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writes: A guy I'm seeing is seeing other people and I am also open to seeing other people, although I really just want to date this one. We've just been on a couple of dates. How many dates would you expect before the guy decides he just wants to see one person? This could get romantic, but I don't want it to unless I'm the only one he's seeing. What's the best way to approach this? Reply to this Question
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reader, Dazzerg  +, writes (23 February 2006):
 Did you agree that this was an open relationship from the start? Assuming that I think you may have to talk to this guy and tell him you want to start dating him exclusively for there to be any movement.
He may or may not be thinking the same thing but also may not be wanting to make the first move and think that you want an open relationship. I can understand you not wanting to get too involved in an open relationship but at the end of the day if somebody wants to change the terms of the relationship then somebody has to make the first move.
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