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Archived questions from: 15 November, 2009 (see latest in Teenage category)

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Teenage: Help and advice

My first time and I think I've fell pregnant. Help!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5279 days ago

15 November 2009 (F) - hi i am 16 years old and i had sex the other day with my boyfriend. I have not been feeling that well lately and yesterday i was hungery even although I had been eating all day but today im hungery but i feel very sick. My parents and his are ...

I don't know if I can get over it...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5280 days ago

15 November 2009 (F) - About six months ago, I found out my boyfriend was seeing another girl. In his defense, it wasn't physical, but he did lie to me about seeing her, and I knew he had feelings for her (gut feeling) though he swore he didn't. I was scared of being ...

I need some ideas! How can I make conversation with her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5280 days ago

15 November 2009 (M) - Recently I went to a football game for my high school and I met a girl who is 2 years younger than I am. We held hands for almost 3 quarters of the game and then she told me that her dad was my botany teacher. 3 weeks later I saw her at the next...

Any teachers out there??? How do teachers deal with student crushes?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5280 days ago

15 November 2009 (M) - How/what do teachers deal/do with student crushes? For example: if a student had a crush on you, what would you do? and how would you know?...

Was I pregnant and did I kill my baby?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5280 days ago

15 November 2009 (F) - I drank with my brother earlier, and i may be pregnant i went to sleep and when i woke up i was bleeding but not really like my period . It was there but it stopped. Could i have killed my baby? Or could it have been implantation bleeding ? ...

I've never been out with anyone before... how do I ask him out?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5108 days ago

15 November 2009 (F) - Well, i want to ask this lad out who is also one of my best mates, i asked on here before wether i should or not and somebody advised me to, so i thought meh may aswell (lol)! anyway...the thing is, i dont really know how to do it...im really s...

He's 17. I'm 15 and his parents don't want us together!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5280 days ago

15 November 2009 (F) - [Moderator Note: Personal information removed] my Boyfriend is 17 and he is going 2 be 18 june 1st and i really love him and want 2 be with him but i am 15 and his parents don't want us together bc of age.. i don't know what 2 do bc we are going ou...

How do I silence my squelching fanny?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5280 days ago

15 November 2009 (F) - when i am having sex with my bf my fanny makes a squelching noise. how can i stop this? help...

How can I save my LDR?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5279 days ago

15 November 2009 (F) - Ok i love my boyfriend more then any thing. We have been dateing for seven months. He broke up with me once in the beginning of our relationship. He asked me back out and said he made the biggest mistake of his life so i forgave him. Now he to...

My teacher wants me to spend time alone with him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5280 days ago

15 November 2009 (F) - my teacher whom i had a great respect on is now trying to get close to me he made me sit after classes alone with him and told me that he enjoyed a girl and he told me to stay after classes and talk freely. he doesn't do this to other girls and he i...

I don't want to come across as desperate so don't want to ring or text him but I would like to see him again.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5280 days ago

15 November 2009 (F) - I met this guy. We talk but things aint going the way I wish it could.. he doesnt ring much..(sometimes every day other times he goes for days without calling) he wanted to see me last week and I told him due to college and all that stress I can ...

Can a teacher tell when a student fancies them?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5278 days ago

15 November 2009 (M) - Do teachers realise if one of their student has a crush on them?? Just wondering.... And how would they know?????...

Do boys like large breasts?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5280 days ago

15 November 2009 (F) - heyy...... i am 14 years old and i have larger tits than my friends ... i am 1 38dd and i am still growing will lads like em cuz the are so big ??? ...

Is douching unsafe?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5280 days ago

15 November 2009 (F) - What happens after sex, I mean should you wash or is going to the toilet ok. I am never to sure when people say you should douche after sex, I have heard that douching to much can cause UTIs....

Should be stay together or break up?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5280 days ago

15 November 2009 (F) - I don't know how to break up with my boyfriend. I don't want to be with him anymore because he doesn't respect me and we have a terrible relationship. Whenever I'm about to say something to him something always happens to make me not say anything...

I don't know whether to just be happy with the close friendship we have at the moment, or risk taking it further?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5280 days ago

15 November 2009 (F) - I have been best friends with my best friend for three years. Me and him get on so well, have so much in common and we are really close. We are also close physically. I don't mean that we've had sex or anything but we're always together and holding ...

I'm worried about sleeping with my boyfriend. Any advice?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5280 days ago

15 November 2009 (F) - I want to sleep with my boyfriend but I am not on the pill nor do I want to go on the pill, but I am worried that by just using condoms that I will fall pregnant, he says he will be careful but I'm not sure....

I caught my friend and my boyfriend making out!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5280 days ago

15 November 2009 (F) - Last night, me, my friend, and my boyfriend (or ex i should say) were watching movies at my brothers house(he was gone for the night) . Before they came over, me and my boyfriend had gotten into a fight and i told him things were going on in my l...

My boyfriend is neglecting me and I don't kow what to do

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5280 days ago

15 November 2009 (F) - me and my boyfriend have been going out for a year now but the problem is im not happy. he never has time to spend with me because he always has other things to do like going to play football with his friends, studying or working. i dont want to s...

Am I a normal 17 year old?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5280 days ago

15 November 2009 (M) - always, whenever i see a girl or a woman, my eyes first of all go to her breasts. i want to ask is this normal ? do other guys also have this ? i am 17...

She ended it out of the blue. How do I get her back?

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 5239 days ago

15 November 2009 (M) - So I dated this girl for about 2 months and we both liked each other a lot. After getting back from a trip she calls me and breaks up with me. She didn't say why. We've been separated for about 3 or 4 months now and I've realized that I really w...

Some help writing a note to a boy I like, please

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5280 days ago

15 November 2009 (F) - I am toying with the idea of giving this guy a note the last time I see him. I plan on getting to know him a little before I actually give it to him. Anyhow, here is what Im going to write. Im not very good at gauging how people will respond ...

Why has she changed her mind so suddenly???

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5280 days ago

15 November 2009 (M) - I have asked this question before but I need more input from you guys. I'm 15 and my girlfriend is 14. We have been dating for 2 months yesterday. Weve done blowjobs, handjobs, fingering, and eating out. Anyway we almost had sex on our anniversary ...

How do guys like a girl to behave???

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5280 days ago

15 November 2009 (F) - I dont know What guys like i mean i really dont get it, do boys like it when you're tough? Do they like it when we're girly or wot cos I've tried everything, it would really help if someone wrote back and told me what the best way to get boys to ...

I don't want people to think we're going out together when we're only friends.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5281 days ago

15 November 2009 (F) - one of my best friends hangs round with me most of the time and i think people might think we're going out, i didnt think this until the other day in assembly when this girl said to him your girlfriend is behind you... i dont really like him in that ...

A serious mishap...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5247 days ago

15 November 2009 (M) - my girlfriend is really starting to detach herself from me and it is really starting to bother me. i was wondering, since weve been together for two months now, ive been realizing that she has almost broken up with me twice and i really love her ive ...

My girlfriend said no more sex...?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5273 days ago

15 November 2009 (M) - I am 15 and my girlfriend is 14. We have been going out for two months and have done everything but sex. Yesterday was our two month anniversary and we were just about to have sex, but her dad came home. So i got a handjob under the blankets ...

Why did he say I liked him? How did he know?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5281 days ago

15 November 2009 (F) - I'm not to sure if this means anything or what but basically me and some of my mates thought this guy liked me cuz he used to stare at me loads, he seemed really weird aorund me as if he felt something and everyone said it was obvious he did. ...

Is it going to ruin our friendship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5281 days ago

15 November 2009 (?) - I dont want to keep thinking this way! Is it going to ruin our friendship? So a couple of weeks ago I asked a guy if he would every want to be more than friends and he said 'I dont know' so we decided to stay friends. We are texting right now and I ...

I'm so behind with my sexual knowledge I fear he'll think I'm weird! Help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5281 days ago

15 November 2009 (F) - Four years ago when I was 16 I decided, together with my bf at the time, that I was ready to lose my virginity with him, basically neither of us knew what we were doing, I felt uncomfortable and immediately told him to stop. However he didn't, he ...

How to I overcome panic attacks?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5281 days ago

15 November 2009 (F) - So i've been dealing with anxiety for a while now. It's only a sometimes occurence though but when I have an anxiety attack it just takes over me and I can't do anything about it. IDK what to do it only happens sometimes but now Im always scared t...

I fancy two boys. Whom do I choose?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5259 days ago

15 November 2009 (F) - dear cupid, i fancy my best friend but im in love with another boy that ive liked for about a year i dont know what do do cause i get really nervous around them both when i see them i was wondering what i should do should i wait for the guy i love ...

How do I get my guy friends to stop seeing me as one of the guys?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5270 days ago

15 November 2009 (F) - i'm 16. ok so heres my problem, i got lots of guy friends. i got more guy friends then girls. and well since i hang with mostly guys, my guy friends dont see me as someone there date. they treat me like one of the guys, and well now i dont really ...

Help! How can I get him to talk to me more?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5281 days ago

15 November 2009 (F) - I know I am going to sound like Im in middle school writing this, but Im at a loss of words. My social anxiety has never prevented me so. There is this guy in my art class. He is pretty shy as well, though he is very sure of himself when he ...

Please help! Can you have sex while on your period?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5281 days ago

15 November 2009 (F) - Can you have sex while on your period?...