story. So I have a crush on this 7th grader whose very cute,sweet but very shy (every time she sees me in the canteen she really avoids me and when we cross paths around the campus she goes the other way. Btw, our campus is very huge). S... (308 words)

I don't like it that my b/f tells friends our personal business but only tells part of the story!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4209 days ago

17 October 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm upset with my boyfriend, and i'm not sure how i am going to talk about this with him. He gave me his facebook password recently. He didnt say why he gave it to me though. I logged into his account last night, and i was upset by some things he had written in private messages ... (472 words)

We aren't together because of distance but she's still talking to her ex. Where do I go?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4209 days ago

17 October 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - We met abroad, 9 months ago. We were together and seeing each other for 5, and we have been separated for 4 as we live in different countries and are finishing our last year of university. I fell in love with her, and I want to be with her after I finish uni, especially since... (353 words)

My ex really loved me. WIll we ever get together again?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4209 days ago

17 October 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I am still madly in love with my ex . He broke up with me because he said he was getting sick of my moods . It was unexpected because he really loved me and I was confused . A few weeks later my best friend started hanging out with him and I started getting lots of ideas . This ... (179 words)

Boyfriend is cold and emotionless. Will he change?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4209 days ago

17 October 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have been together for over five years and I feel so lonely in his presence. He says he's the kind of guy who hates showing his feelings and I want to feel loved and special. He neither show any concern through actions or words. I feel ignored when all my ... (273 words)

Boyfriend has the nerve to go through my phone when he's the one who doesn't tell the truth!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4179 days ago

17 October 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - I have been having some trouble with the settings on my phone so I was messing around figuring out how to fix it. I had to run out to do an errand and left my phone in the middle of figuring it out. When I returned I remembered I had not finished what I was doing, so I ... (1227 words)

Do we go ahead and get engaged and married after four years of an on off relationship or do we go our separate ways?!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4206 days ago

17 October 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - Do we go ahead and get engaged and married after four years of an on off relationship or do we go our separate ways?! Hi, I ve posted on this website before and I ve found the answere really helpful so I am hoping for some advice please. Basically I have been in a 4 year on /... (1561 words)

Women: would balding make you reconsider dating a guy?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4209 days ago

17 October 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - How much of a difference does balding make when you consider dating a guy? Does it make him a lot less attractive to you? I've never really asked, but I've been wondering about this a lot lately. I'm 22, and in the last year I've had thinning (only around the crown area) and ... (121 words)

Is he still a player? My new Boyfriend has promised he has stopped sending sexual emails to a woman.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4208 days ago

17 October 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - I started dating a 50 yr old man four months ago. We hit it off quickly. He was telling me he loved and adored me within two weeks. He has no children and never married. I recently read emails he had been sending the first two months we were dating, to other woman. They wer... (538 words)

I want alone time with him. He has lots of friends and wants to spend maximum time with them. How is this likely to affect us?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4209 days ago

17 October 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - hi i just met a new man and we started to date he wants to be with me and i want to be with him. Problem is he has alot of friends and go out every weekend plus works long hours all week. he wants me to go out with his friends as well but i cant always afford to do that. I... (130 words)

Is saying he loves me a real indication that he does really love me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4205 days ago

17 October 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend said I love you for the first time over a message on facebook. Since then often sends me messages saying he loves me. He sometimes says it as I am going to leave his house or at the end of a phone call But he never says it randomly. We have only been together ... (103 words)

How can I get over someone I still love? And did I make a terrible mistake?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 4209 days ago

17 October 2012 (M)

age 51-59 - Hi all Ive been with my partner for four years now- its been a distance relationship..seeing each other weekends only and it has not always an easy thing. But we have had amazing times. Neither of us were willing to give up good jobs that we had been in for 20+ years e... (540 words)

If I say anything now it would destroy him? I do have a past from a LONG time ago. But is it best left unsaid?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4203 days ago

17 October 2012 (?) age 41-50 - I have been with my boyfriend for about a year now. When we first got to know each other we spoke about our past a little and he wanted to see what kind of person I was. I knew where he stood with his past and he has only had sexual relations with those he has been in a re... (578 words)

Based on her response after our first date does it look like she's uninterested?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4192 days ago

17 October 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - I recently went out with a girl for the first time. I had a great time on the date and thought she did as well. I waited a couple days to contact her after the date to let her know I had a great time and that she was good company to be with. This was done via text because... (151 words)

I'm a mom of 3 and I'm unhappily married. I feel so low and trapped and weak

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4209 days ago

17 October 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi everyone, I am a mom of 3 and I am unhappily married. I want to move on with my life but my husband won't let me go. He is abusive physically and emotionally and I tried to leave him before but because of my lack of support and faith I let him come back. I want this ... (143 words)

He's lied to me about his texting. Should I be extra wary about him? If he lies once is he more likely to lie again?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4208 days ago

17 October 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - A few months back my bf of 2 years got a picture message form a girl he dated a few times ( also slept with). We argued about this and he said she must be drunk he hasnt talked with her since we started seeing each other. My boyfriend got drunk and texted her ( what i do not ... (321 words)

He says he misses me but doesn't make an effort to see me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4210 days ago

17 October 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - We used to hang out often now it's once a week or so. I tried to make plans for us to hang out he says yea if I'm awake? So I just made other plans bc it didn't sound to me that he didn't want to.. Then he says he does want to see me and he sure he'll be up but it was too late ... (95 words)

Why did he cheat if he loves me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4209 days ago

17 October 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey I've recently broken up with my (ex) boyfriend who has been cheating on me. I can't seem to move on, he is all I ever think about. I've blocked him on Facebook many times but then I unblock him so we can talk. We have tried many many times to work it out and I'm always t... (329 words)

I feel betrayed by my husband. Do I confront him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4209 days ago

17 October 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello Everyone!! This is my first time posting due to some confussing events I witness today. Well I am a 35 yr old women married w two girls 7 and 3. I've been with my husband for 12 years and married for 2.5 years.. I as a women know that he goes to certain xxx sites. That ... (289 words)

I feel like we're constantly playing a game and I just want to know, am I winning him over or losing?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4209 days ago

17 October 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Desperately need help! He's charming, witty, social,an excellent conversationalist, intelligent, extremely, extremely charismatic.. There's something about him and no matter how hard I try I can't stop thinking about him. I've dated a fair few amount of guys, had crushe... (297 words)

I caught my fiance in white lies. Should I be concerned?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4209 days ago

17 October 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Once my fiance had to go to a late emergency meeting at his work. He runs the place. I told him I was going to bed early since I was tired. Before I went to bed I looked out the window and I noticed he was back, outside in front of the house looking over the landscaping that ... (399 words)