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Archived questions from: 26 November, 2009 (see latest in Teenage category)

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Teenage: Help and advice

We seemed to get along so well. Why is he ignoring me now?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5269 days ago

26 November 2009 (F) - so me n this guy are best friends. we liked each other alot over halloween and before. we had kissed multiple times and he kept on saying he was gonna ask me out but he never did. so last week i started going out with this guy. and now he wont text ...

Is this love or just infatuation?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5267 days ago

26 November 2009 (F) - i love this dude so much. i have mix emotions about him but i know that i truly love him [as a friend]. we met each other when i was about 7 and he was 10 from that day our eyes met. i still remember when we met. i just cant stop thinking about him ...

Are condoms safe enough without using birth control?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5262 days ago

26 November 2009 (F) - Hi everyone. Well, me and my boyfriend are planning to have sex soon, and we are both virgins. Of course we're planning on using protection to prevent pregnancy and infections. The thing is, is it okay to only use condoms on the first time and not ...

I was raped in the past and don't want to make out with my boyfriend.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5269 days ago

26 November 2009 (F) - so me and my bf have been goin out for a while and we kiss all the time but hes been wanting to makeout. i asked him if we could take our relationship a little slower and he said yes but i do want to makeout with him, i just dont know how. People ...

He can't let my past go...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5269 days ago

26 November 2009 (F) - My boyfriend wont forget what has happened to me in the past, he is always saying how it affects him and makes him upset, but he still says that he loves me loads and its only when he is reminded about what happened he hates me and wonders why he is ...

My boyfriend physically and mentally drains me... I'm so unhappy...

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3394 days ago

26 November 2009 (F) - Hello to everyone that responds to my question. I've been with my boyfriend for almost 3 years. The relationship started out ok, and its been alright since. I enjoy his company sometimes, but half of the time he mentally exhausts me. Once upon a t...

I think he's avoiding me and it's breaking my heart... what should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5269 days ago

26 November 2009 (F) - i think the boy i like is avoiding me, hes a good friend of mine so we normally go round with our friends together which i like because we usually have really funny conversations, but for some reason he isnt talking to me as much and ignoring me i ...

I have a plan! What do you think? Should I tell him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5269 days ago

26 November 2009 (F) - ok i'm 16 and well i like this guy in my grade. he's really awesome and i really really like him. i've never liked any guy more then i've liked him. anyway he still likes his ex-girlfriend. everyone knows i like him, even he knows and well i've ...

He wants to go to "next base." What does this mean exactly?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5269 days ago

26 November 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I have only kissed (not made out) and he said maybe we could "go to the next base" But I was always told 1st base was making out, so what do you think he means? Haha....

Is he going off me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5269 days ago

26 November 2009 (F) - i been dating this boy since i was a freshmen in high school, he is now in college and im now a senior. He agreed that we would stay together. The first year of college everything was ok but this year everything went wrong, he would only call me ...

He doesn't have a girlfriend any more, is now my chance to tell him I like him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5268 days ago

26 November 2009 (F) - hey there i need advice. i like this guy in my college class he only just 16 thou and im 17.. we flirt all the time an are always looking at each over but his friends are people that put me in hospital a long time ago, he's noting like then i know ...

My boyfriend slapped me... what should I do for him to forgive me?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5269 days ago

26 November 2009 (F) - What should i do my boyfriend slapped me? What should i do for him to forgive me? me and my boyfriend got in a big argument about where we will spend thanksgiving and i said a few things and kicked him where it would hurt the most.. cause he was p...

I physically can't seem to have an orgasm... any suggestions?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5269 days ago

26 November 2009 (F) - I have never had an orgasm before in my life i have had 6 partners but they can ever seem to make me cum. the only time i have is when i do it myself but its my clit that sets it off. i need answers i feel like the only one in the world with this ...

How can I satisfy myself without having sex with someone else?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5267 days ago

26 November 2009 (F) - hello everyone. i am 14 years old and well I have been experimenting with my body. I touch myself, finger myself, use the shower head... but i dont feel satisfied - and im not going to have sex. What is something i can do to satisfy myself? PLEASE ...

It's killing me now that hes not talking to me.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5266 days ago

26 November 2009 (F) - So around the beginning of summer i ran away with two friends an met their friend, he is the best guy i have ever met, i talked to him on the phone all the time an facebook an msn an he came down for a couple a days, btw he lives like 2 hours away ...

Is it normal for a woman to feel exhausted the day after having sex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5269 days ago

26 November 2009 (F) - Is it normal for a woman to feel exhausted the day after having sex? I know a lot of men are tired straight after sex but is it normal for women the day after?...

Should I tell my bestfriend her boyfriend is cheating on her?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5269 days ago

26 November 2009 (F) - hey! i have this best friend of mine at school and she has a boyfriend whom she's been with for 4 years or so... he's also at the same school. her boyfriend comes to the same tuition place at me [we go there for extra classes] and there he flirts ...

Age gap with problems

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5269 days ago

26 November 2009 (F) - I am 15 and am year 11 at school, i met this guy in year 9 (two years younger) about 3 months ago. over these 3 months we have got closer and closer, last month though i slept with another guy and this really made my close friend very angry although ...

He's got a girlfriend but wants to sleep with me!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5267 days ago

26 November 2009 (F) - hey im 17 and there this guy on my college course that i thought like me but it turns out he got a girlfriend, but he keeps asking if i want to sleep with him, i mean i wanted too.. but now i know he got a girlfriend i dont know what to do pls ...

What are the chances I got my 14 year old girlfriend pregnant? Help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5269 days ago

26 November 2009 (M) - Last night i had sex for the first time with my girlfriend. It was great, but im super worried because only after did i realize in my rushed attempts to put a condom on, i tried to put it on the wrong way. There was spermidical lubricant where the ...

How can I rebuild my trust for him after I found these texts on his phone?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5269 days ago

26 November 2009 (F) - Iv been with my partner for a couple of months now, and he knows i suffer from really bad trust issues due to a past relationship. But yesterday i was looking on his mobile ( yeah i know its wrong but its something i do to make myself feel better) ...

What type of skin colour do girls prefer?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5269 days ago

26 November 2009 (M) - hi. my skin colour is quite fair comparing to the people of my country. recently i read two women's interview in newspaper and they both said they will prefere less fair skin coloured guys. my cousin also says like that. here in , south asian ...

First he likes me then he doesn't.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5269 days ago

26 November 2009 (F) - ok so i was on facebook looking through my friends photo album when i seen a guy i was attracted to, now i dont usually do this but my friend convinced me to randomly add him so i did. after he private msged me asking if i knew him and that he ...

How do I get over my impossible crush?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5259 days ago

26 November 2009 (F) - Hi, I'm 17 and I'm a senior in high school. I have this crush on my teacher--well, he's going to be my calculus (and homeroom) teacher next semester, in a couple months. But he's also my assigned guidance counselor, and I've told him some personal ...

I feel like I jump down my boyfriend's throat for stupid things.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5269 days ago

26 November 2009 (F) - I feel like I jump down my boyfriend's throat for stupid things. He's so clueless most of the time about what I want him to do, and I feel like I need to let him know but when I do he gets upset because he really doesn't mean to do anything wrong. ...

Plz help me my fiance is driving me crazy wit all his lies....

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5270 days ago

26 November 2009 (F) - My fiance for 15 months has lied over and over and im sooo tired of all da lies.. We always argue and he always makes me feel bad like its my fault... When we argue he is always rude and says hurtful things and says he is gonna take our daughter ...

Weve been together for 5 months, we have never gone farther than making out. is this normal?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5268 days ago

26 November 2009 (F) - Me and my boyfriend have been together for 5 months now and i am completely crazy about him. however, even though weve been together for 5 months, we have never gone farther than making out. is this normal? he is 18 and i am 16. i am his first girl ...

Good Friend or The Boy

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5270 days ago

26 November 2009 (F) - A good friend of mine likes this guy, but i like him too. But, she dated him for a week, and they broke up, and i think he's really starting to like me. What should i do? Be a loyal friend or take a chance? ...

Is it a date?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5269 days ago

26 November 2009 (F) - Hi, For the past couple of months i have been working at Wendy's and recently this guy has been working there. I think that he is interested in me, we flirt every single chance we get. The second day we worked together he gave me his number a...

What to say to a girl when she's on her period for fear of upsetting her?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5269 days ago

26 November 2009 (M) - I need help on talking to this girl, I don't know what to say to her because she's on her period and I'm afraid I'll say something and that she will take it the wrong way, or something I need tips, I'm a pretty opened up person too, I can make a lot ...

I need some ideas what to buy him this Christmas...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5263 days ago

26 November 2009 (F) - Hey I need help with a simple situation. Christmas is coming up and I have no idea what I should get my boyfriend I'm really not good when it comes to shopping for guys my boyfriend is 24 years old Any ideas will be highly appreciated!!! ...

So confused about my sexuality...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5269 days ago

26 November 2009 (F) - I'm 14, female, and well I thought I was gay. I have always found girls attractive. I have had a couple boyfriends, but I felt bad because I never really "liked" them. I've had very strong feelings for girls. I've even told a girl that I love her. I ...

Unprotected sex... now I'm worried I may be pregnant!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5269 days ago

26 November 2009 (F) - hi im 17 and have a boyfriend i have been having unprotected sex with. thing is i wasnt meant to be due on my period until the 6th december but i come on today which is a week and a half early, this keeps happening, its happend about 3 times now, i ...

It's his birthday next week and I STILL have no idea what to get him. Any ideas?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5270 days ago

26 November 2009 (M) - my boyfriend and i have been going out for a month and a half. his birthday is on monday and i still don't know what he would want. i keep asking him, and all he says is "i don't know, surprise me." which basically makes him no help. any ideas? ...

Help! In love with my boyfriend's best friend!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5270 days ago

26 November 2009 (F) - I'm really confused right now and i don't know what to do. I like my boyfriend's best friend! but i still have feelings for my boyfriend. I feel horrible. Help! :( ..please :(!!...

How can I let my friend see I want to spend more time with my boyfriend?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5268 days ago

26 November 2009 (F) - I got a boyfriend on Sunday, but I haven't been able to spend much time with him because my friend "Lucy" doesn't seem to grasp the concept that I want to spend time with him as well. I want to let her know, but I don't want to do it in a way that ...

I have a serious problem with eating... Please help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5270 days ago

26 November 2009 (F) - hello. im 17 years old and for the past 3 months i have not been eating properly, i was a size 12 but im now a 10 i eat an apple a day and drink water, looking at food makes me want to be sick. my family have not noticed yet as im really clever a...

I just want to have meaningless sex with him!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5270 days ago

26 November 2009 (F) - There is this boy at school who I am very sexually attracted too. He is one of those bad boys, I don't have a crush on him I just want to have meaningless sex with him lol. Should I tell him I want to? We flirt sometimes, whenever he talks to me it...