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writes: Basically I have been with my bf for 3 months, but recently we haven't been talking much. I always talk to him online as well and he goes silent then and then after a while says he's tired or he's got to go. At college he seems distracted and looks around instead of talking to me, i feel we are drifting apart. When i asked him what was wrong he said i was paranoid, he insists he loves me but that i won't believe him. Lately i been getting really annoyed though. What can i do?
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reader, smeedle  +, writes (23 February 2006):
 This relationship is over, you need to tell him you are sick of his games and you are doing him a favour by finishing it as he definatly wants it over but has not had the guts to tell you. He is giving you all the signs!! take them and dump him fast.
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reader, shania +, writes (23 February 2006):
 It does sound like he is getting restless with this relationship but hasnt got the nerve to finish it....probably because he doesnt want to upset you...but what he is doing is making the situation worse.I think you should call it a day....maybe the break might do the trick but i wouldnt bank on it.Im not convinced and your not either....so walk away and find someone who is going to give you the time of day...he sounds like too much hard work.
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reader, Andy J +, writes (23 February 2006):
 Ummm, time to take a deep breath i think...To me it sounds like your boyfriend might be gettin bored with how things are going. Try and invite him out somewhere or even just find a nice park to walk around with him and when the atmosphere is right try to talk to him, tell him exactly how you feel and ask him why he's being like he his. The only way i can see?!
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