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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

The guy I like wasn't interested, so how do I get over the embarrassment?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6640 days ago

24 February 2006 (F) - I really like a guy who's in the year above me at school. I have asked him out and he told me that he liked me but not in that way, and that we should still be friends. Since then, we haven't spoken or even looked in each others' eyes. I know and get on with his friends ... (116 words)

She sends me emails saying she's horny... but only at times when we can't be together!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6647 days ago

24 February 2006 (M) - Hello there, I am unhappy with my sex life. My partner is a great girl but we hardly ever have sex. She just sent me an email saying she's horny knowing that she's at work and can't have sex, but as soon as I say we can do it after she says no, cuz she won't be horny. What's ... (80 words)

My online guy popped up after an absence, but all he wants to chat about is meeting up and sex!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6646 days ago

24 February 2006 (F)

- Hello, I am wondering what to do in this (long) situation I am currently in. I met this guy online a few months back. We talked maybe like five times a week for the first month, then after that it was like once a week (if that) and it was real quick, like for 2 minutes. I just ... (340 words)

We're not sexually compatible and he doesn't seem to remember what I like. Worth continuing or let it go?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6644 days ago

24 February 2006 (F) - Hi, I'm going out with a lovely guy but I try and avoid the sex as I don't enjoy it at all. He's not that interested in sex and I have tried lots to improve it but I always have to repeat to him what I like and I'm tired of it all. As I think we´re not compatible in the ... (83 words)

Since the breakup, my ex has gone a bit freaky. What are his feelings and how do I move on?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6646 days ago

24 February 2006 (F) - How do you get over someone who says his feelings for you haven't changed (i.e., he's still more in love than he's ever been), but he can't date you anymore, for other reasons? Especially when you have to see him every day? It's been 7 weeks since we broke up, and I know I... (499 words)

Everytime we get close he pulls away. How do I keep him interested?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6646 days ago

24 February 2006 (F) - I would like some advice on how to keep my boyfriend interested in me. Everytime i try to get close to him, he keeps pulling away, although you must know that he has a girlfriend.... (35 words)

I lied about my age but now we are really close. Should i tell him or not??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6647 days ago

24 February 2006 (F) - I know that it is wrong! but i lied about my age (only by one year) to a boy that i never thought id get close to. However, we are really close now and he still thinks i am older than i am. I dont want him to see me as a lier because usualy i wouldnt do something like t... (112 words)

My bf has promised his 'uni mate' marriage and a baby!! What do i do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6643 days ago

24 February 2006 (F) - Hi there, I am really really hurt an upset, my boyfriend had this friend, she calls him alot now and then, when i asked him who she was, he replied back saying she is my uni mate, he even swore on my life that shes just a uni mate.... me and my boyfriend have been together... (305 words)

I persuaded her to ask him out..but I found out he doesn't want to date her. I feel bad for her-what should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6647 days ago

24 February 2006 (F) - My friend has liked this guy for a few years now and they were always close friends. He recently broke up with his girlfriend and so everyone started telling my friend that she should ask him out or to go to the prom. It always seemed obvious to me that they both liked each ... (183 words)

Some thoughts on the 'porn' issue...the difference between fantasy and illusion.

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 6636 days ago

24 February 2006 (F) - Everyone says that porn is for FANTASY, But the definition of fantasy is "a product of the imagination: ILLUSION" Which is where it should stay, in ones mind, not for their eyes. Fantasies are meant to be imagined not to actually be seen. If fantasies were meant to be obtained ... (195 words)

My husband does not talk about his feelings to me...what can I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6647 days ago

24 February 2006 (F) - My husband does not talk to me, he is mostly quite and does not express his feelings, what can I do... (21 words)

Does anyone know why my guy prefers text sex to the real thing?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6647 days ago

24 February 2006 (F) - Help, my guy seems to want only text sex. I fell in love with him when we met back in September and he pleaded to meet again. I agreed to meet a week later but he cancelled at short notice, asking for another date. Eventually after stalling for 6 weeks we meet again and the ... (186 words)

I'm bored with my bf..I'm bored with my friends...I'm bored with my life! Help me

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5494 days ago

24 February 2006 (F) - im 18 yrs old and im doing my A-levels, not doing to great and dont enjoy going to school no more. me n my m8s have a holiday booked for this year. and i see my bf sun- thur and go out on a fri n sat night wit my m8s. thing is coz of money cant afford to go out ne where further ... (136 words)

My ex has swept me off my feet and everything is wonderful but I am scared he will find something missing!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6645 days ago

24 February 2006 (F)

- I have been seeing my first love again after many years. He is sweeping me off my feet but I can not believe it is true. His first wife was beautiful and I am attractive. I know I am funny and he thinks interestingly wacky, so I can get away with being my usual odd-ball ... (347 words)

We are both haunted by each others past. What can we do??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6646 days ago

24 February 2006 (M) - We dicussed our past sexual relationships because my wife needed to know because she didnt want to be the one to find out something about me from another person. She hates to think I am keeping something from her even though she hates to hear it. I hate the idea of knowing and ... (430 words)

Scared that my gf's thoughts of her past, will destroy her. How can I help her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6646 days ago

24 February 2006 (M) - I love my girlfriend however she recently had an abortion as a result of a one off fling she had with a guy she used to work with before she knew me. She can't seem to let the past go and it seems to be making her more and more depressed. I have been supportive and encouraged ... (106 words)

She's my friend and we're attending a party together..so how do I introduce ourselves?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6640 days ago

24 February 2006 (M) - HEY EVERYONE, I need some quick advice, before I get myself into some trouble, by being innocent. I've been invited to attend a welcome back party this weekend by a friend who is a girl, she knows the family that have invited her, but not their friends. I don't know t... (281 words)

I can't stand sleeping with my bf, anymore-I'd rather be with the previous guy!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6646 days ago

24 February 2006 (F) - Dear Cupids, I am very unsure what to do. My long-term boyfriend (3 Years, 25 and 26) and I got back together after a split for three months recently. He cheated on me (only a kiss he says) and had been having doubts about us and was unsure if it was me he wanted. ... (357 words)

Should I keep her or ditch her? I am not sure..advice needed

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6645 days ago

24 February 2006 (M) - Must I keep her of dump her? I am not sure. I am a 23 year old male dating a 16 year old girl. We are going out for almost 10 months now and have broken up twice. The thing is I am not sure of her feelings for me. Does she really love me as she is saying? I don't know if th... (173 words)

He used to send loving txt messages everyday but since we split he has put up a wall of silence!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6646 days ago

24 February 2006 (M) - My ex gay boyfriend, 21, has put up a wall of silence since our split after six months a month ago. I am 33 and was deeply shocked when he suddenly chose to end things, saying the relationship was not working for him. Instead of ending things face to face he simply did not turn... (351 words)

We are attracted to each other but he has a gf-I need advice on what to do before this gets out of hand.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6646 days ago

24 February 2006 (F) - I've met this guy through doing some work with him, which is not finished yet, I'm single and I thought he was, we started text flirting (he started it), it got really flirty and then he told me face to face, he had to stop as he was seeing someone and it felt really bad, we ... (225 words)

I think my husband lied about knowing this other woman for six years. I think he was just chatting her up!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6637 days ago

24 February 2006 (F) - Tonight I just got back from a night out with my husband. He was eyeing up this girl who was eyeing up him back right in front of me, so engrossed with each other they didn’t even notice me storm off. When I moved back closer I saw him holder her intimately. I shoved her off ... (250 words)

We're in love and so far apart!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5737 days ago

24 February 2006 (F) - What do you do if you fall in love with someone from another country? I met him last year on vacation and we've been in touch since then. I'm absolutely in love with him, but we live in two different countries. What can I do? I feel so lost.... (49 words)

Looking at porn is all right for him (he says), but I'm not even allowed to talk to male friends!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6640 days ago

24 February 2006 (F) - I know this is long, but it's hard to sum up, cause there's a lot to consider. It goes quite fast though, I assure you that. I just ask that you please read it because the advice will be muchly appreciated in return: So on basics, I’ve been with my boyfriend for about a ... (1106 words)

I enjoyed our first meeting, but she's so busy that I can't seem to plan a second!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6647 days ago

24 February 2006 (M) - I meet this wonderful girl and things are good, but she is very busy with her work and her daughter. I find it hard to get time to talk with her or set up another meeting (only met once). I'm afraid of pushing her away. Any advise? Thanks!... (49 words)

He says "I love you" at the strangest times...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6646 days ago

24 February 2006 (F) - I have a problem. My current boyfriend of 10 months has been saying "I love you" for about a week now, but at real random times. Like the first time was when I was in the shower and he was brushing his teeth. He said "Babe?" and I said "yeah" over the running water, etc. and he ... (163 words)

Who's lying? My boyfriend, about his ex? Or the ex, about my boyfriend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6647 days ago

24 February 2006 (F) - Dear Cupid I was a stripper when I met my current boyfriend. He is 29 years older than me and well established in his business. When he asked me to stop stripping I didn’t think twice. Three months after we started dating I got pregnant. I now have his first child. We have b... (445 words)

Last time I stayed over, we hugged and she said she'd call. Since then, nothing!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6647 days ago

24 February 2006 (M) - I met a woman online and we seemed to get along well. She lives alone and I am recently seperated. She is the one I have been looking for all my life. We went out a few times and most recently I went to her house to watch movies. We laid on the couch together holding hands ... (175 words)

I'm 16-he's 31...we're so happy together..how do we get other's to see it that way?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6574 days ago

24 February 2006 (F) - I'm 16 and have known this 31 year old guy for about a year now. At first, I wasn't at all attracted to him, but as I got to know him, I realized how much I enjoyed being around him. As the summer went on and I got to know him better, I really looked forward to seeing him; he ... (226 words)

She's dating him but wants me...is she confused or just needs a break from dating to decide?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6648 days ago

24 February 2006 (M) - Is she confused? Ok, well about a month ago my girlfriend of almost 10 months broke up with me. I was upset at first but slowly i have tried to move on, and she said we could remain close friends. About a week later she got a new boyfriend who helped her after our break-... (160 words)

What can I do to make him feel loved- without saying it? Any ideas?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6640 days ago

24 February 2006 (F) - What can I do to make him feel that I really love him without saying it?... (16 words)

I sent this guy a letter telling him I liked him and he still hasn't replied and its driving me nuts!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6647 days ago

24 February 2006 (F) - I recently sent a guy i like a letter telling him that i found him attractive and that id been thinking about him for the last year and would like to get to know him on a more personal level but not knowing his personal circumstances id understand if he didnt want to. Proble... (247 words)

To me it's more than just sex but is that all I am to him??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6645 days ago

24 February 2006 (F) - Hello, i met this guy in a club and as soon as he came over to speak to me i found him so funny. From that point we just clicked and spent the rest of the night chatting. By the end of the night i knew i liked him so much and so i went back to his house. I never usually do this ... (283 words)

Together for a year but always had problems. Now i have found another guy...is breaking up the right thing to do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6647 days ago

24 February 2006 (F) - Me and my boyfriend have been together just over a year. Latley i have began to develop feelings for another guy. my boyfriend and i have always had problems with our relationship, from his ex girlfriend, to the way we talk to each other. I want to take a break with him but im ... (64 words)

We have been dating for five months and now he wants us to kiss. It is my first kiss and I am worried. What should I do??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6496 days ago

24 February 2006 (F) - Hi,i'm 12 and i'm a little worried about my first kiss.... U see my boyfriend of 5 months already had his first kiss and i'm worried when me and him kiss what i'm supposed to do because i don't want to leave a bad impression. I already found out he wants to kiss me and i to... (174 words)