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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I am pessimistic about things and I worry I'll screw up my relationship with my bf.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6650 days ago

21 February 2006 (F) - I've been feeling horrible lately, sometimes I feel like my bf doesn't love me. I told him but he says that he does. He's sweet, maybe not like soap opera guy sweet but he treats me really good so I don't understand why I feel this way. Tho he never puts something sweet for me ... (176 words)

My family don't like my boyfriend, and I can't understand why!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6649 days ago

21 February 2006 (F) - I am 20 years old, live with my parents, and have been with my boyfriend for over 2 years. From the very start of the relationship I was very open with my family, and introduced my boyfriend to them at the start of our relationship. Despite this, my family does not seem to ... (274 words)

It feels like we're each waiting for the other to say "It's over"

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6647 days ago

21 February 2006 (F) - Hello, I met my bf on the internet. We chatted for a year and then texted for ages and then we met about 4 times a week. Each time I'd go over to Ireland or he'd go over to England, where I was living. I moved over in May 2005 and still in Ireland now, but the problem is we ar... (176 words)

When I ask my Mother about sex...she goes all cold. Should I just keep trying or what?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6651 days ago

21 February 2006 (F) - I have recently turned 16 and me and my boyfriend really want to have sex for the first time. we waited so that we knew it was the right thing to do, until it would be legal and so i could tell my parents, because i've always wanted to be as open as possible with them. i've ... (225 words)

I want to have sex with him, but I'm feeling confused...

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21 February 2006 (F) - I have a good friend called Kallum. Today we were kissing and I asked to toss him off. He let me, whilst he fingered me. I want to have sex with him now as I really enjoyed it but I am feeling very confused at the moment. A bit of help please? ... (56 words)

Any advice about helping me to stop thinking about having a baby. I'm only 12!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6646 days ago

21 February 2006 (F) - Hey.I'm a little worried right now because i am only 12 and i really want a child! I have never thought about this before i had my period. it worries me because i know i am way too young to have a child at this age but i am stupid enough to do so and regret it the next day. Any ... (71 words)

He has signed up to dating site and he's looking for sex with women...and MEN! Help me out here

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6650 days ago

21 February 2006 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for nearly 4 years now - we are both 20 but I'm at university and he working and living at home. I love him with all my heart, but I am extremely insecure and once checked his email account. I found he'd just signed up to a dating site, and ... (172 words)

My ex bf treated me wonderfully..but this new much older guy...seems moody and no fun!

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21 February 2006 (F)

- I need some advice about my boyfriend. My ex was a really loving guy and worshipped the ground I walked on but I left him for the guy I'm with now. Don't get me wrong, it was the right decision, as I no longer loved my ex but it's been hard adapting to the new relationship. ... (168 words)

Is he just using me or is he really a genuine guy...advice needed

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21 February 2006 (F) - ive been getting on really well with this guy, we've slept together and he told me he dont want me to be with anyone else and he wants to see how things get on between us. i really need some advice does it sound like hes just using me or is he genuine.... (53 words)

The girl at work doesn't want to date co workers-should I leave my job, in order to date her?

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21 February 2006 (M) - Me and my girlfriend are on a break at the moment, i suggested it because i dont feel the same about her anymore. Its mainly because i like this other girl in work. I have been getting on great with her and just last night i told her i fancied her. She wasnt suprised but told ... (81 words)

My partner left me and the children for my friend. He never seems the kids and acts like he hasn't care in the world...

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21 February 2006 (F) - My ex partner of 14 years has left me and my three children for my friend. She has two kids to two different men and she goes through men like Jack Flash. She has had more men than hot dinners. My three children were devastated when it happened. His mother doesn't bother w... (159 words)

I am paronoid that she may have slept with another guy while she was away. Is there any basis for my fears?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6651 days ago

21 February 2006 (M) - Hi there. I have been with my partner for 5 years+.She recently went to Canada with her job.She was away for just over a month. Since we started going out, when we have sex we do not use condoms, as she is on the pill. We have never used a condom from day 1 of our relationship... (213 words)

My bf slept with his sisters friend while we were apart. I can't get it out of my head and it is driving me crazy!!

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21 February 2006 (F) - My boyfriend and i split up for almost 6 months, he says he missed me like mad and i missed him but we both admitted to having other partners while we were apart. He slept with a friend of his sisters who we often used to go out clubbing with and i just cant accept it. I dont t... (181 words)

She asked me a loaded question and I failed miserably...now I'm paying for it bigtime. What should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6646 days ago

21 February 2006 (M) - Before we were married my wife asked me what my fantasy was...not really one to fanasize, what came to my head was a asian woman. She said nothing at the time and a few weeks later asked me what seemed to be fraised in a joking matter....if you came up to me at a bar and didnt ... (234 words)

I'm always thinking of this other person..is it because I miss them or I 'm unhappy in my current relationship? Help me out here

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6651 days ago

21 February 2006 (M) - I have a long term partner and we have own house together. However, recently, I have been thinking increasingly about a special friend who has left the area and headed elsewhere. I am not sure if these thoughts are because I miss the person who went away and would like to be ... (95 words)

'Trapped' in my current situation and missing my 'special friend' What should i do?

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My wife is hurt by my sexual past. She cant have sex with me without thinking of where I have been!!!

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21 February 2006 (M) - My wife has asked for details related to my sexual past. Some of these woman were childhood friends we new before we were both married. I am one to keep my past in the past but she is one that likes to know up front as to not ever be the odd person out and finding somethin... (186 words)

Shocked at the things my bf has seen and now I am curious!!

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21 February 2006 (F)

- Dear Cupid, I was talking to my boyfriend the other day and the subject of porn came up. I told him i have never been on it and he was really shocked! I always knew there was such a thing but when he told me the things that he'd seen i was shocked as well! So in the end we we... (159 words)

My friend wont talk via txt and it frustrates me!!

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21 February 2006 (F) - Need some help understanding a male friend of mine. He always takes an interest in what I am doing, which I really like and appreciate, but he won’t respond to my questions of how he is and what he’s been doing when I ask him via text (which given we don’t see each other all ... (182 words)

I feel kie second best so how do I strike a better balance in my friendships?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6651 days ago

21 February 2006 (F) - I don’t know whether it’s just the friends that I have, but some of them are difficult to understand and their behaviour can be erratic. For example, I seem to be expected to do whatever they want but when I suggest going somewhere or doing something, I am met with resistance ... (592 words)

While I was pregnant my bf had a pic of some mystery girl in his wallet..now he e-mails her. I am upset

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21 February 2006 (F)

- dear cupid afew months ago when i was pregnant. i found in my two year boyfriends wallet a photograph of a girl and writen on the back was- keep it with you, i hope you like it- claudia! when he got home i confronted him about this mystery girl, he said it was an exchange... (174 words)

Am I being paranoid or am I 'just' another girl to him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6651 days ago

21 February 2006 (F) - My boyfriend and i have been going out for 6 months now, and it has been the best six months of my life. He is the first person I have ever let close to me and I am truly in love with him, but I get so jealous all of the time. He does aswell. Whenever we talk about a certain ... (235 words)

Is it right to give up everything for love? He wants me to move to him...what should I do?

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21 February 2006 (F) - Hey everyone. I need someones opinions. Is it the right thing to give up everything for love? I'm in a long term, 2yrs long distance relationship. I'm 23 self employed, have my own business for 3yrs, but still settling some debts, and I'm thinking of giving it all up, to... (364 words)

We kissed and hugged in his room..but the next day he dumped me! Did he 'play' me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6646 days ago

21 February 2006 (F) - dear any agony aunt i need your help bad, there is a guy who i really like lets call him j. now the other night j txt me at 1am to go to his room i did, we lay side by side in bed and he kissed me and started huggin touchin and caressin me i was in a state of shock, i was so ... (180 words)

Looking for good health sites for women? Got any ideas?

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21 February 2006 (F)

- Hey, Does anyone know any good health sites for females? I've looked on search engines and the websites they find are about all the "brilliant" herbal remedies to help you loose weight. I dont want to loose weight however, i just want a site thats just genrally about w... (61 words)

The problems with my bf were my fault and now I feel lost without him

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21 February 2006 (F) - got problems with a lad who i really like and no one knows how bad it is killing me and i really need some advice it was my fault but i just want to be with him his love was a miraculous love that i now feel lost without... (49 words)

I need someone to talk to about my problems...without involving friends and family. What can I do?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4762 days ago

21 February 2006 (M) - I need some sound advice on how to make myself feel better! I have no one to talk to, and my parents are so narrow minded they think of things too seriously, and only in ways to benefit themselves. I need to chat to someone about my problems and the way that I've been feelin... (137 words)

We were happy until we both started uni..then things went downhill from there. What can I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6649 days ago

21 February 2006 (M) - Hi, me and my (Ex)girlfriend are both at uni and we have been together for 3 years. It is our first relationship and everything was really great until we got to uni about a year ago. Then we started really missing each other and she became really needy. She didnt like it when i ... (378 words)

I can't help thinking he likes her more than me. What shall I do?

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21 February 2006 (F) - heya it feels like my boyfriend of 2 months doesnt like me as much as i like him! i really really like him but i am not sure how much he likes me?!? before we went out he had a crush on another girl and i dunno if he still likes her. i cant get how much he liked or still l... (111 words)

I'm feeling suicidal...I can't imagine life without her. Please help

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21 February 2006 (M) - Hi my girlfriend split up with me last week, on the friday. Basically because i fibbed to her twice about where i was staying when visiting my friend at uni, also because i went to see my best friend at uni 3 weekends in a row. I'd do anything in the world to turn back time to ... (330 words)

I need to learn to stop being so jealous and suspicious-It's driving us both crazy! Advice is needed

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6539 days ago

21 February 2006 (F)

- I am really jealous and insecure with my partner and I dont know why. He has never really given me any reason to be but we have lived together for 1.5 years and i've gotten myself into a rut of checking his phone/emails/internet. I know it's not right and not normal but I find ... (201 words)

He tretas me like a goddess-but why do I feel so smothered? Help me understand

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6651 days ago

21 February 2006 (F) - I was involved in a love triangle with D and J. J was my first love and we've been together for 4 years. Then I met D, and fell head over heels for him because I felt sexy, confident and I can be myself but unfortunately the relationship deteriorated and only lasted 4 months ... (281 words)

My ex bfs old friend wants to 'hang out' but I like this other guy too!!

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21 February 2006 (F) - I am 16. There is this guy I know that we are kinda friends. We don't hang out but he talks to me on IM a lot. He is a friend of my old boyfriend. Most of the time we have been talking, he's had a girlfriend. A few days ago he told me she dumped him and then he asks me what ... (219 words)

I've just had a baby and now my bf doesnt want sex with me!!

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21 February 2006 (F) - My boyfriend of 5 years and I just had a baby. Since than he doesn't want to have sex.I've explained to him how this makes me feel (fat, unattractive, frumpy) and still no change. He proposed when I was 9 months pregant and tells me his feelings for me havn't changed,... (116 words)

After my friend split up with his ex i started to have feelings for her. Now my friend is single again and flirting with his ex. What do i do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6651 days ago

21 February 2006 (M) - About a year ago, my friend's girlfriend left him. I didnt fancy her at the time, but a few months later I started to notice her. I decided to leave it for a few more months, so everyone could forget about her relationship with my friend. We've recently become very close, b... (193 words)

My Aunt is hateful toward my Mother. She refuses to let us attend my uncle's Funeral. What should we do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6651 days ago

21 February 2006 (M) - I'm not sure if this is the right place to ask this question, but I guess I'll try anyway. My uncle, my moms brother, recently died. They had a very close and loving relationship with each other. It used to makee my aunt, his widow, very jealous. She recently told me on the p... (160 words)

My bf has been cruel..so I cheated on him. Now I feel horrible! Help

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6651 days ago

21 February 2006 (F) - Please help, I am a horrible person. My boyfriend has been quite cruel verbally/ mentaly for the past couple of months, but I love him dearly. But I went out and slept with one of my freinds. Its tearing me up inside. What should I do. I know I have done wrong, but i need ... (61 words)

Does this dream mean anything...

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21 February 2006 (F) - let me just start the people who im just about to mention Is my Current Boyfriend (i split up with and then got back with) my ex best mate(boyfriends ex girlfriend) and her fiancee The dream Well it started off in a pub with me saying to my bf that maybe you want her ... (292 words)

Bigger or smaller than me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6647 days ago

21 February 2006 (F) - ok this might be a weird question but here it goes, I really like a guy who is a little bit smaller then me, hes around 130 pounds and hes 5'7" and I'm 5'5'' and 136 pounds I just feel kinda self concious because the other two guys i have been with have been a lot bigger the... (81 words)

I'm attracted to someone else but my boyfriend and I live together now...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6651 days ago

21 February 2006 (F) - Ok, I'm 18 and i have been with my current boyfriend for three years, we have broken up twice during this time and I saw other people when we were apart. I dumped him both of these times. Now we are living together, and i moved out of state to be with him and I am seriously e... (157 words)

Am I the guy to take my girlfriend's virginity?

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21 February 2006 (M) - I have a question about taking my girlfriend's virginity. I'm 20 and she's 18 and we both attend college. I met her in class and we have been dating for almost 2 months. I'm not a virgin, but she informed me the other day that she's a virgin. Well from what she tells me she i... (152 words)

How true is it that a man knows instinctively when he meets the woman he's going to marry?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6645 days ago

21 February 2006 (F) - I really need some advice. I've been wondering, is it true a guy knows almost instantly when he meets his future wife? I've heard many stories from guys I know who have said they knew...and I was wondering how true people think this is.... (44 words)

Why won't my BF say "I love you"? Is it because I don't measure up to his ex?

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21 February 2006 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been going out for 9 months now. I am in love with him but haven't told him. I want him to say "I love you" first. He knows this but hasn't yet said it. I am becoming impatient. I am worried he doesn't love me like I love him, because before m... (112 words)

I am 17 and I think about having a baby, all the time. Is this normal?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6635 days ago

21 February 2006 (F) - Im seventeen years old and i cant wait to have a child. i know im not ready for one now and im not intending on having one now. but is it normal to think about having a baby all the time? ... (42 words)

She's 16, living with and sleeping with a 28 year old man!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 6640 days ago

21 February 2006 (F) - My daughter is dating a 28yearold man she id only 16 years old they have been together for 7 months and have come to me and told me that they have been having sex and are deeply in love about 5 months ago i let her move in with him what should i do?... (54 words)

I still love my little boy's dad. I don't want to, but can't seem to stop...

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21 February 2006 (F) - I have a 2 year old son. His dad left me when I was pregnant. I still love him but he lives so far away from me now and he has never seen his son. I don't want to love him anymore but can't stop. What do i do? I need all the advice I can get because I don't want this to affec... (76 words)

Don't understand why my girlfriend is suddenly so withdrawn and depressed!

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21 February 2006 (M) - My g/f of 2yrs has become very withdrawn from our relationship. She never looks happy, never smiles, she looks depressed and never wants to do anything together. This has been happening over the last couple of weeks. I ask her what's wrong and she says nothing is wrong bu... (152 words)

Orgasm score: nil. But my boyfriend gets defensive if I try to discuss it!

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21 February 2006 (F) - Me and my boyfriend have been together and having sex for over two years and I still have never climaxed. He says that he really wants me to and it's what he thinks about, but I feel that it's all for his pleasure. When I try to talk to him about it, he gets embarras... (78 words)

He fears love..so should I stay with him or give this up?

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21 February 2006 (F) - I am 30 and have been dating a 44 y/o man for almost six months. It started out pretty casually, I thought he was a really great guy, but wasn't head over heels. We talk almost every day and see eachother at least once a week. We are sexually intimate and everything is gr... (288 words)

Should I worry about my husband having online texts with an old gf, everyday?

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21 February 2006 (F) - my husband spends hours several nights a week having MSN conversations with an old girlfriend, they also TXT each other most days. I'm not happy but he says I have nothing to worry about. Should I be worried ... (38 words)

I don't love my bf..I'm using him to lose my virginity. But I do like my gym teacher! I am sooo confused..help!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4874 days ago

21 February 2006 (F) - hi so i got a boyfriend, but i don't love him, i think i just want to use him to loose my virginity.i know it's bad,i know that i should break up with her,but i want some experience in sex before i go into a real relationship. i thing he doesn't love me either. My rea... (131 words)