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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

My ex wants to get back together but I think hes scared. How do i talk to him??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6648 days ago

22 February 2006 (F) - I am 21 years old, me and my now very new ex boyfriend broke up mostly because he needs to focus on the 2 jobs he really wants and university also. These are things that are very important to him (he is 21 also). We were together for 5 months, it was great, BUT he was unsure a... (275 words)

I am sick of being lied to about porn! Where are the men who 'forsake all others'??

This question has 24 answers - newest was posted 6632 days ago

22 February 2006 (F) - I was just wondering as i am considering leaving my man over his constant looking at pornographic images and other women lustfully if there are in fact any men out there that dont do this? Men who love thier woman and worship thier woman in a way tht no other woman could co... (195 words)

Where can i meet that special guy??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6646 days ago

22 February 2006 (F) - Where is a good place to meet guys, ones who aren't just after sex? I am 30 years old, am told I am beautiful and intelligent (by my unavailable male friends - typical!), and yet only seem to meet guys who are only after one thing. I am despairing of ever meeting that special ... (156 words)

My bf is never bothered about meeting!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6648 days ago

22 February 2006 (F) - My bf never organises anything and is never bothered. If i ask him if he wants to meet up he just replies something along the lines of 'if u want' and when i ask where he wants to go it's a reply like 'wherever i don't mind' help! is it normal?... (51 words)

Me and my bf dont talk anymore although he insists he loves me!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6648 days ago

22 February 2006 (F) - Basically I have been with my bf for 3 months, but recently we haven't been talking much. I always talk to him online as well and he goes silent then and then after a while says he's tired or he's got to go. At college he seems distracted and looks around instead of talking ... (98 words)

I have PND and my partner doesnt understand how I am feeling!!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6613 days ago

22 February 2006 (F) - My OH doesn't seem to understand how i am feeling. I have been suffering from PND and i need some info about it. I also could do with something explaining things about sex, like that not all women automatically go off sex just because they are pregnant or have just had a baby. ... (129 words)

My bf is in the army and I miss him so much. Do army relationships work?

This question has 102 answers - newest was posted 3433 days ago

22 February 2006 (F)

- My boyfriend is in the army, i miss him loads, dont know what to do. I've been with my boyfriend for nearly two months and he is in the army, i barely see him, only every other weekend, he told me he loves me already i'm not sure to believe this as its only been two months, ... (108 words)

Me and my friend get on really well but then she dissappears for days at a time. Does she want more despite the age gap?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6646 days ago

22 February 2006 (M) - As a 40 year old guy, I should be able to figure out the answer myself, but I can't, so I'm hoping someone will have a (polite) suggestion or two as to what to do. There's a girl I've known for some time, who recently I've seen rather a lot more of. She turns up on my doorstep... (282 words)

He made me happy for the first time in my life. Ever since we split i have been falling apart. Please help!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6648 days ago

22 February 2006 (F) - I broke up with my bf a month ago. We were only together for a month and a week, but it was all extremely intense, and i was sure he really loved me. When we broke up, he said it was because i was too young (i'm 15, he had just turned 18 a few days before). I can tell when he'... (445 words)

Am I overreacting to his phone call with his ex?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6639 days ago

22 February 2006 (F) - Hi, a week or so ago my boyfriend's ex rang him to find out how his interview went... when she rang he left the room to talk to her and an argument ensued. When he came back into the room I asked if he was ok and he responded saying "Nothing, it's not important; it doesn't ... (206 words)

I hate feeling like I have to compete with my boyfriend's 6-year-old daughter

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 6239 days ago

22 February 2006 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for a little over a year. He has a 6 year old daughter that I seem to get jealous over. I feel really bad when I start feeling like that, I don't know what to do. I hate the idea of being second in his life, even though I know that his daughter... (278 words)

I'm worried about when I start my period...

This question has 25 answers - newest was posted 4807 days ago

22 February 2006 (F) - My mum is really great and has told me all about sex and periods and everything, but I still cringe when she talks about it to me. I'm worried that when I start my period, I will be too shy to tell my mum about it, and what if I start at school? If I'm too shy to talk to my mu... (153 words)

I fancy him and he asked me out. Then at school he denied it. What's going on?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6649 days ago

22 February 2006 (F) - Here's the problem: Last night I told the guy I fancy I liked him over Yahoo and he finally asked me to go out with him :D Then today in school he totally dissed me, and my mate said to him "I heard you were going out with Manda. I think that's great!" and he replied "Yeah we... (111 words)

My BF's cousin tricked me into thinking he wanted to kiss me. I'm thinking I should pretend to be someone else too...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6648 days ago

22 February 2006 (F) - Hi, I'm 12 and I have a bit of a problem on my hands. You see last night I was texting my boyfriend on my cell. He wanted to know when were going to kiss. I practically jumped because he was way off topic all of a sudden. Anyhow I asked him 'when would you like to kiss?' He ... (153 words)

I wanted her to think there was competition for my affections, so I lied about another woman...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6648 days ago

22 February 2006 (M) - I told my wife things that werent true about a friend before we married that made it look to her as competition. I really didnt look at this woman that way; I did it to make me look better, but it backfired. Now she believes it to be true. I also have this same problem ... (158 words)

He gets too nervous to talk to me and I don't kow if I should just end it!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6648 days ago

22 February 2006 (F) - I have been going out with this guy for about 7 months, I really like him. I think he is my first love. The only thing is we never talk in person; he gets too nervous. We hang around with the same friends but we never talk. I can talk to him by texting and instant messaging ... (108 words)

Checked his phone and found messages from his ex on it...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6648 days ago

22 February 2006 (F) - I have been dating this guy for about five months. I can tell he was the kind of guy who never got into any serious relationship before until me. He obviously likes me a lot and shows his affection for me daily. He emails/calls/texts daily. He also makes it known that I'm his ... (150 words)

We still care for each other, I know it. Will we ever get back together?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6649 days ago

22 February 2006 (M) - Heya all....... well here I am 3-4 weeks on and I still ain't got her back and beginning to wonder if I ever will or if I should just walk now for good? Sometimes I wish I could but I can't; I love her too much and I still know deep down she has strong feelings for me. We t... (177 words)

I suspect that he's peeking at porn when I leave the house!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6648 days ago

22 February 2006 (F) - Hi. I have been having a few probs with my OH. The main one is that he seems to prefer internet porn to sex with me. Well, anyway, he stopped going on the internet altogether for a bit but today, he was playing a game (offline) when I left the house but was on the internet when ... (124 words)

We argue and spat over the way we got together. Should we ignore that, if all the rest is good?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6648 days ago

22 February 2006 (M) - Me and my gf have been together for about 9 months and are having some problems. I would say our relationship is about 90% good, but there are a few things that keep coming up in arguments and are starting to sour the whole deal. The biggest of these is how we got together.... (462 words)

In a relationship for 6 years, but now I fancy someone else. We've already kissed and I can't get him out of my mind!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6648 days ago

22 February 2006 (F) - Hi, I’m in a relationship 6yrs and recently have bought a house with my partner. I’ve always been a bit of a flirt but never took it further, but recently I’ve started to really fancy another guy. I’ve known him since my early teens but never fancied him before. A few months a... (317 words)

How will he view me if we have anal sex?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6642 days ago

22 February 2006 (F) - I am in new relationship, we are very much in love and we're happy. The sex is good, it wasn't to begin with, which we discussed and now it's good and getting better all the time. However we recently discussed Anal sex and I'm worried now that If I have it with him he might ... (121 words)

How do I get her back?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6649 days ago

22 February 2006 (M)

- My g/f and I split up 9 moths ago but have been seeing each other as friends every few weeks. However, just as i thought she was showing signs of considering getting back with me I blew it by getting heavy, serious,clingy, heart on sleeve etc. Now we don't talk at all and there ... (146 words)

Should I stay in this sour marriage?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6648 days ago

22 February 2006 (M) - Myself and my wife have been together for ten years and married for two years. I feel that the spark has gone, we dont seem to click anymore. I have a jelouse streak in me and constantly think she is falling for other guys, because she seems to get along better with other men. ... (115 words)

I keep thinking about my old flame...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6649 days ago

22 February 2006 (M) - Hi to all supporters out there. I have the problem that I have struggled with letting go of an old flame. We we're together through school years for 4 years. We have both since left school and moved on with life. I am now 28 but still often think about her. I didn't ... (162 words)

I want to be with him but should I continue to see him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6646 days ago

22 February 2006 (F) - I am 21 years old, and I have been seeing this guy for a couple of weeks now who is 38. The thing is that he has 4 kids between 8-15. He is my stepdad's ex-brother in law. His kids know my parents as aunt and uncle. I absolutely ADORE them , and they all feel the same ab... (287 words)

My mum doesn't think about how I feel...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6648 days ago

22 February 2006 (F) - My mum has, for the past few months been having her boyfriend come and stay over at our house, sometimes for a week at a time. We live in a small house, and sometimes at night I can hear them having sex in their room, and it makes me feel really uncomfortable. She says I'm old ... (96 words)

How do we get the trust back?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5901 days ago

22 February 2006 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together since last March. In October he cheated on me with a girl he knew from university who is in love with him. I found out but I believe he never liked her and he has proved this and he has not contacted her since. Since then we have tried to ... (268 words)

Should I be concerned about his 'new' friend?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6648 days ago

22 February 2006 (F) - Is it possible for men to be just friends with females? My boyfriend has recently become friends with a girl at work and I've found out that he has texted her 15 times over the past few days even though he works with her all day. He has always had lots of female friends and ... (158 words)

Is it unreasonable for me not to want him to look at porn?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6638 days ago

22 February 2006 (F) - i recently found out that my boyfriend likes to look at pornography, and i told him i was deeply hurt by it. i felt that if he is with me then he doesn't need it, it almost feels like he is cheating on me! he said he won't look at it again and doesn't seem to understand why i... (71 words)

Why won't he just make a date with me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6649 days ago

22 February 2006 (F) - A guy I went out on a date with constantly ends our converstions with "Call me if you want to hang out" or "Call me when you're free". I think if a guy wants to ask a girl out, he should just ask. I don't want to feel like I have to call him and ask him out. I've even told... (117 words)

I feel jealous about my husband and his twin sister

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6649 days ago

22 February 2006 (F) - Is it normal to feel jealous if your husband is close to his sister? Don't get me wrong, my sister-in-law is great, and we really get along. However I have a problem with my husband being so close to another female. To make it worse they're twins. I know shes his sister and he ... (103 words)

WE are both seeing other people but I only want to date him

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6649 days ago

22 February 2006 (F) - A guy I'm seeing is seeing other people and I am also open to seeing other people, although I really just want to date this one. We've just been on a couple of dates. How many dates would you expect before the guy decides he just wants to see one person? This could get... (79 words)

Our month-long relationship was intense... then she pulled away and said we're "incompatible"...

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 6571 days ago

22 February 2006 (M) - I have been in a very intense relationship for just over a month and have just been told that we're 'incompatible'. I just can't understand this. This girl has been very intense from the start. She has an 8 year old daughter who I think she is quite over-protective of. She ... (335 words)

The average age people start to ahve relationships?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5638 days ago

22 February 2006 (M) - hi just wondering what the average age is for people to start going out with others. I am 16 and have never gone out with anyone and wondering if i dont any time soon will kind of miss the gun. Will soon be going to sixth form or an apprentership so im not sure if the next two ... (71 words)

Together for five years but we always argue about silly things.Now she's had enough but I still love her!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6649 days ago

22 February 2006 (M) - My partner and i have been together 5 years we have 2 young children and our own home,she was fostered and sexually abused as a child. I love her dearly but we are always constantly argueing over silly things which then erupts into me bringing up some of her past saying s... (162 words)

My ex keeps wanting to meet up and then making excuses for not turning up. What should i do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6649 days ago

22 February 2006 (M) - I need a little help on how to tackle my gay ex. I am 33 and he is 21 and we have recently split after six months. He ended it by simply not turning up at arranged times - preferring to go out with his friends. He has had a lot of problems at work, the death of his grand-da... (289 words)

My b/f got with somebody else while we were apart and she is still texting him!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6628 days ago

22 February 2006 (F) - Me and my boyfriend had been going out a year and a half. Things were great, then he told me that he wanted to join the army. I knew he wanted to do this before we met but nothing was ever said until this far in the relationship. It broke my heart. I felt that he obviously ... (439 words)

I'm totally smitten, but the guy I'm with wants an "open" relationship. Do I have a choice?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6546 days ago

22 February 2006 (M) - Dear Cupid, I am a 20yr. old gay guy and I've been with my boyfriend for 5 months now. I've absolutely fallen for this guy. The only thing is, he's 2 years younger than me and has not had much experience as I have. He mentioned wanting to have an open relationship and I told h... (121 words)

Are family or spouses more important in our lives?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6649 days ago

22 February 2006 (F) - Who are the most important people in our lives, our parents, our spouses, or our siblings?... (16 words)

I had to terminate our friendship, because of the way I felt about him. How can I get over it?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6650 days ago

22 February 2006 (F) - My best friend is male and happily married. We have been friends for 12 years. I have been married for 20. He says he loves me but his marriage comes first. This is correct I suppose. I have terminated the friendship as I feel that I am not good for his marriage. Howe... (83 words)

Why won't he ask me out? He keeps saying he will...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6649 days ago

22 February 2006 (F) - I'm a 17 year old female and I like this 19 year old guy. Well, I really like him and he likes me too, but the problem is he just treats me as just a "friend." We liked each other for over 5 months and he won't ask me out and it's bothering me. We need to hang out since we... (176 words)

I think my married-soon-to-be-divorced boyfriend is just using me for sex!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6649 days ago

22 February 2006 (F) - I have been with the same guy for 4 months now...almost 5. I just recently found out he was married and has a son. When I confronted him about it he said he was going thru a divorce. Then he told me that he stays in touch with her to see his son but he is with her most of the ... (130 words)

I know her sexual past is past, but she keeps running into sleazy exes at social functions...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6649 days ago

22 February 2006 (M) - Hi All, I have a gf who has a long sexual past. This does not bother me, except for 1 aspect... She keeps seeing them at social functions because they are either related to her friends or are friends with them. (She comes from a small town where they all know each other)... (241 words)

My ex is only in my life because he's giving me money for child support. I hate the arrangement...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6649 days ago

22 February 2006 (F) - Is it dodgey only to have something to do with your ex just because he is giving you money to support yourself and child? If I didn't I wouldn't even be able to pay rent alone...hard to move coz have no money and bad name on tica. Am looking for a job but makes it hard wit... (213 words)

I have a boyfriend, but I think I just "settled" for the first guy who'd have me. Now there's someone else...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6649 days ago

22 February 2006 (F) - I really like this boy in a grade above me and I flirt and laugh at his jokes but I really want him to ask me out or ask me to be his girlfriend. If he isn't ready for that I just want to be noticed. I have a boyfriend but I am thinking of breaking up with him. I think th... (92 words)

Is it normal that my boyfriend doesn't remember all of our "firsts"?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6649 days ago

22 February 2006 (F) - Is it normal for a boyfriend of many years to forget when or where you first had sex, first said that he loved you, what jewellery he bought you (when there is only one thing) and other things I find significant? Or would he just forget because of the fact that he was so busy ... (95 words)

When I was pregnant, our relationship suffered. How can we fix the damage?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6649 days ago

22 February 2006 (F) - My boyfriend and I live together, and now have a 8 month old daughter. During the time of my pregnancy, we had the worst relationship. We are now triying to repair the damage. How do I repair our relationship?... (39 words)

Sex with "strings attached"? What does she mean?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6649 days ago

22 February 2006 (M) - Me and my girlfriend will be at seven months on Friday. We have never had sex, but done a lot of fooling around. Now she has told me that she really wants to do it with me, and is planning on doing so very soon. Her biggest concern is that there will be strings attached... (89 words)

I want to break it off without hurting my girlfriend's feelings. Can I?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6650 days ago

22 February 2006 (M) - I've been with my girlfriend for 2 months. I'm 17 and she is 16. I've only just realised I dont want to be with her in that sort of way, but I feel guilty about ending it, as she lost her virginity to me. Is there any easy way to call it off or cushion the blow? P.S. Acco... (100 words)

I like the 'boy next door' but I'm too shy to tell him..should I go for it?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6629 days ago

22 February 2006 (F) - Hiya, Well the situation is ... I really really like my next door neighbour. Ive known him for nearly 3 years and all my friends says he likes me too and he sort of said he did, but im too shy to tell him i like him. =[ Im 15 n hes nearly 17 . Is that wrong? If not should i... (77 words)

Just as I was ready to orgasm-I had this illusion of a demon in a cloak. I am shook up..is this normal??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6648 days ago

22 February 2006 (F) - This is rather absurd question that i'm asking now, and i'm not entirely sure if it's even answerable, but here goes. Pardon the explicit nature, but it is necessary as i don't know quite how to word it. This evening while my long term boyfriend and i were taking part in sexual ... (295 words)

We're different races and religions but we love each other. How can we make our families understand and accept us?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6649 days ago

22 February 2006 (M)

- I am in a relationship with a girl who is different race to me and also different religion. Now we can't change each others' race and have spoken in length about religion and respect each others' religion but both of us will not change religion. The problem is her parents ... (123 words)

Is it reasonable of me to ask my bf to get this other woman off his MSN contact list?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6649 days ago

22 February 2006 (F) - Hi there, Been reading this board on and off for a few months now and it seems people qive good adivce so thought i'd air a few thoughts of my own about my relationship to see peoples views. I've been with my boyfriend for over a year now and he is the best man i've know... (302 words)