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writes: Girl that likes me alot.Her family knows it.I things And cant stop looking at her. Iam in Love with her.She knows it her family knows it.Her family likes me they told me want me to be with her.Her brother told me shes in her 50s I am 41. Now she runing away from me. she comes around me she keeps walking away. Why is she doing this to me care for her.she makes me feel happy.Dont not under stand women. You think she do not want me? she playing a game? Love with her. Reply to this Question
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reader, AuntyLaura +, writes (5 July 2006):
 Yup, we women are strange creaures. There are a lot of reasons why she could be doing this - unfortunately you need to talk to her to find out why which is the scariest thing ever its the only way. I have some sugestions as to why though - these may help.- She could be shy or scared of a serious relationship. Try backing off a little and send flowers or a nice letter - we women love all that romantic stuff.- She could be playing with you but its backfiring on her if she is - you need to let her know that if she carries on like this she is going to lose you. If we play games, we generally do it because we think it will make you curious and interested.- She may not like you as much as you like her. If she has feelings for you, however small, its worth persuing them but take it slow for her, for now - she could be worried about the age gap.Try talking to her, gently thats the only way to find out what goes on in her head.I hope this helps xxx
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 July 2006): If she liked you a lot, she would not keep "walking away"
You need to judge people on their actions, not on their words.
You are confused because you have feelings for this women, but don't let your feelings cloud your judgement of her feelings for you. If she does not want to pursue, or commit to a relationship with you, then accept that and cease trying to understand her.
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