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Teenage: Help and advice

I have never had an orgasm even after 8 different lovers and 1 vibrator

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25 November 2009 (F) - I am 20 and I have had 6 different lovers. Not once have I felt what its like to have a vaginal orgasm. I just bought a vibrator and it did absolutely nothing for me. I don't think I even get "wet" anymore for sex. I think I've had a clitoral...

We kissed at a party - how do I talk to her without freaking her out?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5266 days ago

25 November 2009 (M) - Hey all... heres the thing, i got with this girl at a party last weekend. Nothing major really, was all over her for most of the evening, you know just "accidently" rubbing up next to her, making sure we sat next to each other all the time, the ...

Help! I have sex with too many people.

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25 November 2009 (F) - Hiya guys and girls, well my problem is that I have this sort of sex problem :S I have good sex but with too many people. I dont mean to sound slutty and i know thats how im coming across but i dont know how to put this in words properly. b...

Is it too late to hook up again?

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25 November 2009 (F) - Hey, me and this guy dated last year, we were really good together however i moved away so couldnt see him anymore because we both admitted that a LDR wouldnt be that good. well i have actually moved back to my old place now and have found out...

Awful step mum!

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25 November 2009 (F) - This is going to be long, i really appriciate anyone who takes the time to read this and any advice I will be sososo happy with!(: Ok, I'm 15, and my mum and dad split up when I was 5. I've always been close to my dad. He see's me about one a month,...

My best friend wants me to go out with her cousin... thing is I don't find him attractive at all!

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25 November 2009 (F) - Hey guys, well My best friend wants me to go out with her cousin, he really likes me and we've been friends for a long time. I know he likes me but i dont like him more than a friend however she's my best friend and i dont want to hurt his or...

I would have loved to have worked things out with her but she didn't give me the chance.

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25 November 2009 (M) - Hello I really like this girl, and recently we had a relationship but it lasted for about 3 weeks. We were having a good time together, but two people had always got in the way. I trusted her a lot, but I didn't trust them both, and this was af...

A question about anal sex.

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25 November 2009 (F) - If I have sex anally, and the guy is not wearing a condom and sperms inside of me, could I still get pregnant or is that only from the vaginal area?...

My friend is getting in the way of my relationship!

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25 November 2009 (F) - I have been going out with my boyfriend 3 weeks tommorow. Every time we go out in a large group, loads of people come out. But i have this one friend who i used to be really close too and now i can't be becuase i'm busy every day!! But when we're ...

Help! I like him... but does he like me enough???

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25 November 2009 (F) - Okay. I've had a few relationships, most of them ended badly. I go for the 'bad boy' type I think. I've been cheated on a lot and it's really knocked my confidence. Recently I met a guy who I really liked, but he got really clingy, and then I met on...

I’ve never been in a relationship before so I don’t know what it feels like.

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25 November 2009 (F) - I’m scared and I don’t know why! I’ve never been in a relationship before so I don’t know what it feels like. Ever since my best friend’s cousin R started hanging out with me I been questioning a lot of things. I know that I like him and I’ve even ...

Desperate girl looking for a reply...

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25 November 2009 (F) - Well I'm new at all this stuff and I don't really speak in english nor type correctly.. To start with, I would like to point out the fact that I really feel I love my boyfriend, the drama comes when he just seem to doesn't care about me anymore....

Do I say anything to him... or don't I?

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25 November 2009 (F) - Ok this may sound simple but this is a tough one because my mate means more to me than anyone on this earth! I have two options: Option 1 = I tell him i love him (he already knows i like him he's been told before by a mate of mine and i a...

Questions concerning oral sex

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5261 days ago

25 November 2009 (?) - hey guys! just a few (kinda weird) questions on giving oral sex. my friend was saying something about putting pop rocks in ur mouth right before you give a guy head and that it feels good for them. i dont see how tht would feel good... sounds p...

I don't understand why would she block me and stop talking to me when she told me she would give me one more chance?

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25 November 2009 (M) - I need to know if my ex still has feelings for me and that she has blocked me out her life. We broke up 8 months ago and went out for 6 months but she live down south now. anyway it all started when we had an argument 1 month ago cause she told me ...

How can I make our relationship more interesting?

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25 November 2009 (F) - Me and my ex have started hooking up again.. but its beginning to seem like a chore more than anything else. What do i do to make things more interesting?...

I feel like I need my space! Is this the right thing to do?

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25 November 2009 (F) - Been Together with my Boyfriend for Six Months now, we both love each other and are really close and get along very well, but i woke up today and realised i need space, i dont wanna break up with him or anything because i love him, but i just feel ...

He is 17 I'm 13 and I really like him A LOT !!

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25 November 2009 (F) - Their is this 17 year old boy im 13 who is in my form because he is my mentor.. I really like him a lot, he looks at me and smiles and looks away and sometimes stares at me and when i notice, he looks away, then looks back when im not looking....

I want to protect my friend. Should I tell the school nurse about her (who just happens to be my mum!)

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25 November 2009 (M) - Hey, just a 'quick' question. This one's not about me thank god. Basically, one of my friends got completely wasted and ended up losing her virginity at 14 a couple of days ago. I've been sworn to secrecy, but (always a but) I have a small problem ...

Please help me, he likes me one day.. then hates me the next.

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25 November 2009 (F) - PLEASE HELP ME! I cannot let this go and need your help! There is this boy and i have liked him over a year now. Im only 13 but I actually feel in love with him. On some days, he seems really interested in me and I feel like we are getting somewher...

What do guys find attractive in girls?

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25 November 2009 (F) - hiya ok, this a question for you guys out there. What do you find atractive about a girl?? Skinny? Even if she is pretty she has to be thin?? You wouldn't mind if she was a bit more "padded"?? please give me your opinion?...

My boyfriend hugs other girls!

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25 November 2009 (F) - Ok I have a boyfriend, and ive got a big problem. Everyone always says he flirts with other girls, EVERYONE. And i can tell, he ALWAYS hugs all the girls at our school, and when he does, he puts his arms around their waist. I get so pissed and he ...

What is the law?

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25 November 2009 (F) - Hey, Ok so here is my problem... Ok so I was just wondering what the law is on younger girls dating older guys... Because I am 15 going on 16 and might be dating a 29 year old very soon... I'm not questioning whether it's normal cuz I don't care I l...

No-one has ever touched me in a physical way and I really want to experience it, what should I do?

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25 November 2009 (M) - My first relationship just ended...and it went for two years so naturally I'm a bit upset right now. She never really wanted anything physical so we never madeout once and so I've never kissed a girl...i thought i was doing the right thing by ...

His wont talk to me and acts beyond weird...does he like me or not?

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25 November 2009 (F) - Well i aint to sure whats going on here. I have a guy mate who yes i do like, Ive never thought of us than anymore than mates however other people and myself have noticed he doesnt exactlly act the same with me as anyone else. There are many girls ...

Will I just sound needy if I tell her how I feel?

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25 November 2009 (M) - Well me and my ex broke up back in August. We still texted each other every now and then. We were getting along really good and then one day she says she wants me to leave her alone, so I do. I deleted her from my facebook and I deleted her number ...

If I date my friend will It ruin everything?

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25 November 2009 (F) - Hello, I have a friend. We are pretty good friends. We talk a fair bit and we see each other around school a lot. I have just found out that he likes me. Apparantly a lot. He is so great. Like perfect. He is nice and funny and good-looking. But he i...

Is my best friend jealous?

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25 November 2009 (F) - ok, i'm a girl and i have this best friend of mine who's a girl. she's a bit of a loner but she's still pretty close to me. we've been best friends for a year or so now... i have a lot of best friends now and try to go out of the way to make all ...

Three guys like me so who do I choose?

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25 November 2009 (F) - Ok, so here's my problem. For most of my life, i've dreamed and prayed to find someone who had feelings for me, and hadn't found anyone. Once I turned 17, I felt hopeless, because in my family, everyone falls in love/marries very young (My parents ...

I'm bisexual and attracted to my roomates

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5266 days ago

25 November 2009 (M) - Hello I'm a 14 year old sophomore. I'm a closeted bi. I guess I'll get straight to the point. I'm having feelings for two guys. One is my roommate and the other is a senior. My roommate could also fall into the criteria of best friend since I t...

Is it normal to be doing that on a daily basis, or am I just weird?

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25 November 2009 (F) - Hi everybody. I'm 16 this year and found myself hooked onto gay porn. I watch other kinds of porn as well but I seem to like gay more the most. Not lesbian porn though I find that sort of gross (no offence to people who like them, it's a personal ...

Is that considered sex? Am I still a virgin?

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25 November 2009 (F) - if a guy stuck his penis all the way in my vagina but he just stayed there and didn't move. like there were no thrusting or humping motions, is that considered sex? or sexual intercourse? am i still a virgin?...

How can I makeout properly with her? And any good songs for me to play on the guitar for her?

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25 November 2009 (M) - I now have a girlfriend and I really like her. We have kissed, and tried to makeout but that didn't work. We started, but then we bumped lips and teeth and it stopped. How can I makeout properly with her? And what are some good songs to learn on ...

Is it normal to need a heating pad and darvacet for your period?

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25 November 2009 (F) - my mom said she is gonna take me to a gynocologist next week when shes off. i thought i was off it this morning but i started again in 4th period. the only thing that helps is darvacet and a heating pad. is it normal????...

Do I tell someone about how abusive he was to me?

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25 November 2009 (?) - me and my bf broke up about a month ago and i am heartbroken even tho he was very abusive. he would torment me about being raped before we got together, smack me, shake me, scream in my face, call me names, and even spit on me once. it was horrible ...

I think my teacher may have feelings for me!

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25 November 2009 (F) - Please help... I think that my teacher may have feelings for me. He gets me out of class and I go to his classroom. I catch him staring at me and he always gives me good grades on assignments. He does things that he doesnt do for other students...

How can I tell if hes hiding something?

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25 November 2009 (F) - Been with my Fella for almost eight months now, im 17 and hes 23. i would say we are very close and can tell eachother anything, we have alot of fun together, had a few ups and downs but nothing major, we always make up the next day! he was the ...