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Archived questions from: 23 November, 2009 (see latest in Teenage category)

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Teenage: Help and advice

So in love with her..but she loves another guy! Help me!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5272 days ago

23 November 2009 (M) - im in love with this girl called Emma, she has a boyfriend who she has been with for 6 months, shes always on about how much she loves him on her facebook, we do have a bit of history, before she got with her boyfriend i was sleeping with her, i ...

I'm losing my looks!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5272 days ago

23 November 2009 (F) - Hey. I'm 17, and basically I think my looks are fading, and fast. I know everyone is gonna think im crazy, but seriously I have noticed a big change. I never thought I was amazingly stunning, but I didnt think I was bad either. I got noticed by b...

I can't trust my current bf, because of past bad experiences. Please help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5272 days ago

23 November 2009 (F) - i was hurt by my ex it took me more than a year to get over him, he made me ill and i was heartbroken, then i went on a wild thing when me and my ex ended where i would meet up with alot of boys everyweek, i started seeing a few but it never worked ...

I'm not sure how he feels. Do you think he likes me back?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5271 days ago

23 November 2009 (F) - Hiyaaah I really really like this guy! He's a year below me in school and before I knew him properly he asked me out but I said no because I don't date guys unless I know them quite well and plus I didn't really like him much, but now I do I reall...

He's left me holding the baby while he goes out and cheats!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5272 days ago

23 November 2009 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for 3 years, we have a 3 month old baby girl, we are engaged and living together. I'm 17 years old, he is 22 years old... i love him with all my heart and now i feel hopeless. lots of different girls have been calling him ...

Can I do something more to help her without feeling like I'm betraying my other friend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5194 days ago

23 November 2009 (F) - I'm not really sure where to start with this to be honest. Basically my friend is going through a hard time right now. She has just gotton out of a relationship (her first one) and seems to be taking it pretty rough, and she was going out with a...

I'm not sure how he feels...

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23 November 2009 (?) - I really like this guy but I'm not sure if he likes me. All of my friends think he likes me, but I'm not sure. When I see him he always says hi. He can tell when something's wrong and then asks about it. He's always nice to me, (he's not nice to ...

Am I transgender... or is this just a phase?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5272 days ago

23 November 2009 (F) - First of all, please don't judge me by my age, so many people have and it gets annoying. I'm a fifteen (almost sixteen) year old girl, and the thing is I've been in love with one of my best friends (who is female) since I was thirteen. I know...

Should I make the first move?

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23 November 2009 (F) - i think my best friend likes me, i would go out with him if he asked me but hes not the most confident of people so i dont think he would be able to ask me but if i asked him an he said no then everything would be dead akward between us but the more ...

If we're mates like he says we are what with the going hot and cold all of a sudden?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5272 days ago

23 November 2009 (F) - Somethings just seem to be beyond a mystery. Im just wondring if you couldfigureout a reason for this. This guy is a good friend of mine, ok hesone of my best friends, ive never told him that though but before when things have got awkard through p...

I am in love with my sister's boyfriend's son!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5271 days ago

23 November 2009 (F) - Dear Aunts. Please Help. A Few Months ago I Got together with my sisters partners son. Hes 16 im 20. it took a while for us to admit how we felt and 1 thing led to another. my sister then split from her partner and he and his son left. i ...

Does he like me, or is he just fooling me?

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23 November 2009 (F) - Okay so... I like this guy. I don't love him, cause that's pretty much impossible for me, since I have trust-issues... Anyway. He's like the "hot sports-jock" of our level... I mean. I'm the sad little "emo" (according to everyone else) and he's Mr. ...

I can't trust women and it's ruining my life!

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23 November 2009 (F) - I can't trust women (it's almost like a fear, I guess and yes, I am a girl). I know why, though: I was bullied when I was younger because I couldn't speak English very well, all my female "friends" have stabbed me in the back, and most of all my ...

We just met on the phone and he's talking sex, kids, and marriage!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5265 days ago

23 November 2009 (F) - I spent a whole night...last night...talking to a friend I know on the phone. I don't really know what happened, but we started talking about sex after I described the outfit I was wearing. We met through a mutual friend of both of ours and though ...

Whats the first step after releasing yourself?

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23 November 2009 (F) - I'v just realised the boy Iv been crushing over and been trying to get over for about 2 years isnt really ALL THAT. So now that I feel Im officially over him, what do I do know? I realise, I focused my life around him. How do I live without him...

She makes out with me and then tells me she just wants to be friends! I'm so confused!

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23 November 2009 (M) - ok so this girl and I have been talking for over a month now. I really like her! she says she likes me. however I'm not sure and just wanna confirm it. we have partied together a few times and every time she has found me and been right next to me...

Pregnant and feeling rejected!

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23 November 2009 (F) - Hi I am 18 years old and my boyfriend is 20 we have been together for 2 years although we broke up for 10 months and got back together in june not long after we got back together i found out i was pregnant. 5 months have past and everthing seemed...

Is it wrong to want to have sex with your first cousin?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5162 days ago

23 November 2009 (F) - Is it Wrong to want to have sex with your first cousin? I have liked him since i was very young, around 14 or so, first it was wishing i could kiss him(which ive never done) but since i turned 17 its been to actually have sex with him...(ive had m...

Any tips for learning to drive a car?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5270 days ago

23 November 2009 (F) - I didn't know wether to write on this website or not but I don't know any other, and i'm on here quite a lot and have had some great advice in the past. But anyway I have my first driving lesson tomorrow.. and as i'm not exactly a car whizz, i...

Do you think I am the cause of his problem?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5272 days ago

23 November 2009 (F) - Hello i love my boyfriend so much and he loves me too, been together for some time and we are very tight, we are always together. its just he isnt very confident with himself, he covers up alot and looks anxious at times, i ask him why he does thi...

How should I react to him saying "I love you"?

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23 November 2009 (F) - I've been speaking to this guy since June/July, and we're getting along really really well. He's really nice and all that, but the only thing is that he keeps saying 'I love you', and not just in the friend way. He really thinks that he loves me. N...

I'm a girl but I don't trust women at all... please help!

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23 November 2009 (F) - I don't trust women at all (yes, I am a girl). I know why: I was bullied because I couldn't speak much English when I was younger, most of my girl "friends" have stabbed me in the back, and my grandmother abused me mentally. It's gotten so bad th...

Does my boyfriend love me or not? And why does he look at other girls like he's never had sex in his life?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5272 days ago

23 November 2009 (F) - [Moderator note: Two questions from the same writer combined into one here, as the information in one seems relevant to the other.] my boyfriend doesnt trust me, if i look at a boy he gets jelous and very angry and sometimes he even wants to leave...

My friend told me he loves me, but then says he's unsure?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5272 days ago

23 November 2009 (F) - I have a male friend who i feel extremely close to, i can talk to him about anything. The other day we were having a normal conversation on MSN and i asked what gossip he had to tell me in conversation. He messed about and said things like 'haha its ...

Is sex painful?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5253 days ago

23 November 2009 (F) - I love my boyfriend of 2 years with all my heart,the problem is when we kiss, whenever he feels horny and asks for sex, I get really scared, is sex really that bad and is it painful?...

Does he fancy my best friend and only talk to me online because he is bored?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5272 days ago

23 November 2009 (F) - Hey everyone. I’m very confused about this guy’s behaviour and was hoping you could help me out. He’s good friends with my best friend. I met him about a year ago and he added me on msn. Since then I’ve been talking to him a lot online. By now we t...

I'm beginning to doubt my boyfriend loves me any more...

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23 November 2009 (F) - Me and my boyfriend have been in a committed relationship for 4.5 months now. He stays 9 hours away from my house but we really love each other. Nowadays he doesn't seem the same. Recently I was talking on the phone with my boyfriend and his best ...

I feel kinda stuck with what to do next...

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23 November 2009 (F) - Hello, So many problems haha, same guy. Still not sure if he likes me, we talk a lot more than we used to and he's given me a lift home in his car. i'm still shy around him and i really want to know if he likes me. certain things make me think th...

Do you think I'll grow to be over 6 foot tall?

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23 November 2009 (M) - Hi... everyone I'm 18 years old and I have adolescence problems about my height, I'm 5 ft 10 inches but i dunno if i'm tall or short from other people's points of view, but I do want to grow more so i wanna know... will my height grow a bit more ...

Is this a normal kind of "fetish" if you could call it that...?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5272 days ago

23 November 2009 (F) - Hey everyone, So, the other day my friend asked me what it was that women found attractive in men. He had asked me for specifics and so I gladly proceeded to list those men I found attractive, and for what reasons. Upon completion, my frien...

How do I change myself so he stops taking me for granted?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5273 days ago

23 November 2009 (F) - So I've been with my boyfriend for over 8 months, everything's great and I love him very much. The problem is, when we started out, he'd call and text me all the time, take me out, buy me little gifts just because, but recently that's all stopped ...

My girlfriend dumped me and I'm still devastated

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4331 days ago

23 November 2009 (M) - Im so hurt! My ex gf broke up with me on Nov 4 after dating for almost 2 yrs. I always treated her like a princess and loved her like crazy. I found out on a txt msg she sent me by "accident". It devastated me bcuz even though we had been fighting, ...

I think my best friend (a guy) is my soul mate. What do I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5268 days ago

23 November 2009 (F) - I love my boyfriend, don't get me wrong, but I think my male bestfriend is my soulmate. He knows me like no other, and makes me feel happy and safe and beautiful. I don't really know what to do, I'm relatively at peace with it, but thats b...

I'm falling for my best friend's cousin

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5271 days ago

23 November 2009 (M) - i think i am falling for this girl. the only problem is that i cant spend too much time with her because we are both going crazy for that final grade 12 push. also she is my 2 best friends cousin and she lives with them. do you think i would ha...

My girlfriend seems different. What can I do to keep this relationship working?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5245 days ago

23 November 2009 (M) - I am 18 years old, and will have been dating my girlfriend for 6 months in December. We got together in June, and though we originally planned to split up before we left for college, found that by the end of the summer we cared too much about each ...

He hasn't made a move and I don't want to miss my chance!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5272 days ago

23 November 2009 (F) - I really need some unbiased advice for my situation. I really like this guy, and personally think he's right for me. We're both very religious, and saving ourselves for marriage. Neither of us have dated or kissed anyone, so we're both very ...

Boyfriend gave his phone number to suspected interest.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5273 days ago

23 November 2009 (F) - Heya everyone. Ok so this may seem like a silly problem and i prob shouldnt be bothered by it, but id like peoples opinions and to just rest my mind a bit. Ok well i live about 100 miles away from my boyfriend. He is moving down here tomorrow...

Is it worth continuing on or am I just prolonging it by staying together??

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23 November 2009 (M) - Hey... ive been going out with a girl for the last 3 months and things were going pretty well up until last week. she just got knid of distant. anyway we had a chat tonite and she was saying that its nothing to do with me its all her, she cant help ...

I dare not risk telling him I love him just to loose everything!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5273 days ago

23 November 2009 (F) - Just think about the good times..and they'll come back again! Idlove to keep saying that to myself but even the good times depress me. Im in a mess, a big fat mess!! This guys my best friend....but sadly the love of my life! Who i cannot get over....

Who do you turn to when your family isn't there?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5272 days ago

23 November 2009 (F) - What do i do when i cant even trust my family? well i have this issue that i have things to tell my mo but i wanna wait till the right time because if i just throw it all at her she not gone take it so i got to give it to her slow and at the right ...

What can I do to make it up to him and never talk about my exes again?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5273 days ago

23 November 2009 (F) - i really love my boyfriend and he loves me to bits, been together for 6 months but i have known him for years, but it wasnt until one night i realised i had feelings for him and we hit it off ever since. a year ago i was hurt really bad by a boy i ...

How do I start over quickly, before he leaves?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5273 days ago

23 November 2009 (F) - I'm kinda still in love with this guy even though we've had kinda had a rough relationship. Right now, we're not talking( even though I really want to). Lets just say things got complicated. Again. He's leaving high school next year and I...