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Talking dirty, tell me how!! I go shy round my fella!

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Question - (16 May 2006) 3 Answers - (Newest, 27 May 2006)
A female , anonymous writes:

when me(18) any my boyfriend(19) are making out, usually in a car or something he often asks me to tell him what i would like to do to him - in other words talk dirty. we havnt slept together yet and so usually when we are 2gether either one of us might voice our wish of finally getting the chance to be together properly and this then leads to the question "tell me what you'd do?"

im not a very shy person and can talk about everything with him and my friends. my friends and i often openly discuss our sex lives and i havnt got the cleanest language in the world so its not the actual words or anything i have a problem with its just i can never think of what to say!

and i dont want it to sound all cheesy, cliched and false!

can anyone give me some suggestions?

as specific as possible pls as my imagination seems to be failing me!

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (27 May 2006):

ok this may sound funny but im 13 and i am a master at talking dirty!!

i always tell my bf what i want to do and i give him details

like i just make a fake situation and just say everything that i would want to do

like "i put my hands up your shirt then u put ur hands up mine, and then you slowly move your hands up to my boobs.....ect."

i mean cause im only 13, me and my bf talk about doing much more then we would actiualy do! but its fun to do and it turns both of us on!

u shouldent be shy around your bf! he should be the one person you can totaly let go and say what you want to say!and even if u end up sounding stupid......he will still love you the same!!

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A female reader, pinklady +, writes (16 May 2006):

pinklady agony auntI'm not sure if I can be specific on here, but basically, just tell him in as much detail as you can, what you would like him to do to you, and how much you would like it. I was quite nervous of talking 'dirty' to my b/f's when I was younger, (I'm 33 now), but over time I have gained confidence, and you will too, and believe that practice definitely makes perfect!!

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A female reader, pinklady +, writes (16 May 2006):

pinklady agony auntI'm not sure if I can be specific on here, but basically, just tell him in as much detail as you can, what you would like him to do to you, and how much you would like it. I was quite nervous of talking 'dirty' to my b/f's when I was younger, (I'm 33 now), but over time I have gained confidence, and you will too, and believe that practice definitely makes perfect!!

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