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Dear Cupid,
relationship help and advice

He ended our long distance relationship. Now I have found out there was somebody else but he wants me back now and I still love him!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 811 days ago

19 February 2006 (F) - Can someone who has cheated and lied so much really change? I was a in a long distance relationship for three years. We could not handle the distance anymore so decided to end it. After a year he came after me and we resumed where we left off. We were making plans to get mar... (195 words)

My boyfriend is driving me crazy!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 811 days ago

19 February 2006 (F) - My boyfriend is driving me crazy! He has recently moved into my home...not even settled yet. He wants to hang out with his friends..but they seem to be all women. I have no problem with the ones that are mutual friends who are not afraid to call or visit but he decided ... (205 words)

I moved to the States to be with him but when I got there he was distant and broke it off. Now I found out he had somebody else and am hurt. Am i being too hard on him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 811 days ago

19 February 2006 (F) - Hi, I would really appreciate help. I have written before and been greateful for some good advice, now my situation has changed somewhat... I moved to the States to be with a guy. Before I moved here we never discussed whether we were dating exclusively and it was an unspoken ... (609 words)

Friends with my personal trainer but does he like me as more?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 811 days ago

19 February 2006 (F) - I've been friends with my personal trainer for over a year. Over that time we've become close in as much as we go out for weekends together and when I joke and say "are you gonna get me a valentines day card" he does. He's 23 and I'm (a young) 35. I know he likes me as a per... (169 words)

I'm in love with my cousins wife and she wants to leave him soon but I don't know what to do!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 812 days ago

19 February 2006 (M) - I dont know what to do. Me and my cousins wife have developed feelings for each other and she says she only with him because of her kids, and he threatens to take the kids away from her if she leaves him, he even tells her she can leave anytime if she wants because all he wants ... (178 words)

I like this guy and he knows how I feel but still he does nothing!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 811 days ago

19 February 2006 (F) - I've liked this guy for a couple months now and ive told him how ive felt but he still doesn't do anything. When we are together he'll be flirting with me the whole time.. why hasnt he done anything knowing my feelings for him?... (46 words)

My best friend wont talk to me anymore after I met her ex!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 790 days ago

19 February 2006 (F) - Hay, I am really down at the moment because my best friend doesn’t want to talk to me anymore!! She says she doesn’t trust me. Let me explain … my friend met a lad in a bar and got on really well with him. A few days later they were going out, having sex, the lot! Calling ... (537 words)

We got back together and things were bliss but this morning he hit me and smashed my head against a wall. I love him so much...what do i do?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 801 days ago

19 February 2006 (F) - Please help me. I had been with my boyfriend for almost two years, when we argued about money and he left me. The reason we argued about money was that he spent all his wages on cannabis and didn't pay his bills.Four months later we got back together, and I was in heaven.H... (235 words)

I feel so insecure and like nobody. How can I stop feeling this way?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 812 days ago

19 February 2006 (F) - I have been in my relationship with my boyfriend for two years. I feel so insecure when I am with him and I hate feeling this way. I would llke it if you could help me stop being this way. It makes me feel like I'm nobody.... (49 words)

My gf says nothing happened but I have a feeling it did. How can I find out?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 151 days ago

19 February 2006 (M) - I've been with my girlfriend for 6 years and just recently she went on a cruise with a girlfriend. They met like 5 guys that they hung out with the whole time. She called me every night when she was going to bed except for one night she said they were tired and fell asleep ... (185 words)

He's told me that "we're going to sleep together" on Saturday. Should I?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 811 days ago

19 February 2006 (F) - I have a problem. There's this guy I've known for about 4 years. We have been on and off for ages, usually when he has a girlfriend, but we've never slept together. Now, he's breaking up with his girlfriend and we've been flirting outrageously, saying were going to sleep to... (106 words)

I don't feel the same way about my girlfriend any more. All we do is argue!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 798 days ago

19 February 2006 (M) - I have been with me current partner for 2years now. I'm almost 19yrs old. Recently we have been constantly arguing and I don't enjoy spending much time with her. The trouble is, she is really caring and I do love her. I have also met a girl from work and we have instantly made ... (92 words)

A guy in my classes seems interested, but is he?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 812 days ago

19 February 2006 (F) - There is a guy that I am interested in, who I think could be interested in me. I'm afraid I might be reading too much into his actions. We've had several classes together, and we're sort of friends, but don't know each other really well. Maybe your objective opinion can ... (405 words)

My boyfriend seems to be losing interest in sex at the very time I'm ready to try new variations!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 811 days ago

19 February 2006 (F) - My bf and I have been together almost 3 years. Originally our sex life was amazing. Recently (past 4 months) it hasn't. In fact, asked bf and he in uninterested in sex. At all. It's down to once a week. And personally i think that's only because he feels pressured to do so. He ... (135 words)

Never suspected a thing, so I don't know if I can trust him after he cheated!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 812 days ago

19 February 2006 (F) - Should I give my cheating ex a second chance? I have been parted from my ex for 9 months after a 6 year relationship. I have known him for 20 years. I found he had been cheating on me as the woman found out where I lived and came to tell me. I never suspected a thin... (172 words)

If he'd said something, I'd have given him his space and we'd still be together...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 812 days ago

19 February 2006 (M) - Me and my partner had a big argument reently. I had had enough of the small meaningless arguments that aways ended up with ''talking'' about it, hence why this argument was the worst of all. The argument started then me and him, and his housemates and cousins went out clubbin... (350 words)

Bored with EVERYthing...

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 801 days ago

19 February 2006 (F) - I'm bored with life. I'm unhappy at work, I'm unhappy at school, I'm unhappy at home and I'm unhappy with my bf. Any suggestions on improving my life? Please help xXx... (31 words)

My folks are pushing me to find a partner and it is stopping me finding one!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 812 days ago

19 February 2006 (M) - Help, my folks are rushing me to have a girlfriend and partner, I'm feeling pressurised, and uncomfortable, plus I might find myself not even wanting to be with a woman, I think that I might be gay how can i get the back off, and when I want to get involved i will. I am only 21 ... (59 words)

I'm so insecure... Why does he have to keep in touch with his female friend? Is there something going on?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 480 days ago

19 February 2006 (F) - Can't believe I have resorted to this .. problem shared is a problem halved I guess! I love my boyfriend dearly. We have our moments and have silly arguments, overall it's all pretty damn good. I have a 12 year old daughter and she thinks the world of him too. However...... (541 words)

I am still grieving over losing my dad and now my husband refuses to talk to me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 811 days ago

19 February 2006 (F) - Please help. My husband refuses to talk to me. It all started last week when he was offered a new job. He waited until coming to bed at midnight to say "I can't believe you haven't even said well done for getting a new job" I was so taken aback and obviously half asleep that I ... (366 words)

First date sex after text?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 795 days ago

19 February 2006 (F) - Should you sleep with a guy you really like on a first date after months of texting?... (17 words)

Can I get over him cheating on me more than 80 times?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 802 days ago

19 February 2006 (F) - Is it possible to get over a man cheating on you if he's done it over 80 times? I've thought of counselling but a bit scared of opening 'pandoras box'. I thought I got over the first few but the one's that involve people I know who were friends of the family and also a best ... (130 words)

if you've been treated really badly, is it possible to be on your own happily for the rest of your life?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 813 days ago

19 February 2006 (F) - I find it really difficult to trust any male nowadays. I've had no father all my life because he date- raped beat my mother (which is how I came about). Molested by the age of 7. Raped at 18. And had a lying, cheating, disrespectful boyfriend ,(now my ex) who left me and my ... (232 words)

Bad attitude.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 811 days ago

19 February 2006 (F) - What to do about a boyfriend with a really bad attitude? ... (13 words)

My ex wants to get back together and I couldnt live without her but i am under so much stress right now!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 812 days ago

19 February 2006 (M) - Im not quite sure how to out this but I have a very stressful life due to my parents and my lousy brother. On top of that my grandma's just died not even a week apart and it is a very stressful time. Before all of this i had been dating a girl she is 14 going on 15 and im 16 go... (253 words)

My man cheated and lied and promised to change and didn't. Now that we're finished, I'm scared of being alone!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 813 days ago

19 February 2006 (F) - Had a relationship that lasted for just under 9 yrs. He cheated on me right from the beginning. More times in the first year than I can even count on both my hands, and feet, at which point I confronted him about it and he said it would stop. I spent a lot of time and ener... (355 words)

Did I make a mistake by making the first move?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 812 days ago

19 February 2006 (F) - I really like this random guy who I see out all the time. I finally worked up the nerve to actually go and talk to him, he didn’t back away and seemed quite warm towards me, I didn’t get his number or anything, I just broke the ice. The next night in a bar, he passed by me and ... (287 words)

He seemed to want to meet up, just like I do, but now it's all sorts of mixed signals!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 812 days ago

19 February 2006 (M) - I'm a 16 year old gay male and I really like this other lad. We met of the internet 2 days ago and we like all the same things. He seems interested, he tells me that he thinks I'm hot and that he would like to meet up with me. He seemed reluctant to giving me his number but did ... (102 words)

I'm a nice guy with loads of female friends... and it seems to get me nowhere!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 800 days ago

19 February 2006 (M) - I dont beleive it can be true. Do nice guys really finish last? I have countless friends, because I never see the point of arguing and holding grudges. All the girls I am friends with come to me for relationship advice. I've been called 'a light in the dark' among other thin... (316 words)

His ex wife keeps sending my bf, reminders of their deceased son. I hate what it's doing to him-should I talk to her about this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 812 days ago

19 February 2006 (F) - I'm getting married to my boyfriend of 7 years in may. he has an ex-wife who has to keeps ties with him. By birtday cards,to mailing pictures of the past. She has been married for over 20 years and can't seem to let go of my soon to be husband. they had a child together... (258 words)

Three older ladies paid me to have sex with them. I need the money, but I don't want to be a gigolo!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 813 days ago

19 February 2006 (M) - hello I am 18 years old male. I meet a group of old ladies. They are between 55 and 60 and they are 3 ladies. They offer me $200 to sleep with them and I did it, but I am feeling that I am selling my body. But I need that money. Shall I stay and sleep with them? Note: I a... (79 words)