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How do I get a guy to ask me out? Advice please.

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Question - (16 May 2006) 3 Answers - (Newest, 19 May 2006)
A female , anonymous writes:

what is girlfriend material? i am 15 and i want to know how i can become girlfriend material. at school i act quite young and mess around a lot and i know boys would think, "noone would go out wiv her" but boys think i am 'fit' cos i over heard someone say it to someone else. but i just dont think anyone would want to go out with me at the moment. i know what your going to say, be yourself. i am and recently i have matured and do not mess around and act all dappy anymore but they still dont wanna go out wiv me. they havent said it to my face and i havent asked anyone out but i just know they dont. plz help me

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (19 May 2006):

well sience you have changed things should be different buttry asking a guy out and maybe you will get an anwser about your delema because I am a reeally silly and goofy teen and guys go out with me

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A male reader, chrisb +, writes (18 May 2006):

chrisb agony auntHello.

I think boys prefer girls who are confident, self assured, and friendly. Why not just make friends with as many people as poss?? Try not to worry about having a boyfriend, boys can sense that you really want a b/f a mile away, and it puts them right off, so, my advice is to chill out, and stop worrying. Concentrate on yourself, instead of others and you will find a b/f in no time.

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A female reader, Aunt Jess +, writes (16 May 2006):

Aunt Jess agony auntperhaps asking someone out is a good idea...but only if u feel you get on with them really well. dont worry about not being in a serious relationship, youre 15 and need to enjoy your fun! im 18 n probably the most immature person in my group of friends but i hav a boyfriend. if you find yourself flirting with boys a lot, they mite stay away as they could be lookin for some commitment like you but think that if youre being over friendly with everyone, they dont have a chance!

is there anyone in particular you have your eye on? why not arrange a night out to the cinema or go bowling - its a very informal way of suggestin you like someone withot scaring them off, and you could even bring a girl mate along with someone they like, so there isnt any pressure.

you say noones told u to your face that they like you, but would u??! you might be suprised whos got their eye on you!

hope my advice has helped, email me if you have any more questions x

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