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He says he misses me but doesn't make an effort to see me

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Question - (17 October 2012) 2 Answers - (Newest, 17 October 2012)
A female United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

We used to hang out often now it's once a week or so. I tried to make plans for us to hang out he says yea if I'm awake? So I just made other plans bc it didn't sound to me that he didn't want to.. Then he says he does want to see me and he sure he'll be up but it was too late my mind was made up. He says he misses me but I feel he's not even trying to make an effort to see each other? Any advice?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (17 October 2012):

Sounds familiar, its a classic style of a guy who pretends he misses you but the real thing is his trying to cover up i'm missing you lines, with the real thing, that his avoiding to be with you.

if this guy is your bf, his a jerk leave him. don't you know that when a guy says he misses you but ends up must have to do other things than to be with you, its a part of BREAK IT TO HER GENTLY SIGN that his losing interest to be with you??

if you don't know, Good thing now you know.. don't let him play with your feelings...Good luck..

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A female reader, Ciar Canada +, writes (17 October 2012):

Ciar agony auntNot very much information to go on.

Is this your boyfriend or a friend? If it's a friend, then once a week is actually quite a lot.

How long has this been going on? Have there been any changes in his life lately? New job, longer hours etc?

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