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Archived questions from: 6 November, 2009 (see latest in Teenage category)

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Teenage: Help and advice

I'm 14, and I love masturbating, but I cant orgasm!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5287 days ago

6 November 2009 (F) - This is kind if a hard question for me to ask but I really like masterbating and like I will be in the bathroom for hours. I find ways to make myself crazy. but I can not orgasm!! is there something wrong with me I'm a healthy 14 your old girl. ...

This boy teases me, does he like me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5288 days ago

6 November 2009 (F) - Dear Cupid, there is this boy in my class who teases me and picks on me... I dont know if he likes me or not... im shy and dont want to ask him out or tell him that I like him... what do I do???...

Is 3 weeks too soon to be in love?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5288 days ago

6 November 2009 (F) - dear cupid me and my boyfried have been going out for 3 weeks im really sure i love him and he tells me he loves me too, does it sound to fast to be in love?...

14 and falling for my teacher!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5286 days ago

6 November 2009 (F) - Well, okay this quite weird and i might get some mean answers but yeah, I know there's loads of stuff on here, but i want an answer that matches me sort of thing. So i'm 14 and yes, i think i am in love with my teacher, she's head of pastoral care...

I can't ask him directly, so how do I know If he likes me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5287 days ago

6 November 2009 (F) - i have a guy friend who i have been friends with for a year now, we have fun together and he makes me laugh, i used to think he liked me but i am not sure, i really like him now and i just want to know how i can hint to him i like him but i wnat to ...

What if I kiss someone for the first time and they say I'm terrible?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5288 days ago

6 November 2009 (F) - ok ive just turned 14 but ive never kissed a boy i guess ive always been waiting for a nice boy but now i just feel really embarassed because all! of my friends have been going on about how there boy friends are really good kissers and i really want ...

I want to ask this guy out?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5288 days ago

6 November 2009 (F) - i want to ask this boy out that goes my skool, i barely know him but i do know i love im i see him and i loose the ability to speak or move i really wanna go out with him, i need something i can use to connect with him all i know is he is really ...

Me and my best friend...I just wanna know why...???

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5288 days ago

6 November 2009 (F) - Ok, so my best friend and I haven’t been friends for about 6 months because I was a bad friend and she chose her boyfriend over me and everyone else. He told her not to be friends with me anymore and she listened to him. She would have never ever ...

Help I don't understand why girls do this?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5288 days ago

6 November 2009 (M) - i dont understand why some girls if you dont show them your penis then they be it has to be small or tell someone that your penis small when is not...

She has broken contact with me...how do I deal with this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5287 days ago

6 November 2009 (M) - (Mod note: Name has been hidden to protect privacy) so theres this girl. wwe have like eachother since the 7th grade. i love her. we got intamate twice. and then we had sex. all this was happening wile she was with other people. i have had sex ...

Help me please...I don't want to break his heart but I am not ready to settle down. I want to experience life! What do I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5288 days ago

6 November 2009 (F) - Ive been with my boyfriend for over 3 months now and when I got with him I thought I really liked him. He allways liked me before we got together anyways, and hes such a nice guy who has allot of respect and allot of asperations in life. So I ...

Do I tell mum that dad is looking for escort massages?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5286 days ago

6 November 2009 (F) - ok so my dad is generally a really decent guy and nothing like this has ever happened before; he is really family orientated. but i have recently seen on the interent history that he has been searching for escort massages ( i assume that this is ...

How do I talk to my sister about her taking my DVD and deteriorating it?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5288 days ago

6 November 2009 (F) - I have just discovered that my sister borrowed my favourite DVD without my permission. Not only this; she also had the audacity to leave it on a rough surface, causing it to become very scratched. When I told my mum about this, she confessed that ...

How can he not like sex and prefer masturbating?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5288 days ago

6 November 2009 (F) - I am in a relationship with someone, but the thing is, he doesn't like sex. We've had it before, but he says he gets bored and it doesn't interest him/ doesn't feel as good as masturbating. "Why should i do in a vagina, what i can do with my hand?" ...

If I tell him the engagement is off surely it will break up our relationship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5288 days ago

6 November 2009 (F) - i'm 16 and engaged. my friends think i'm insane but i love him and want to spend the rest of my life with him. it is only a ring and we have agreed not to get married until i have finished university. what is the big deal? maybe it is too soon to ...

How can I stop my addiction and stop these fantasies running through my mind?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5288 days ago

6 November 2009 (F) - Hi everybody. I'm 16 year old and I have a pretty big problem. I never thought that I'd go through this but it has gone to this extent that I have to get external help. I am and have been addicted to pornography for about 5 months now. Ever since I ...

I'm in love or infactuated with my female gym teacher, what do I do to get over her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5288 days ago

6 November 2009 (F) - ok so im fifteen years old im a lesbian and is greatly attracted to my ex gym teacher,i had her in 2008-2009 and whenthe school year was over i worked in the school. during my work hours i desided to tell her how i felt she told me that she was a ...

I want to have sex on the prom night, what do you think?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5288 days ago

6 November 2009 (F) - I want to have sex on prom night. And just b/c i'ts prom night. I can and i probably will. My b/f is sweet and hot and prom is the perfect time to do it. What do you think? He's coming from out of town and i wanna make it special. any tips t...

He told his girlfriend he loves her, but I think he really wants to be with me...what should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5287 days ago

6 November 2009 (F) - I recently got out of a relationship 2 month ago with "A". Before dating him I was going out with another boy "D" from Feb. 2008 until August 2008. me and A went from from April 2009 until August 2009. I thought that I was in love with A ...

How long should I date someone before expecting a kiss or more...?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5287 days ago

6 November 2009 (M) - Hi everyone. I just wanted to know how long after dating someone in high school should I try to kiss them. Also How long after going out should I start hinting about sex. You know? Like indicating that we should. Not saying thats what I'm out ...

Could he like me back?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5288 days ago

6 November 2009 (F) - i am 13 years old and there is this guy i really like i think its possible he likes me but i am way to scared to ask him he is 14...

Are they setting me up for something?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5288 days ago

6 November 2009 (F) - Hello. please don't judge me until you read it till the end.it may sound silly and just lame teens thing,but its not ,please take the time to read it and help me. I'm 16 years old and when i was 13 my family moved to another state .it was ha...

How do I help her cope with past sexual abuse?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5286 days ago

6 November 2009 (M) - hey i would really appreciate some help on this because its not getting easier. my girlfriend told me she was sexually abused by her uncle for as long as she can remember, but we werent going out then, but ever since we have been going out, 3 mon...

What can I do to help her get over this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5288 days ago

6 November 2009 (M) - I've been dating my girlfriend, "Nicole", for almost a year now. I have had one previous girlfriend, "Molly", who I dated a few years before Nicole. I'm Nicole's first real boyfriend and she is very turned off by the fact that Molly and I had an ...

Will she stop talking to me if I tell her how I feel?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5288 days ago

6 November 2009 (M) - I have feeling for my cousin but never told her. and I want to tell her but am to scard to. Im not shour that she will stop talking to me or not? Will she say that she feels the same or not? I love her and she loves me to but im not shour that she ...