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writes:ok so this girl and I have been talking for over a month now. I really like her! she says she likes me. however I'm not sure and just wanna confirm it. we have partied together a few times and every time she has found me and been right next to me wherever I go. this last tuesday when I was very drunk at initiation and she showed up there during the middle of the party. I saw her dancing wiht a guy and when I sat down she came and sat on my lap. she sat there for a long time and ended up making out wiht me. when I said I was gonna leave and go back to my house she told me to come to her place which I did. when we got there we went upstairs to her room and talked for awhile. then she started making out wiht me again. the rest of the night was great! ;)we have spent time a lot of tiem together. we watch movies at her house and she'll always come and sit by me and put her head on my shoulder. its great! today she texted me she has been thinking about it and just wants to be friends. I'm a great guy but she just can't see herself with me right now. she was really sorry it took her so long ot make up her mind nad was sorry for probably leading me on. now she is texting me again and says she still wants to hang out and all that "as just friends" which we've done for the last month with all that other stuff happening. what do you think? does she like me? what should I do?
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reader, iloveyhoo  +, writes (23 November 2009):
 I think she is just confused at the moment. Maybe she just wants a guy and a fling going on, and just fun, and too not get too serious.
At the moment, give her space when she needs it, as she might feel right at the time, but after everything she probably thinks its wrong.
Leave her, but still make it clear to her that you;re there still , she just needs some time to think
good luck
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