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Archived questions from: 17 November, 2009 (see latest in Teenage category)

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Teenage: Help and advice

Will I catch up to her? She's 6 feet tall, I'm 5'9"!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5278 days ago

17 November 2009 (M) - I've been dating my girlfriend for 5 months and I love her a lot but she's taller than me she's 6 foot. And im 5 feet 9 inches will I catch up or pass her in height. ...

What to do when the ex who messed you about wants you back? I never got over him!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5278 days ago

17 November 2009 (F) - what do you do when you were with you're ex boyfriend for nearly 2 years, so in love.. but it all fell apart, because of his mistakes, he changed, started to treat me horribly, messed me about and so on.. nearly a year down the line after breaking ...

I have a huge dilemma! Five girls to choose from...what should I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5278 days ago

17 November 2009 (M) - ok. i have a dilemma (and no it isn't my spellings) right. i'm a bit of an accidental player...in that i'm a flirt. i'm totally in love with this girl (not naming names so we'll call her 1) i love (1). and yet i have 4 other girls try...

Having a bad tug of war with my heart..over my current guy and the ex bf! Help!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5277 days ago

17 November 2009 (F) - Alright, so my ex and I had been dating for just over a month when he broke up with me because I was distracting him from God (since we are both Christians) and that he just needed time and space to figure things out in his life because he has a ho...

I get overly excited with my bf...and it's embarrassing! Is this normal?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5276 days ago

17 November 2009 (F) - Um, so, this is very embarassing. But I can't ask for advice anywhere else but on the internet, because, well, it IS way too embarassing. So, to get straight to the point, I've been dating a guy for 2 months. We've grown really close together, ...

I'm beginning to hate my crush. The fairytale is not gonna happen?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5278 days ago

17 November 2009 (F) - I’ve been having boy troubles! My crush that I have liked for almost 2 years, me and him has been friends. I think that my love for him is slowly fading away. I’m sick of the fact that he doesn’t pretend like he cares about me and I feel hate when I ...

Smelling sweet... or not!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5277 days ago

17 November 2009 (F) - This question may sound a bit stupid, but do women ever get paranoid of what they smell like down there? I don't smell or anything but when my boyfriend plays with me I get paranoid just in case I do, and even if I did would a boy tell you? I'm just ...

My mum calls me fat, now I'm feeling depressed...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5278 days ago

17 November 2009 (F) - Most days i feel really down and i think i may be depressed, i cry a lot and the smallest things can make me cry. i feel like everyone around me dont love me, i think my family hate me, i think my boyfriend hates me, i think my friends hate me. me ...

How can I tell my ex I love him without making things awkward?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5278 days ago

17 November 2009 (F) - Okay, so; me and my boy friend broke up and I still have feelings for him, and I don't know how to tell him. I kinda thinks he still has feelings for me too he always flirts with me, and texts me. But I just need to know how to tell him that I still ...

My boyfriend loves me but wants sex with other women!

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5013 days ago

17 November 2009 (F) - Hey guys so ive been in a relationship with my boyfriend for almost a year and a half now. we both love each other very much and weve had a happy time together, but recently an issue has got in our way. He's only admitted it once before and somet...

What's his problem? Why does he act this way around only me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5278 days ago

17 November 2009 (F) - There is this guy in one of my classes. I've noticed that he will not come near me. Like he needed a spot to work and instead of just going to the one that was next to me he went to the one on the other side, but the whole time he kept looking over ...

My friends keep telling me to move on, but they don't understand. What do I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5278 days ago

17 November 2009 (F) - Im 18 and 2years ago i dumped the love of my life, for no reason, i tried to get him back and he wouldnt have it and for a year afterwards i fought for him and kept going back but he didnt want anything to do with me(yet he never moved on or found ...

His girlfriend told him to stop talking to me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5278 days ago

17 November 2009 (F) - Hello :) Okay so I recently met a guy and his friends. He has a girlfriend, who is a friend of one of my best friends. Me and the guy talk alot, we're good friends. The other day my best friend told me that his girlfriend told him to stop talking ...

I am sweating too much!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5278 days ago

17 November 2009 (F) - i really dont know what is wrong with me, my under arms keep sweating that i cant wear sleeved tops anymore because it leaves big wet marks, i bath 2 times a day, i have always taken care of myself. when i sweat it dont usually smell or anything, ...

How do people have interesting conversations via text messaging?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5278 days ago

17 November 2009 (F) - What do you girls usly talk to your boyfriends about well your texting? And what do you guys like talking about with your girlfriend. Becuse its hard for me to like have a real conversation about any thing well were texting its mostly how was your ...

I am a virgin. Should I sleep with my boyfriend of 5 weeks?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5278 days ago

17 November 2009 (F) - ok, im a virgin, my boyfriend of 5 weeks is not, he wants sex (he's 17). I want it so bad, when im around him i feel safe and happy. (i come from a background with alot of abuse and so does he but he has been drinking and smoking since he was in ...

How do you know if you're REALLY in love?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5277 days ago

17 November 2009 (F) - How do you know if your in love? I've been with my boyfriend for 8 months, we always say how much we love each other... but how do I know if I'm in love? It sounds like a silly uestion because I do believe I'm in love with him as I always want him ...

How can you believe someone loves you?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5278 days ago

17 November 2009 (F) - [MODERATOR NOTE: Two posts from the same poster have been combined into one question.] I Love My Boyfriend So much But When he says he loves me i have a hard time believing he does because i have been hurt in the past. i have been with him for 7 mo...

How does one differentiate between a crush and real love?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5278 days ago

17 November 2009 (F) - Hello :) I read some of the questions posted here and they've left me wondering... What is the difference between a small crush, fancying someone, infatuation and being in love? I know that with each one feelings run deeper. But how exactly do y...

Why is my ex-girlfriend blocking me on msn and Facebook?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4860 days ago

17 November 2009 (M) - i need to know why my ex is not talking to me for some reason. because last month we had an argument but then i aplogised and she forgave me and said she would give me one more chance. once we had our argument she deleted me from msn but didnt block ...

How can I show the girl who rocks my world, how deeply I love her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5278 days ago

17 November 2009 (M) - Hey everyone, Ok i've been seeing my girlfriend for nearly 4 months we've had sex, try to see each other as much as possible and do things together but i would really like to show her how much i care. I reeeeeeeallly love her to bits a...

What was this thing I found in my panties?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5277 days ago

17 November 2009 (F) - im 17 years old now... but a few years ago when i was about 14 on holiday i woke up and had this thing i cant explain in my knickers, it was kind of big, it looked a bit like a fetus, but the thing is i was a virgin at the time so i dont understand ...

I can't orgasm unless I am thinking of my fantasy!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5278 days ago

17 November 2009 (F) - me and my boyfriend love eachother and have been together for almost a year. everytime we have sex its good and i enjoy it, but i can only seem to orgasm when i think of this fantasy, it leaves me feeling guilty after because i should be thinking of ...

Does my ex still care? Why do I shake when I see him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5278 days ago

17 November 2009 (F) - i was seeing this boy on/off for 2 years, he was my first love...But all he ever done was sleep with other girls, lie and put me down sometimes, but he was still caring and treated me ok i guess. now its been a year and im over him, im now in a ...

Am I too young to move in with my boyfriend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5278 days ago

17 November 2009 (F) - i have been with my boyfriend for 9 months now, we are in love and really care about eachother. im 17 and hes 23, we both have jobs and that. at the moment hes looking for his own place, and the other night he turnt and said to me "you could live ...

Does the number of x's at the end of a message mean anything?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3522 days ago

17 November 2009 (F) - Hey, Id just like everyones opinion on this very controvertial topic! Now everyone says 'dont be silly and count the number of x's; nobody uses that as a way to say if they like someone.' But they do. Atleast everyone did a lot when we were younger,...

My boyfriend thinks I'm cheating on him, but I'm not, what do I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5278 days ago

17 November 2009 (F) - I've been with my current boyfriend for almost 8 months. We've been through our ups and downs like most couples but essentially we're very strong. But now I have a big problem. One of his so called friends told him that I was messing him about...

Should I find a new job or go back to my old one where I've not showed up for a week!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5278 days ago

17 November 2009 (F) - hi there i am new to this and i have a question about my life choices, i am 18 an im not very good at school work as you can tell of my spelling so as you can quess my GCSE's were not that good. i lov horses so i went with this collage where ...

Was I a hit and run or did he actually have feelings for me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5278 days ago

17 November 2009 (F) - last night i went to a club with my sisters.there was this guy i kinda knew he said hi to me and gave him a hug.later on he kept on passing by me and talking to me and everything he would talk his lips were two inches away from mine.then he wanted ...

Why are him and his friends staring at me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5255 days ago

17 November 2009 (F) - There is this one guy from my class that stares at me in the hallway for at least three seconds. He also smiled at me a couple times or smiled in my direction. In class he will look at me but look quickly away. He used to stare at me for a minute ...

I am depressed, my mom is an alcoholic and I fear losing my b/f!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5249 days ago

17 November 2009 (F) - Hey there, This is a pretty hard topic to talk about and I dont really know where to stsart, i guess first things first is my mom is an alcholic and i really dont know how to handle it, i turned to smoke, then quit that cuz my bf helped me stop, an...

One thing finally goes right for me, and now my dad is being unreasonable. Please help me understand this!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5278 days ago

17 November 2009 (M) - Ok so i need some quick advice. Bad. I've had a rough time with relationships. Out of the 3 ive been in, ive been cheated on 3 times. Ive finally found an amazing girl, we've been talking since this past friday, so not so long. But we both thin...

I'm a virgin and desperate to have sex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5278 days ago

17 November 2009 (M) - i am a guy of 18yrs old am still a virgin and i have a girl-friend i keep telling her about sex but she ignores me and i need it desperately what can i do to have sex?...

I just want to cry and be left alone...am I depressed?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5274 days ago

17 November 2009 (F) - Am i depressed? sometimes i just feel blank and when someone is talkin to me i dont hear them. im the type of person that always happy but deep down inside im not. i am being forgetful due to me having a lot on my mind. i sometimes cry when i dont ...

Help! I'm in love but I barely know him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5279 days ago

17 November 2009 (F) - Alright, here is my situation. I am in love with this guy. Every time there is even a slight chance of seeing him I get butterflies and my heart races. I can't get him out of my mind and I think I see him sometimes when I'm out. He is very funny, ...

I'm having trouble trying to figure out my sexuality...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5278 days ago

17 November 2009 (F) - I'm 18 and for a long time i've been trying to figure out my sexuality. It's a little confusing and frankly i totally believe that only you know what you want, but i would still love some advice on it i guess. so i do think that guys are cute, but ...

Are these the signs of obsessive behaviour?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5278 days ago

17 November 2009 (F) - i have been with my boyfriend for 10 months, i love him so much, he loves me too. but over the past few months hes turned weird with me, he dont like me going out with my friends he dont admit it but i know he hates it because as soon as im out he ...

Opinions needed. Did I make the right decision?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5279 days ago

17 November 2009 (M) - I recently broke up with my girlfriend of almost two years. She had tendencies that bothered me and I believe it is part of her personality and will never change. Part of me doesn't want this relationship to end because I care about her very much, ...

Help! What's wrong with me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5279 days ago

17 November 2009 (F) - Every time after I have had sex or maybe a few days later, I get this water fluid that comes out of my vagina, it feels like I'm bleeding to death when it happens but when I check its just cloudy water that leaks quite a lot... could this be a sign ...

Why did he ask me to go to the gym with him? Does he think I'm fat???

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5279 days ago

17 November 2009 (F) - This question may sound a bit silly but i just want to know what my boyfriend meant by this. We were talking one night and he said hes going to start going to the gym and he asked "maybe you can come to keep me company" I felt a bit offended...

Why do I always try to make him jealous???

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5268 days ago

17 November 2009 (F) - I'm with an amazing boy who I have been in a relationship with for 9 months now, in the past boys have treated me badly, but then he came along and it showed me not all boys are the same, its like he saved me from it all. we love each other, I'm his ...

He never uses a condom. Is he trying to get me pregnant???

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5279 days ago

17 November 2009 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for 8 months now, we love each other very much, we are really happy together, have fun, chat about everything! but every time we have sex we never use condoms... the first time i ever slept with him he said he had one ...

How can I make our relationship work and get him to trust me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5277 days ago

17 November 2009 (F) - I don't know what to do, i've been with my boyfriend for 1 year and 10 months now, but when i'd only been with him for a month i left him for my ex. i realised how big a mistake i'd made and left him straight away. i talked to my boyfriend and he ...